Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

Been dating this guy almost 6 months, we are both in our 30's, we both have busy lives, we talk daily, and see each other a couple times a week. The relationship is physical, but not everytime we see each other. He calls me his "friend", but says that we are more than that, but doesn't refer to me as his girlfriend. Neither of us are seeing anyone else and he talks about things we'll do in the near future. I guess my confusion is, is he just taking it slow, or am I being a fool?

2006-11-18 00:43:26 · 15 answers · asked by sassy2006 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a grown up now, and I'm just figuring this out now. My mom was always angry at us....she ignored us when ever she had the chance. I have a son who is 13 now.....she hardly knows him. It seems she is incapable showing love to anyone. She hated everyfriend I had growing up...than she did the same as an adult....Not sure why...my brother and I have done so well, we have great lives...we are very nice people who have a lot to share. I think if it weren't for my mother...we would be closer to our father. I guess I'm all grown up and I'm finally figuring this out...I have a cold hearted mom who would rather ignore her kids..Has anyone else gone this as an adult? It has taken me a lot of soul searching,......now I'm not sure how to handle it??.........Please any advice out there????

2006-11-18 00:41:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what i know about my ex's girlfriend that she lives in MA, Watertown, she is divorced, has two children, and lives with her mom, i want to know her name and home phone number or cell phone #, is there a way that i could find out who she is

2006-11-18 00:41:46 · 3 answers · asked by jose m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 00:40:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 00:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 00:39:06 · 5 answers · asked by Shawntel K 2 in Friends

2006-11-18 00:36:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf have been dating about 6 months now, be both lost our virginity to each other about a month ago, or so she says. She swars up and down that she was a virgin, but she dated her last bf for a year and a half, and it seems odd to me that they dated a year and a half and she says nothing happened and she did me in 3 months. And when i asked her ex bf about it he said it was up to her to say if they did or did not have sex. I hate being lied to so this is important to me. Should i bother digging up a past that she probably is not proud of or how can i get her to tell the truth.
Please give me some advice i really want to know the truth.

2006-11-18 00:35:29 · 16 answers · asked by armorefelix 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very hurt and vew this as cheeting. To me it is not harmless, it is a form of unfaithfulness. Also, I meet him on a dating web site and found out that he is still on it also.

2006-11-18 00:35:13 · 16 answers · asked by ELIZABETH W 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my dad got into an argument and i told him to go fu*k his self so he told me to go kill myself.should I do what he says?

2006-11-18 00:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Family

2006-11-18 00:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by tapakani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and do you agree?

2006-11-18 00:30:36 · 20 answers · asked by staffbull 1 in Singles & Dating

In these times when money talks and the law lays down and rolls over. Do we, the little man have a chance in the court system? Personaly I think O.J.s flaunting of the law is going to get him an extra hole in his head,that he deserves.

2006-11-18 00:30:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 30 married for 12yrs. i have 2 daughters.my prob is that my husband is totally mummas boy.hez 9 yrs elder to me. he always take me for granted. i dont have any type of security,neither financial nor physical . hez very careless about our daughters career.this hurts me the most. icant leave him as i have nowhere to go as my parents have never supported me.its not that hez not earning, his monthly turnover is in6 digits. but still all the money goes to my mil. can u plz help.

2006-11-18 00:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by annu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-18 00:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Shawntel K 2 in Singles & Dating

I m looking for a boyfriend who is 6ft tall,handsome,between age grp 20 to 25,responsible,caring,loving,passionate,who loves sports.Will I ever be able to get a boyfriend like this?

2006-11-18 00:27:22 · 17 answers · asked by julia beck 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 00:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cheat??? and then they always say " i didnt want to hurt you.." what do you think you're doing when you are sleeping with someone else????

i dont get it, and am so sick of seeing college cheat on there bf/gf!

So why do they do it??? I really dont get it!!!

if you dont like the other person, leave, nothing is stopping you...

2006-11-18 00:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

my grandaughter who is nine, has been excluded from school for her bad behaviour. This morning her friends came round and i told them she is not playing out, one told the social worker he smoked week and nicked, and another spat at the window when i was in the car. I do not like her going round with them, the thing is she wants to, she has had alot of other friends she can play with, What on eath does she want to play with them for, one boy had a go at me cos i had hold of her arm and told me to let go of it, only cos i did not want her to run off. i am keeping her in now because i do not want her playing with them, but she is giving me so much hassle. Even the social worker said she is just a pawn in the game to them and the minute their is trouble they will blame it onto her, she is doing my head in.

2006-11-18 00:24:23 · 12 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Friends

go read my prior question about being upset about a girl on the net and some guy says i sound like a bit of a psycho..the very last answer if you look..i was really hurt

2006-11-18 00:22:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband and I have been divorced for three years, we have an 8-year-old daughter (and joint shared custody) and he is remarried. I am still friends with him and now his new wife, and spend time with them and my daughter doing fun stuff from time to time. My friends and co-workers ridicule me about this frequently. Isn't anyone else still friends with his or her ex-spouse?

2006-11-18 00:21:05 · 22 answers · asked by Rebecca 5 in Marriage & Divorce

HE IS ANGRY WITH ME COZ HIS FRIEND ALSO SAW THIS AND STARTED PAIRING US UP.BUT HE IS LIKE TOTALLY INTO STUDIES AND DOESNT LIKE AL THIS CRUSH AND ALL.BUT I DIDNT FALL ON HIM ON PURPOSE,ITS MY FRENDS WHO PUSHED ME.I AM KINDA POPULAR AT SKOOL AND IT SEEMS HE TOLD HIS FRIEND THAT HE WANTED TO KNOW ME BETTER.BUT NOW I THINK HE HATES ME.WHT DO I DO?

2006-11-18 00:11:51 · 9 answers · asked by lil_angel 4 in Friends

I have recently been having friends with benefits relationship with 3 guys at the same time. I am really in love with one of them but he is currently living with his girlfriend. The second one I really care for but he is a lot younger than me but he says aswell as the sex he wants to do stuff like take me out for meals and to watch a movie every now and then. The third one I just met one night out and I don't really care for him.

The age gap of the seconde one is bothering me and also I don't understand why he wants to take me out, I am thinking of letting him go gently. But what do I say?

2006-11-18 00:08:07 · 15 answers · asked by bob k 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 00:07:57 · 13 answers · asked by AL 2 in Singles & Dating

When you are interested.

2006-11-18 00:07:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay I'm a chick and I met this guy and he's attracted to me and I to him. Well he proceeds to ask me if I have a child....Why does he wanna know that unless he was thinking about maybe pursuing me farther?

2006-11-18 00:06:56 · 11 answers · asked by So'sYerFace 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. In the first 3 years, he was very abusive. He decided that he wasn't going to abuse me anymore and so far, he's done a good job. Also, there are countless of incidents that happened during our relationship where one would say to themselves, "Damm, they're still together after that happened?" It's like, after all the painful times we've been through, we've managed to stick together. And now that he's not abusing me, I'm just loving every moment with him. But the problem is this: WE HATE EACH OTHER. I haven't told him that but he tells me, along with other painful phrases. It's like this. In one hand, I realize how much of a great guy he really truly is and for that, I dont want to leave him because I'm afraid I won't find a good person like him again. And the other hand, he drives me crazy and I start to think like, I'm missing out big time and I just want to get away from him. I really love this man. I'm lost! Should I stay or go?

2006-11-18 00:06:39 · 15 answers · asked by My Kitten Concern 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. In the first 3 years, he was very abusive. He decided that he wasn't going to abuse me anymore and so far, he's done a good job. Also, there are countless of incidents that happened during our relationship where one would say to themselves, "Damm, they're still together after that happened?" It's like, after all the painful times we've been through, we've managed to stick together. And now that he's not abusing me, I'm just loving every moment with him. But the problem is this: WE HATE EACH OTHER. I haven't told him that but he tells me, along with other painful phrases. It's like this. In one hand, I realize how much of a great guy he really truly is and for that, I dont want to leave him because I'm afraid I won't find a good person like him again. And the other hand, he drives me crazy and I start to think like, I'm missing out big time and I just want to get away from him. I really love this man. I'm lost! Should I stay or go?

2006-11-18 00:05:57 · 11 answers · asked by My Kitten Concern 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy i been seeing for 2 weeks was at work last night he was texting mw yesterday and i told him id be up when he finished work at half 2 and to give me a text. He has't and its noa one the next afternoon. Do you think i should text him something or not bother i only ask as im out tonight and i will see him as he is a bouncer

2006-11-18 00:03:45 · 28 answers · asked by Pet 1 in Singles & Dating

Loyal to love, family , companion, and my work especially my friends!


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2006-11-18 00:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by Chi-Girli 3 in Friends