2006-11-18 17:08:49 · 16 answers · asked by XX_runescape_rox_XX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
please help
2006-11-18 17:09:35 · update #1
This is going to be tough.
2006-11-18 17:21:04 · update #2
I think ill go with calling him....from another country.
2006-11-18 17:23:48 · update #3
How old are you? Start out by asking your Dad how he feels about gay people. If he is not hostile, tell him. Eventually you will have to be honest with those close to you. Peace.
2006-11-18 17:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this is a very delicate issue and has to be handled very very carefully.
You need to be on your own with your dad maybe in a public place but I personally think it has to be done in private away from anyone who can interrupt you.
You yourself will feel so much better if you tell him face to face cause then you can see his reaction.
He might even have an idea that you are Gay already!!
At the end of the day he is your Dad and he should love you know matter what but there is a certain age group that still have an issue with this and it will be hard for both of you.
Let me know how you get on good luck hope it all works out for you.
2006-11-19 01:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by vicksta75 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he may already know but it's still a good idea to sit him down and talk to him about who you are, how you feel about who you are and ask him to support you even if he doesn't understand it. Most parents would rather love their child than to abandon them. If you don't think that will work try using a support groop, talk to a councelor or have a peer person assist you in telling your dad. He might be angry at first but if this is something that he has no idea about he will need time to adjust to the new information. Sexuality is NOT something you choose. You are born with it and no matter how hard you try to "change" it ... it's who you are inside. You deserve to be happy and live life for who you are. Good Luck! I hope it all works out well when you tell your dad. Gina
2006-11-18 17:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just set him down tell him you love and respect him and hope he'll do the same with the information your about to give him. He might be shocked or disappointed at first but we parents have unconditional love for our children and he'll always love you. He might ask though that you not bring your love interest around when you visit, but I'm sure after a missed holiday or two he soften up.
2006-11-18 17:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Carefully. If he's completely homophobic, I'd wait until you're out of the house, and if you already are, stick with the previous advice.
2006-11-18 17:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u simply just sit him down and explain to him slowly whats going on with you. dont spit it out but just slowly tell him who the real you is, and if he doesnt understand and disowns you as his son well then be proud u told him and live ur life, but if he accepts ur decision, be happy that he loves you no matter who u are but know alot of people in society wont like it. but it seems u are strong so i hope the best with you.
2006-11-18 17:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Over the phone
2006-11-18 17:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he gone to love you no matter what just seat down and talk to him. i know its hard for me to say that because im not in your shoes and i wish you the best of luck i know it must be hard on you
2006-11-18 17:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell your dad remember alway be true to tha self.pick a time when he not upset are stressed out and talk to him.
2006-11-18 17:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm.......how old r u if u r absolutely positive just say dad i think i have an intrest in guys
2006-11-18 17:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by h_dawg 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋