this girl and i really likes each other so much.. i havent ask her out, cuz thiers alot of things in the way.. yes we express how much we love each other. she is like stressing over alot of things.. but she wont tell me.. one of the things shes stressing out is her best friend, she liked me for about more then 5 months, and she feels that shes betraying her.. now im like so scared that she would have to let me go.. can anyone give me an advice or a guide line to follow..
2006-11-18 17:57:35 · 6 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think of it like this she needs you to help her and you have to be there for her. ask her out she likes you you like her and she needs you everything will fall in place if follow your heart but trust your instics.
2006-11-18 18:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that this decision lies in the hand of the girl you like, not in yours so don't rush or pressure her...but it will help to your advantage to show this girl through words AND actions of what a great guy you are, how much she would lose if she lets you go. If you show her how much you have to offer her and how strong you feel about her, she'll find it harder to let you go. Besides, her friend, if she is a real friend will always want her to be happy and once her friend realizes this, she will still be her friend no matter what.
2006-11-19 02:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go to her friend and ask her if she still has feelings for you and if she would mind if the two of you dated. If they are good friends and the other girl still really likes you, the one you like may have to say good bye to you to save their friendship. Never an easy situation. Good luck
2006-11-19 02:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate the whole "You can't date or like him cuz I LIKED HIM BEFORE YOU!" thing... Its so stupid. A true friend would want her friend to be happy.
2006-11-19 02:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go for now, if it was ment to be.... something more will come of it..
2006-11-19 02:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by goin_truck_racin06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont pursue this. Someone will end up with a broken heart :(
2006-11-19 01:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋