go read my prior question about being upset about a girl on the net and some guy says i sound like a bit of a psycho..the very last answer if you look..i was really hurt
2006-11-18 00:22:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been called a psycho, too, usually by my wife, but do I let it get to me? Noooooo, because way down deep inside I know that SHE is the psycho, not me.
The big plus for you is that you are not in denial over your attitudes, and this is a big step in the right direction. (My wife is in massive denial) If you talk to enough people, and I have done this, you will find that it works something like this:
Talk to 50 people you do not know and have never met, and you are guaranteed to find someone who loves to talk to you and will not let you get away;
Talk to another 50 people and you are guaranteed to find one who will instantly hate you and act like they want to kill you.
Try this. See if you can strike up a conversation with 100 people and not find (A) one who positively wants to kill you and (B) one who instantly loves you all to pieces. Do this with the attitude that you are looking for the one who wants to kill you and you will do just fine. When you have done this, let me know how you made out. My email is in my profile.
I defy you to go through 100 people WITHOUT finding one who wants to rip your throat out; if you can, then you are better than me.Somewhere along the way, you will find one who loves you.
2006-11-18 00:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Calm down and don't let it worry you -
Any question you post on here will attract at least one answer that is something you don't really want to hear - you have to expect it. Just click the button to hide that answer and move on!
If you want to get a hold of some of those self-esteem problems (and I know what you mean by the way, I have some of those myself!) then take it as an opportunity to practise rising above it without letting it worry you.
2006-11-18 00:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I read your last question and you are not a psycho. That was said in ignorance, and I don't think any malice was intended. But I have seen people be very abusive on this format. I think it is because their identity is somewhat hidden, so they feel free to be rude. Just don't give it a second thought.
2006-11-18 00:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by glen 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't take what he said personally, leave that negative energy for him. You are not a psycho in any way shape or form, I don't think he read your question all the way through. You are dealing with stress issues in your life brought on by this crazy world we live in. Take it for what it is, just an opinion, don't take it to heart.
2006-11-18 00:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Look... psycho is an all-encompassing word. Dont fret.
Men shudnt have strong feelings over the internet. The bandwidth isnt that broad.
2006-11-18 00:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by novembr 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
on occasion i think of maximum adult men are sociopaths by lady standards. Or, in assessment, extremely autistic (no offense to human beings laid low with autism). like the guy who suggested: "I oftentimes attempt to no longer get to emotional approximately issues, its basically a buzz kill in my recommendations." pal became into only being hassle-free. Empathy is greater found out than we expect of. Ever seen a baby pull an animal's tail? Or snort while she pushes yet another baby around, with the aid of fact she`s made some sort of consequence and have been given a reaction? i think of a brilliant sort of adult men in no way advance out of that. that's greater stable to realize traditionally male aims once you're empathetic. They get punished for it. reason they socialise themselves, with their p.c..-recommendations.
2016-10-04 02:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by fritch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez pal you been going on for days that you did not like the doc telling you there was nothing wrong with you and now some broad dont even want to talk to you on line go back and read some of the things you say it is a free country for him to think that because you even sound like you think that I say go get drunk and forget the whole thing pal ha ha
2006-11-18 00:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by nick g 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
people who say things liek that only say it because they dont understand. i believe that you can fall inlove with some one over the net but only to a certain extent, as you may just be inlove with their personality. try meeting up with them but remeber do it in a public place and dont go alone. take this relationship to the next step or you may seem a bit wierd. hope i helped. xoxo
2006-11-18 00:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy-Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you met this girl from the internet? if youve expressed these strong feelings without even meeting her then that would be a bit wierd.
2006-11-18 00:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are You Martin from Yahoo poolroom "Goldenballs"?
2006-11-18 01:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋