I am very hurt and vew this as cheeting. To me it is not harmless, it is a form of unfaithfulness. Also, I meet him on a dating web site and found out that he is still on it also.
2006-11-18 00:35:13 · 16 answers · asked by ELIZABETH W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's looking for some fresh meat (or is that "meet"?).
Good luck with that.
2006-11-18 00:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he does look at porn, I don't see what harm it is to your relationship depending what type of porn. However, if he is still registered on a online dating service while he is dating you, sweetie you better start going back on the dating service and find someone new. I wouldn't date anyone who is still looking for someone online. He should take himself out the dating service while seeing you. You should have a heart to heart with him and confront him about cheating on you with this dating service. Porn that is no big deal. I don't think it is cheating, but looking for dates online while dating you. It is cheating. I liken this to him going out on the town cheating on you. Well, move on it is time. If you don't like him viewing porn flicks. When dating online, you are taking a huge risk. I have done some online dating on and off for almost a year. There are some good and bad one online. It is hard to diffrentiate. Online dating is a good alternative to those who don't have the time to go out on the scene and or doesn't like to go to bars. You need to proceed with caution when dating online. Just confront him and just move on.
2006-11-18 00:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife knows i look at porn,what's the problem,men are horny,face it.Unless your going to put out 3 times a day than don't complain,looking at porn is not cheating,Would you rather him get a $10 hooker. If he's chatting with women on a dating site that's a different story.
2006-11-18 00:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. Basically, he should've been honest with you from the beginning. The fact that he never told you he was into porn is not good. And ESPECIALLY the fact that he is on a dating site is WORSE. I would have a serious talk with him, after making him sleep on the couch a few days...and I would tell him that if he EVER kept anything like that from you again, it's over.
2006-11-18 00:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt have a problem with the porn, buy some dvds and watch them with him. I would go soooo mad about the dating website tho, he obviuosly cant be trusted and you can do so much better. Good luck hun
2006-11-18 00:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kirstycs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-18 15:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Elizabeth.......ever hear that expression..."make a silk purse out of a sows ear"? well...you found him on a dating site online...he obviously frequents that sort of thing...and a man that has an addiction to porn....sorry...he's not going to change...he obviously uses the computer for more than information access....find a person that has the same morals as you...don't waste your time on this doofus.
2006-11-18 00:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All guys look at porn on the Internet. It's not cheating. It's just guys being guys. You should, however, be legitimately upset that he is still on a dating website.
2006-11-18 00:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Spellympics 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a question of integrity and honesty, not cheating or porn addicition. It's evident that your boyfriend has been dishonest, that he would do this with his partner shows his lack of integrity. It also shows he would be more than willing to hurt you for his own transitory pleasure. Ditch him.
2006-11-18 00:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by altdavelong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But what were YOU doing on the dating site??
2006-11-18 00:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by mr_dark_eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋