Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

I treat her well, show her affection, and still she snaps and raises her voice at me from time to time. I told her I want out of the relationship, but she says she'll change. Can people really change? I love her, but i refuse to be her whipping boy, and I've told her this many times. I believe her attitude comes from her past experiences...I am running out of compassion and understanding...am I wrong??

2006-11-18 17:15:45 · 19 answers · asked by alex m 3 in Singles & Dating

It's seemed like this girl and i were moving toward a relationship. We acted like we were gonna be together. We went out and kissed an all that. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now and not sure when. She wants to stay friends for now. Why!

2006-11-18 17:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother is seeing a man,that I dislike. He makes crude comments towards me like'how much tissue do you use for your bra?' He makes me feel uncomfortable when he is around. My mom doesn't say anything to him about his actions. She only laughs and goes along with it. I know that if I go to the police about him ,my mom will not take my side. I'm scared what will happen if I say something. My mom recently got us back from foster care,so I am scared that I will have to go back...What do I do??

2006-11-18 17:13:07 · 33 answers · asked by princess_kayla14 1 in Family

Is there a way to tell other than just flat out asking? Do they look or feel different when the guy has a hardon?

2006-11-18 17:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by shelley b 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend ever is a guy I work with. He and I have shared everything with each other. We have even fooled around a little. When I say a little, I mean we have not gone all the way, just to third base. When i started having feeling for him, I told him. He told me that he had feelings too, but we had to end our little bedroom ventures because the friendship is more important. Well, I agreed and our friendship stayed as strong as ever. Well, now he has been dropping hints that he wants to fool around again. We went on lunch the other day and he wound up kissing me in my car before we went back to work. I am confused as to what he really wants from me. I love the guy as my best friend, but and holding back other feelings to keep from getting hurt. What should I do???

2006-11-18 17:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by ncangel33 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in love with a man 15 years back. But, I'm married to another man and staying in another city now. Though I always try to forget him, but I just can't, I always remember him. I don't have any contact with him. I don't know if he still loves me. Even after all these years of my marriage to another man, just thinking about him gives me goose bumps and I feel happy just to visualize his face. My husband is caring and loving, still the other man's thoughts just follwing me like a shadow.
Am I fantasizing? Am I in love? What's wrong with me? Please help.

2006-11-18 17:11:40 · 16 answers · asked by Just4YA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We haven't had sex for 3 weeks.Previous to that it had been 3 months.I come on to him and try to get him interested,but it doesn't work.He even gets a little irritated sometimes with me.I usually end up just sitting up late and crying.I feel like just leaving sometimes.Please help!

2006-11-18 17:11:14 · 31 answers · asked by brownifox2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 17:09:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 17:08:49 · 16 answers · asked by XX_runescape_rox_XX 1 in Family

i hate parents!!!! wtf is wrong w/ them y did i get such crzy *** ones??? i wanna move out but i can't!!!! my mom gets mad over the stupidest things. she just asked me if i wanted peanuts and i said yes but she said i would have to get my own bowl and but i didn't feel like getting up and going to the kitchen (i already sat down) yea so wut if i'm lazy i'm a teenager ok and even if i wasn't it's not like i was doing anything mean or harmful. and i said it nicely to her(even though she doesn't deserve it becuz she's always taking to me like a ***** and yelling at me infront of other ppl too not just home). but nywayz she starts getting really mad going way blowing it way out of proprtion. and starts lecutirng me for it and goes up to the kitchen and brings a bowl and slams it down on the table w/ attitude and anger!!! all for a ****** bowl of peanuts tht I wanted ME not her!!! i'm at the point where i can't take it anymore and i wanna move far far away but i can't wut should i do?

2006-11-18 17:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family

I've been seeing this man for about two and half months. We spend time together 3 or 4 days a week. We're having sex--great sex regularly and have agreed to be "sexually exclusive" since we had our STD screenings and are not using protection. The relationship has it's quirks...he'd rather chat on Yahoo than talk on the phone for instance. But over all things are pretty good....however I don't feel like I am officially his girlfriend. Thanksgiving is next week...he asked me what I was doing, but didn't extend an invitation to join him and when I said I was thinking about cooking and would love to have him over his answer was that he didn't know what he was doing.

I'm confused---am I his girlfriend? I feel like I'm in limbo...not really his girlfriend but more than a friend with benefits....and if I'm not his girlfriend, does that mean he's still looking?

2006-11-18 17:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with this girl for about 9 mos. and i know she loves me and i love her, but she doesn't want a relationship. We're just very, very close friends. should i just forget about her, just pretend that we're in a reltiionship(since we pretty much are) or just be friends.

2006-11-18 17:04:02 · 19 answers · asked by Durdy 3 in Singles & Dating

He will sit there and just stare at me with the slightest grin. I'll look over and I will smile back. Does he like me or is this really weird???

2006-11-18 17:03:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the past year I have lost most everything. My family (I had a falling out with them that can never be forgiven as I can't make up for it and my daughter doesn't live with me anymore although I have custody, she lives with my mom and is a teenager so can't be forced to live with me), I lost a good paying job and have a much lower paying one and I sometimes make mistakes on it from not being throroughly trained and having to guess at stuff, I have no real friends, no man in my life and live in a bad neighborhood where I can't be out past dark even if it is 6 pm. I have no way to meet people because I work every weekend and evenings. I don't work that many hours, it's just the hours I work make it difficult to meet people as it's hard to find singles activities at church or anywhere in the middle of a weekday. On the nights I am off I stay in because it isn't safe to walk to the busstop as I was robbed by my apartment door last year and no, I can't move anywhere.

2006-11-18 17:02:13 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Friends

Are girls more into the athletic frat boy type or more into the rich boy fun type?

2006-11-18 17:02:08 · 13 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend called me today and gave me this shocking news , the guy she likes and going out with lately , called her tonight and told her about his ex , well this guy has slept with alot of girls year ago , he wanted to change and he changed since he dated my friend and wanted to change his life , she had a hard time to deal with the fact that he slept with alot of girls , today he told her about this girl he slept with who got pregnant while back and she gave birth , after this while she called himt onight to surprise him that he is the father of the kid (the girl lives in another state and gave him the results over the phone that her sons father is him) can that actually be ? doesnt he need to be tested as well?

Okay there is two questions here , could this be lie and shouldnt he be tested to be really sure that he is the father? not only her being tested to prove that?

second question , if that is true what she should do about him? i think she should let go of him and just be his friends , because i think it wont work knowing there is a kid out there and he is a father , and for sure he will do anything for the kid and there will be this connection here and there forever between him and his ex or just those problems she is going to deal with.

P.S the girl doesnt like my friends b/f or liked him that much before , they were togather for only few weeks when they slept togather , so as you can tell there wasnt any "love" or serious thing


Thanks.

2006-11-18 17:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you mind guys just coming up and chatting with you at the gym, club, store....?

2006-11-18 17:00:45 · 126 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious.... i was just at a wedding yesterday and all the looser guys that were looking to hook up with the bridesmaids were successful...

2006-11-18 17:00:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I grocery shop at Walmart, and they don't usually load your bags into your cart, so I have to do it myself, which means that I have to move away from the register in order to do so. Quite a few times, the person behind me has moved up to stand in front of, or place their basket in front of the register and the little place where you write your checks out, leaving me no place to stand and pay for my groceries. One time, I had to balance my checkbook on my knee because some woman moved up to stand right in front of the register. She saw me struggling to write out my check, but she still kept standing there. I have been quite so far, but I really think that this is so rude and I feel like I need to react in some way to these people, to get them to understand that they are being rude and inconsiderate of the person in front of them. How would you react to this kind of person?

2006-11-18 16:57:24 · 20 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me what your feeling for him/her ,, discuss your 1st crush..

2006-11-18 16:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by tiger_agra 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I met this guy which is 19 (I'm 15). He is leaving to go overseas for 2 years. We really like each other,but I'm not sure if I am ready to have something this serious. I want him to still be in my life,but there are other people that I may want to date while he's gone. Here's my question.... Should we just take the next 2 years to get to know each other and go from there?? Should I just tell him we can be friends?

2006-11-18 16:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by princess_kayla14 1 in Singles & Dating

we've been through a lot tokgether but i'm still young. i love him so much but i have guy friends and he doesnt like that i hang out with them.HELP! what shokuld i do.

2006-11-18 16:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by Teesa F 1 in Singles & Dating

why if a gurl sleeps with a guy, a guy can later on call her a hoar and then her reputation is ruined but if a guy sleeps around he *the man* whatz up with that in our society? will that ever change or will it stick around forever?

2006-11-18 16:55:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i nee dhelp he a shy guy and i love hi his name :nathan garlitiz: if u know him or not help me how can i tell if he loves me back i told him over the phone and could not tell what he was doing

2006-11-18 16:55:09 · 4 answers · asked by teesa 1 in Friends

My sister was soo cool at the school she used to go to and I go to it now. So everyone dosnt know I am her sister. ONce they find out, there like "Your ___ sister!" Or "That is ____ sister?" like a good thing. And all the teachers at that school were like, "____ was my best student" like teacher pet way. How do I become like my sister? She being popular and everyone knowing her scence I go to the same school. And how can I be a teachers pet like her??? (please dont say be yourself because that is what I am not looking for)

2006-11-18 16:55:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Who out there has loved an alcoholic? How do you deal? How long did you love him/her, or do you still? What does it mean to love someone like this? That we have no self-esteem?

2006-11-18 16:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(my friend) talks trash about me. i've heard what she said about me. the next day, she starts talking 2 me like nothing happened!
i feel like beating her up, but i don't want to get in trouble!what should i tell her!PLEAZE HELP ME!

2006-11-18 16:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥andreaaa 4 in Friends

Okay here is my question, and I am looking for all answers, Please no kid answers
. Okay so we all are on here because we have questons some seem serious others are just bored people with no life and nothing better to do with their time. But what I want to know is when you post a guestion that is really stupid or just ignorant and you get a sarcastic remark for an answer why do you get angry and e-mail with a nasty comment? You posted it, and sometimes it deserves a sarcastic remark or comment. Or why when you ask a stupid or ignorant question and you get offended by the response, why do you run and report it as abuse? Can anyone out here help me figure out why these people get so upset when they act stupid.. IE: "is it required to have sex after you get married" HELP looking for some sense here.... :) :)

2006-11-18 16:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by melissa052572 3 in Singles & Dating

I liked this guy and no one really knew...
then yesterday he drunk dialed me...saying
"ur gorgeous, if anyone told u otherwise, i'd beat the hell out of them...u never call me so i'm calling u, we need to start hanging out...ur so pretty"

he was obviously drunk...so do ppl really say what they feel...or was it just the alcohol talking?!

also...i saw him today...he remembered the call he made...and he laughed about it...but other than that he was sort of distant...

what does this mean?!

2006-11-18 16:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anita L 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with this guy for 4 days do dou you think a kiss on the cheek on the 6th day is well... ok

2006-11-18 16:52:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating