I would like to wake him up by kissing his... it's just that he freaks out whenever someone touches him in his sleep. He jumps and looks kinda like he is scared. I've "joked" with him about this before, and he said he'd love it, but I don't know what I can do to make sure he doesn't freak out cuz it'll ruin the moment for me. Please help! He is sleeping right now...
2006-11-18 18:00:55 · 17 answers · asked by m17monalisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you can't say I didn't try... :(
I tried kinda whispering to him, gently massaging his shoulder and kissing him form outside his Tshirt (He's a little ticklish). I got his belt undone and kissed his tummy a few times, and he pushed me away (the tickle reaction) So I tried to whisper some more, telling him what I wanted to do. I guess that started to tickle him too and he turned away. It ruined it for me. It's kinda like rejection. He told me he would love for me to do it, but I don't want to get hurt. I would love to wake him up this way... any more suggestions?
2006-11-18 18:29:15 · update #1
Have you watched 40 YEAR OLD VIRGIN?
The woman kissing his toes and he kicks the crap outta her. That was just a reaction.
I suggest not doing that... if you don't want to get knocked out.
2006-11-18 18:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start slowly by kissing his neck softly and slowly work your way down, that way he can be a little more awake by the time you get there, but not fully. You may want to position your hands as you work your way down to be in a place where if he wakes with a panic you can defend yourself.... Once he realizes what is going on he will be fine...
2006-11-19 02:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Guinness Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is an intense sleeper. I can just imagine what part of him you want to kiss. In any event, try whispering in his ear what you want to do, and he may be less inclined to jump up. Be specific and explicit and I think he'll come around if you know what I mean.
2006-11-19 02:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi M17, Go up to him gentle and start rubbing his back lightly.Kiss his neck very softly.There's no way that this will freak him out.He may just want to make alittle love with you. Try it and you will see. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-19 02:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whisper your soft voice into his ears for a while before you gently touch him.
And make sure once you touch him, you are still whispering
2006-11-19 02:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give Kelly the ten points. About the "40 year old vrigin" thing. YES It'll happen and then I'll laugh cause I'll know if it happens...
But do whatever he and you wants. HOw sweet!
2006-11-19 02:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk softly to him first to bring him out of the sleeping mode then kiss him down his body... maybe it'll work?
2006-11-19 02:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by julie43824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by whispering what you're going to do, that way he will kinda know what to expect. good luck.
2006-11-19 02:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by prettyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't feel comfortable with it? maybe he was dreaming bout something and you scared him...they say you shouldn't wake the person up while their dreaming...
why don't you tell him about it so he'll know for next time?
2006-11-19 02:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it! Absolutely! Go for it! He won't regret it a bit and it certainly wouldn't do you any harm either.
2006-11-19 02:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋