My boyfriend and I havent seen each other in 3 days because of reasons that arent relevent to our relationship, and just today he freaks out in saying that I never hang out with him any more. Is three days really that big of a deal?...
2006-11-18 17:54:58 · 5 answers · asked by Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, 3 days without seeing each other is hardly significant at all...I go two weeks at a time without seeing my boyfriend, and we're doing fine. If this guy is going to be that clingy with you, I would ditch him...part of a good relationship is being able to spend time apart, while still finding ways to connect with the other person.
2006-11-18 17:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! No it's not. I didn't see my boyfriend for 9 months, and then after two weeks of hanging out, I didn't see him again for another 4 months. Next time your boyfriend throws a fit, remind him that some people's significant others are in Iraq for a whole year or more, and they manage just fine.
2006-11-19 01:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it really isn't. My ex was SUPER psychotic about seeing each other all of the time. One or two days was too much for him. We ended up breaking up because he was so clinging that I couldn't stand being around him anymore. You don't need to be around each other all of the time to have a good relationship. Having your own time apart is actually a very important thing.
2006-11-19 01:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by its_just_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to me must be to him. but he is showing signs of being controlling tell him to take it easy you have had stuff to deal with
2006-11-19 01:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well as soon as you miss your partner that should be long enough..
2006-11-19 01:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by mikl0vl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋