Cheat??? and then they always say " i didnt want to hurt you.." what do you think you're doing when you are sleeping with someone else????
i dont get it, and am so sick of seeing college cheat on there bf/gf!
So why do they do it??? I really dont get it!!!
if you dont like the other person, leave, nothing is stopping you...
2006-11-18 00:24:33 · 14 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They cheat because they don't know themselves well enough to know what they want...they are afraid to be alone so they cheat and once they find someone good enough to replace you THEN they will come clean and dump you..until then...you are good enough to wait in the wings...you never know they might not find someone right away and they certainly don't want to go without...lol
2006-11-18 00:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they want to have their cake and eat it too.
my ex cheated because...well there are a lot of reasons, but he didn't tell me because i provided stability that she never could have, like the apartment that we had i could afford and all that. i made like 150 more than him a paycheck even though he makes over a dollar more than me, and trust me, we both get overtime.
she had no job, or one that lasts a whole week or something like that, the only stable income she had was his child support. now they are together and they have to get section 8 to afford anything, she's out driving his car to who knows where (she has cheated on him several times) while he works his *** off, and this is what he wanted.
i don't know what to tell him. other than laugh in his face. that's what he gets for using me. turning into the people he makes fun of because she doesn't want to get a job. oh well.
2006-11-18 08:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree with you. I guess people cheat because they
1) are commitment phobic
2) wish to survey what's available in the dating scene
3) have partners who've been their 'best' catch so far until someone 'better' comes along
4) have partners who are cheating as well!
2006-11-18 08:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree...I just don't get it. If you are that unhappy, be honest with the person and each of you get on with your lives. I don't believe that cheating ever helps or solve anything. It only makes things worse and much more complicated.
2006-11-18 08:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. Cheating is completely contradictary to loving a person. When you truly love a person you're not selfish and thinking about what's good for you.
2006-11-18 08:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate cheaters....Some would say "Well, hates a strong word mister Shaide!" I dont think it is...it's an accurate word...Cheaters disgust me, and I believe most cheaters are cowards and selfish individuals who only care about themselves and are afraid to end one thing before moving onto another.
2006-11-18 08:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Shaide 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not let what others do affect you so much. You have no control over it whatsoever.
All you can do is live your life the way you want to live it and make the best of it.
2006-11-18 08:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they said "I didn't want to hurt you" is just so that they can cover up themselves. And they are just the people who don't think before they do something and later they regret. But come to think of it, they're just immature. Cheer up.
2006-11-18 08:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Shanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are selfish & immature!!
They don't love you if they cheat, no matter WHAT they say.
It should be legal to shoot cheaters!!
2006-11-18 08:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they feel alone like if you play football and the girl doesn't play anything they find something else intesresting
2006-11-18 08:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Shawntel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋