should i text him?

Question

the guy i been seeing for 2 weeks was at work last night he was texting mw yesterday and i told him id be up when he finished work at half 2 and to give me a text. He has't and its noa one the next afternoon. Do you think i should text him something or not bother i only ask as im out tonight and i will see him as he is a bouncer

Answer 1

No don't, you may come across too keen or needy. He said he would text you, he will when he is ready, just give him a little more time. Say hello when you see him tonight and see what he says but don't give him the third degree, act as if it doesn't bother you that he didn't text. Something may have happened to his phone or something like that. Whatever you do don't jump to conclusions about why there was no text until you hear from him but don't be too pushy.

Answer 2

If you are going to see him tonight, then dont text him. I dont know how busy he will be at work, but maybe you could see how he reacts when he sees you: if he gives u an explanation, or if he just does as if nothing happened.
The problem with texting is that u can never know for certain whether he actually received, got it but had no battery so only saw it until the next day, got it but was too tired to answer and didnt want to disappoint you or sound rude. So see how it goes tonight, say Hi, be cool, and if he is indeed interested something should happen.

You can also ask him if he erceived the text, but as if its not important, dont let him think that u are terribly sad or bothered by it.

If he really got your text and decided to ignore you, he will probably try to ignore you or act aloof when he sees you. And in that case, he is definitely NOT WORTH IT.

Answer 3

lol, i'm always like this with a guy i like. He said he would text you, so wait for him to. You are thinking about this too much, ust play it cool afterall you dont want to seem desperate. He will no doubt text you soon and if he dosnt, dont think its anything personal, maybe he has been really busy or something is wrong with his phone, the reasons are endless. Maybe if he still hasnt texted you after 2 or 3 days, text him something really casual, so it dosnt seem like you have been waiting. Some guys dont realise that when they say they will call or text, us girls wait by the phone. lol. Don't forget, guys dont like knowing that they can have you, they prefer to be unsure, i think they find it more fun, so be playful and not so predictable.
hope its helped hunni!
xxx

Answer 4

Make him work for your attention-if you text him he's got you running around after him and if you're worried about if he's ok,you'll see him tonight so don't stress about it.Dress up gorgeous so that when he sees you he'll kick himself for not texting you.

Answer 5

If he's not texting you he is either with someone else or doesn't want to know! And if he's a bouncer don't be naive to think your the only one!

Answer 6

dont text him, let him text you.

You are brave to be interested in a bouncer because of loads of half naked girls tend to throw themselves at bouncers.. I mean it is the weekend now????

Answer 7

play it cool dont txt him its like your chasing him just get all done up tonight go in and have a good time see what happens if hes intrested he'll come after you

Answer 8

dont text him cuz you dont wanna look like a stalker in the making but when you see him tonight go over and say hey or something

Answer 9

I would leave it, especially as you will see him tonight anyway.

DO NOT give him the impression you are too keen.......nothing scares men off more than that.

Good luck - hope it works out :-)

Answer 10

I'm sure he got home and feel asleep after work. Sometimes you just forget to do things. Just act as if it never happened =)