Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

2006-11-18 18:09:37 · 10 answers · asked by moegan 1 in Friends

im 13 and im bored there are no cute guys at my school so what other places can i go to meet cute guys

2006-11-18 18:09:07 · 17 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Singles & Dating

i am married 5 years to a wonderful man. but been having an affair with my best g/f! after all the advise on here , i have decided to end it! how do i tell her i love my husband and it is over with us?

2006-11-18 18:08:34 · 19 answers · asked by sissy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it too formal or dressy for going out on a date?or should I
wait until it gets a little colder ?

2006-11-18 18:07:48 · 3 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi! Okay, I'm a 17 year old girl and I am usually friendly and I smile a lot. It is just my personality, people say when I am mad they can't tell because I'm still smiling. Well I try to be friendly to everyone and yet I am still a little shy around those I don't know. Well I get along with most people and I seem to attract stalker-ish types of men as well as older men. I am a Christian so I have decided to wait until marriage. But I still love to have a good time. My guy friends/co-workers told me I was "beautiful" or told others I was "hot" (which I don't believe) yet they go out with other girls willing to do more than I. I also recently found out several of my guy friends "wanted" to ask me out, yet they haven't. I rarely get asked out by guys my own age...what is wrong with me?!!

2006-11-18 18:06:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"Your love is my sheild from this cold world and forever i will hide untill our hearts die."

“I feel like running away from it all, but I’ll just hide in ur heart until the day I die”

"Your hands is capturing every little pain inside of me; without you I hurt"

2006-11-18 18:05:31 · 12 answers · asked by Tbaby 3 in Marriage & Divorce

are you comfortable with your body and feel good about yourself? do you like to show yourself off to others? do you feel sexy....

2006-11-18 18:05:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy in one of my classes at school (college), and he always sits in the very back of class alone. He's really nice and a little bit shy (and very good looking). We've worked together a couple of times and one time when we got to pick our partners he straight away picked me. Last class we had to go around and ask a certain number of people one question each. I asked a couple of people and then saw him still sitting in the back of the room alone. We made eye contact and he motioned for me to come over, so i did. He asked me multiple questions and told me to keep asking him. We did this until someone came to talk with him. (He also worked with another guy to buy my cookies in a class auction). He's at least 4 years older than me.

2006-11-18 18:04:53 · 7 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

Initially when I met him, it was clear that he was attracted to me but I wasn't interested because of the age difference - He's 24, I'm 28 and we're both in the same graduate program. When we slept together, I regretted it and wanted us to stop being friends. He says he wants to be with me. I let him know I was dating around. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else and he said no. He's been upfront about his past relationships in telling me how girls were always acting 'crazy' over him.

Later he switched and started saying that he's not ready for a relationship and wants us to remain friends. I told him that either we're together or we're not friends and walked away from him. Afterwards, I felt bad which is surprising because normally I don't care about those things. So I decided to give friendship a try. A few days later, he's begging me for “one last kiss.” -------------->

2006-11-18 18:04:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not talking about those who are in serious relationships, just those of us who are single and dating.

2006-11-18 18:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to wake him up by kissing his... it's just that he freaks out whenever someone touches him in his sleep. He jumps and looks kinda like he is scared. I've "joked" with him about this before, and he said he'd love it, but I don't know what I can do to make sure he doesn't freak out cuz it'll ruin the moment for me. Please help! He is sleeping right now...

2006-11-18 18:00:55 · 17 answers · asked by m17monalisa 1 in Singles & Dating

I had been dating a woman for 3 weeks or so. Things went 'all the way' physically. We hung out a few times after that. Suddenly 1 week ago she stopped returning calls and texts. I finally texted, since she doesn't answer when I call, and asked her to at least tell me what happened, but she hasn't resonded. What is her problem?

2006-11-18 18:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by mu 4 in Singles & Dating

I get to be a stay at home mom and be with my son, I get money to spend and I have ben with him 4 years.
BUt iam not happy, I am longing for something else and it isnt him or anyone else for that matter.
The thing is almost a year ago he physically assualted me (like beat up) and I almost called the cops on him, but then he pretty much begged me not to and he would change...since then he hasnt done anything.
But I am afraid that incident seriously deleted any loving feelings I had with him and I have been living a lie since then.
I have told him this, and he said he doesnt want me to leave or care that he is living a lie.
I dont know what to do.

2006-11-18 18:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which makes you feel special?

2006-11-18 18:00:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get to be a stay at home mom and be with my son, I get money to spend and I have ben with him 4 years.
BUt iam not happy, I am longing for something else and it isnt him or anyone else for that matter.
The thing is almost a year ago he physically assualted me (like beat up) and I almost called the cops on him, but then he pretty much begged me not to and he would change...since then he hasnt done anything.
But I am afraid that incident seriously deleted any loving feelings I had with him and I have been living a lie since then.
I have told him this, and he said he doesnt want me to leave or care that he is living a lie.
I dont know what to do.

2006-11-18 17:59:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a slight arguement with my friend today. Where she offered me a ride home and i wouldnt take it
she wanted to know why i wouldnt take it and why i push people away
i basically told her that she never has to worry about me
shes says that she just wants to help and cares that if i ever needed her she was there

then she sent me an email saying this

I just wanted to apologize for how hard I pushed you tonight. I had absolutely no right to butt into your personal buisness like I did. I hope that you can forgive me. Just please understand that it hurts me so much to see my friends in pain. And no, you are not "dragging me down" and yes, I do care, and I care on my own free will. I'm truly greatful that you accepted my offer for the ride because you live a long ways away. Know this: if you need me, I'm here for you...and I know Will is too. You've helped me so much in the past, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now if it weren't for you...so please let me do something for you in return. Even if what you is for me to stay away now, I will. I apologize again. Good night mon ami.

Your friend
Christa

so then i sent her this

i saying this as softly as I can

your not sorry ok

you did nothing wrong

im going to say it again

you did absolutely nothing wrong

its me Christa

i always pushed away its come from my experiences

its the way ive been brought up

I wont ask anyone for a dollar, i wont ask anyone for a ride its just the way i am

if i had to walk 3 miles out of my way to help you or anyone else out i would because that was never done for me


I truly appreciate the care you give and what you both did tonight

its just i never had that before i never had that caring

i didnt know how to react



if you want to know whats really going on with me right now i would tell you


i dont want anything in return as far as im concered i didnt do anything for you that you wouldnt do for me


i just want you to be yourself

thats it


i want you to laugh at my jokes when you think there funny i want you to smile when you want to smile

watching you or anyone else laugh because of something i did or said gives me more than you could imagine


Christa i know you still dont want to hear this

im the last person you ever need to worry about

i think its spectacular how you care after i say that

ill find my way through anything ill go over anybody

I would never hurt you.

i would never tell you to go away ever

im sorry for what happenend. Ill take responsiblity.

thank you Christa you gave me something i never had.

if you ever need me for anything im right here
ill always your shoulder to fall back on

shes read it and she hasnt replied back so what i want to know is did i do anything wrong is she angry what can i do to make this right or have i already made it right

2006-11-18 17:59:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my girlfriend have been through a lot... family problems, racism, school and work. we're both19 and she's helped me become a success in my mind, being able to support myself financially and manage school at the same time. I have always tried to be there for her... when she was lost in another city i drove 3 hours to get her... and she's stayed up countless nights giving me moral support when i'm working @ 3.am. I'm only 19 but for the past 7 months i've basically not been sleeping and working close to 15 hours a day almost everyday. Recently it paid off and i've made enough money to almost buy a small house. Now im not super rich, but last week i bought a very expensive ring for her because i love her and i'm thinking of asking her to marry me. both our parents dont approve of our relationship because my parents are traditional chinese and hers are traditional italian but i dont care and neither does she... so would it be wrong to propose to her considering all of this?

2006-11-18 17:58:57 · 17 answers · asked by ilovecoronaaa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Physically.

2006-11-18 17:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl and i really likes each other so much.. i havent ask her out, cuz thiers alot of things in the way.. yes we express how much we love each other. she is like stressing over alot of things.. but she wont tell me.. one of the things shes stressing out is her best friend, she liked me for about more then 5 months, and she feels that shes betraying her.. now im like so scared that she would have to let me go.. can anyone give me an advice or a guide line to follow..

2006-11-18 17:57:35 · 6 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

I already have the ring, and I know she's the one. I need some ideas on how to pop the question. Any ideas? I'm looking for something creative and not cheesy....

2006-11-18 17:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jon S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How often do you get to see 'em?

2006-11-18 17:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 17:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Whats is the more important quality in a guy?

2006-11-18 17:55:13 · 10 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I havent seen each other in 3 days because of reasons that arent relevent to our relationship, and just today he freaks out in saying that I never hang out with him any more. Is three days really that big of a deal?...

2006-11-18 17:54:58 · 5 answers · asked by Red 1 in Singles & Dating

me, i love to spread a blanket in front of the fireplace,put on my favorite lingerie, and share a glass of wine with my favorite lover and watch the flames....

2006-11-18 17:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actions, or promises make you feel better?
Which ones would make you feel better?

Thanks.

2006-11-18 17:53:35 · 9 answers · asked by Muse 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 17:53:15 · 25 answers · asked by vinny c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 4-5 days now. WILL HE MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN???

2006-11-18 17:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Singles & Dating

MY FRIEND HAS DECIDED SHE IS NOT HAPPY WITH HER HUSBAND ANYMORE AND WANTS A DIVORCE......SHE SAYS HER HUSBAND SAID HE WILL NEVER SIGN ANYTHING AND IF SHE FOUGHT FOR A DIVORCE HE WOULD NEVER LET HER GET THEIR 4 YR OLD GIRL(HE SAYS SHE WILL NEVER GET HER BECAUSE SHE HAS NO WAY OF SUPPORTING BOTH OF THEM).SHE IS SO DESPERATE....SHE SAYS SHE JUST MIGHT TAKE HER DAUGHTER AND RUN.......I AM TRYING TO TALK HER OUT OF THAT.....BUT SHE SAYS ITS HER ONLY OPTION ...HE WOULD NEVER AGREE WITH THE DIVORCE AND WOULD NEVER LET HER TAKE THEIR GIRL......HOW CAN I MAKE HER FEEL BETTER AND WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF SHE DID RUN OFF WITH THEIR GIRL........WOULDN'T SHE JUST GET INTO MORE TROBLE..?! CAN ANY ONE HELP ME IN TELLING HER WHAT TO DO? THIS IS SERIOUS.....THANKX

2006-11-18 17:51:34 · 13 answers · asked by aliyah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If I photoshop porn pics or victoria's secret picture so that the head will be someone else's (I use heads of hot girls in my school)
I just spend 4 hours making several of these pics.

2006-11-18 17:51:17 · 27 answers · asked by dude 1 in Singles & Dating