Family & Relationships - 18 November 2006

Looking to buy a ring on ebay and someone is selling this type of diamond ring.

2006-11-18 02:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

HI, I wrk with this guy and he's really nce but he's kind of weird, His ex grlfrnd left him bcause she says she nvr lvd hm and ws jst in bcause he took cre of hr, that ws a long time ago, nw he says he's intrstd in me, and wants to go out with me, Thing is he's really nice, but he's nt the bst looking prson, and he's kind of vry geeky [nthng wrng with tht, i'm a geek too], but his goes ovr the top, And he keeps tlking all the tme, he tlks about thngs noone's intrstd in,bcs he's nervous, I'm trying to mke him stp doing that and it seems to be wrking[people actually find him lss boring and annying], yeah, thats what's said about hi at wrk and evrywhre else, People would actually leave whn he's approachng not to lstn to him tlk and the smll of his breathe, he's alwys sying smthng about mney and nver spnds his mney. He's diabtic, and looks 40 whn he's actually only 25.We hng out often, and my aunt and cousin really like him, he cmes frm a dcent fmily and all. I like him but nt like that.

2006-11-18 02:10:29 · 8 answers · asked by laviatamaud 1 in Singles & Dating

why do people go on t.v shows like jeremy kyle or jerry springer and tell everybody their business i personally wouldn't embarass myself!! would you

2006-11-18 02:08:12 · 21 answers · asked by burn baybee burn 2 in Friends

She has esteem problems I think, and I know why from a broad sense but still don't know the details. She had something terrible happen in a past relationship from what I can gather but doesn't have the strength to talk about it w/ me yet. Which is fine except for one thing. I think she feels like whatever it was was her fault, she should have seen it coming and now she doesn't trust herself and, hence, doesn't really trust me either although I don't think I've really given her any reason to doubt me. Anyone ever try dealing w/ a situation like this one? Any words of wisdom?

2006-11-18 02:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for 5 years. We broke up for 2, but were best friends throughout. Got back together this year & want to get married, but I'm nervous. (btw, the reason we haven't gotten married before now is that we wanted to finish school & now I've gone to grad school so I want to wait until I'm out of that). Anyways, I love him and want to be with him...but marriage is making me scared and I distance myself from him and act weird. Is it normal to be nervous even though this is the person you want to be with? Maybe it's 'cause my parents got a divorce out of the blue that really affected me....anyways....

2006-11-18 02:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by it'sjustme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he flirts with other girls alot and he says he would stop but he didn't what do i do?

2006-11-18 02:07:35 · 11 answers · asked by Toriful♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for 5 years. We have a daughter of 3. He has been promising to help me go to school for years and nothin has happen yet. I am sick of this he gets on my nerves and does whatever he wants when he wants it. When I want to do sonething it has to be on his time and terms. Should i take my daughter and leave? I am sick of promises!!!

2006-11-18 02:07:24 · 7 answers · asked by mama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl was my secondary school classmate. We used to know each other only barely. But God knows how many times i peeped at her during lesson instead of looking at the board. However, i was a shy boy (though still is) and the fact is that she had boyfriends one after another THROGHT OUT the teen years. and God know how many times i felt sour and my heart sank whenever i saw her with her guy(s).

During the poly years, i had a girlfriend and she was having a relatively more committed relationship. so my heart was with my girl at the time and hence u can only say that i have been a secret admirer "on-and-off" for 10 years.

OFF, is when i have a gf, my heart have no one else. and even when i'm single, i won't fall for a girl who is attached.

ON, is for the times when we were both unattached. it kind of give me hope bcoz she is available. For the past 10 years, i never take any action for these "on" periods.

For the past 2 months, we kind of reconnect our communication. Bcoz i'm studying in uni now and she is working, we have chance to chat for few hours daily on MSN. (mon-fri working hours only though, coz she don't usually use msn at home)

From recent chats,
she told me that she is now single, and she mentioned that she is not a late-queen for dates nowadays.
And after she know that i used to have one painful and hurtful relationship, she said that ppl have to move on and "if there's a good girl whom u like then give it a try"
She also claims that she only regard herself who had only 2 relationships coz sec sch histores are just childish ones.

We talked a lot rubbish, shared a lot of views, joked a lot and "suan" each other a lot and i feel (or maybe only i feel)that we start to have some connection.

So, last week, i managed to find some courage a said..

"you wrote on my sec sch autograph book that i can call u anytime, so.. can i call u tonight??"

but she replied "lol.. i have a dinner appointment tonight."

I was rather disappointed. I thought, if she doesn't mind me calling she would have state a time or sth.

But soon after, she said "next time we catch up with a movie, after your exam?", "when your exam finish?", "talk is cheap, fix a date now"....

so, our tentative date (or sec sch class monitor-monitress re-union if putting it mildly) is 3 dec!! just 2 days aft my exam. But the point is that we only chat on MSN and have not advanced into phone-talk and constant sms-es.

I keep thinking of her recently. and thinking..
Shd i postpone it? coz i just had a bad haircut.
what shd i say? how shd i behave? will i just blush and panic? is that anything in my walldrode that can match her smile and style? shd i pay for everything? where shd we eat?? It's not like i don't have experience.
Although i had gf before. But this time is different. She is a special person to me. (else i won't admire her for a decade
So now i'm like completely anxious and excited at the same time.

She is a very pretty girl to me. i looked at her that way for the past 10 years. so it's not like i'm saying this coz she is grown up now and having her own fashion taste.

But i have a low esteem of myself. coz i don't think i have the look. and that i'm just a poor student who owes the bank loan of $18k.

The tough point here for me is:
IS there another guys who express interest in her?
DOES she already has someone in mind?
when shd i tell her my feelings? the feelings that have been kept inside me for 10 years?
Should i buy her a present (and say it's christmas present) for that day?
Should i just write a love letter and confess everything? (probably not coz she might freak out)
What shd we do after movie?
OR.. after all, she might actually just take it at friendship level and that i am thinking way too much?

I feel that, sooner or later, i have to confess my feelings for her and give it a try. else i'll only keep thinking of her and suffocate myself.

What shd i do?
1) Taking it easy and naturally? (i think she will be taken by another guy if taking it slowly. coz she is just such a nice girl)
2) Show my feelings soon? (what if she got stunned and don't talk to me even on msn)

I'm so paranoid!! How i wish that behind every girl there is a equation and by solving it, you understand her thoughts and have her loving you!
(haha.. i'm engineering student)

Can ppl out there advice me? Especially girls. I would be glad to hear your opinons. Thanks a lot if u manage to read finish this essay.

2006-11-18 02:06:17 · 8 answers · asked by sp_jimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 02:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by french 1 in Singles & Dating

This was late at night and then she called him. When I confronted her about it she lied about it it. She later admitted she had called him but only got a answering machine. She said it was nothing. She said she was curious about what happened to him and if he had a woman now. I don't know what to think other than I don't think it's so innocent. She said I shouldn't have been checking on her. She had a change in behavior just before this. She started spending a lot more time on the internet so I knew something was up. Is this innocent or was it her first attempt to cheat?

2006-11-18 02:04:01 · 15 answers · asked by Mike R 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 02:03:58 · 4 answers · asked by GirlyWorld 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to go as far back as poss without having to pay for my rite to do so

2006-11-18 02:03:00 · 7 answers · asked by GRAHAM P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

some of my friends say my crush likes me. but i dont know if its true. i want him to be my bf but if i ask im afraid he might reject it
please help me !!!

2006-11-18 02:01:51 · 15 answers · asked by LittleNikStAR 2 in Friends

2006-11-18 01:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by rollerznangelo 1 in Singles & Dating

as always. but i want to be back w/ him again. i think he doesn take me seriously any more. what should i do. guys pls help. i think he loves me..

2006-11-18 01:59:03 · 12 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

he is only 12 and he cusses like he just came baack from an R rated movie. plz help

2006-11-18 01:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by §▐Your Dream Guy▐§ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just think they are so much more likely to try a bit a lez and they seem more ok with same-sex activities.

2006-11-18 01:57:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 01:57:53 · 13 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering what will happen if my b/f ejaculates in my mouth. Could i become pregnant? What if i swallow it? How does he do this but i dont' become pregnant? Thanks

2006-11-18 01:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by *Brooke* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-18 01:56:33 · 32 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I grabbed my friend's shocking gum and squirted water on it and she laughed. Also, when I was walking behind her she moved some of her hair to her sides (it was originally in the back of her hair). Point is she moved her hair, possibly to get my attn. Lastly, one day I was just talking to my friend in the hallway, when she approached me to my side. She might have thought I didn't notice her but I did. However Im not sure if she said anything because my hearing was weak on that side. Also, I had a cast on and she might have been checking that out. That's another possibility. Is she giving away subtle signs?


which sign gives her intentions away

2006-11-18 01:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

buti like to have girl friend but still i am unlucky

2006-11-18 01:55:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-18 01:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by Nikita S 1 in Friends

2006-11-18 01:54:48 · 19 answers · asked by Nikita S 1 in Singles & Dating

and then we ll c. did he mean i am not serious enough right now and when i become serious enough we might get married??? i don tknow whether to get upset or flattered....does he love me? if yes why doesnt he join me and live life w/ me instead of letting me clubbing while he sleeps?

2006-11-18 01:54:43 · 2 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a wedding reception a couple of weeks ago. I wore a dress that was just above the knee. I wore heels and pantyhose.
After the wedding as I was undressing my mother walks in on me and almost flips because I had worn just pantyhose under my dress!! It hurt my feelings. She told me the dress was too short to wear with just pantyhose. The dress was above the knee but not a mini and the dress was not see through. I wore just hose under the dress to avoid lines..and its just more comfortable. I am sure no one knew that other than mom.

2006-11-18 01:54:27 · 14 answers · asked by Kathy P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl at my school and whenever i get around her its like my voice gos away and i cant even say hi to her. What should I do?PLEASE HELP A GUY IN NEED

2006-11-18 01:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by Chris W 2 in Singles & Dating

the other day at the end of school I was walking back to my car so I could go home. When I was on the sidewalk, I noticed that a girl came onto the sidewalk in front of me and crossed my path. I didn't really think anything of it until she started to look at me. And since it is one's reflexes to look back at someone when they are looking at you, I looked at her and noticed she was very pretty (and she probably noticed that I was checking her out). I looked back and noticed that she was looking at me again. Once she gets off the sidewalk and walks a little ways, she says "bye" (remember, ive never seen this girl before). Since I thought she was talking to someone behind me, and since i didnt want to be late for work I kept on walking. I looked back about 10 seconds later and noticed that no one was behind me.
what are the chances that an encounter like this will happen again?
if the chances are pretty high, how should I handle the situation?

2006-11-18 01:53:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do some woman date drug dealers? Is it the money, the danger factor, or is there something I am missing. I have a friend that dates a dealer and she says she feels "safe" when with him. For the life of me I don't understand it.

2006-11-18 01:53:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wantit to be mature so i can tell someting to these heart breakers

2006-11-18 01:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by Cecilia H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships