I went to a wedding reception a couple of weeks ago. I wore a dress that was just above the knee. I wore heels and pantyhose.
After the wedding as I was undressing my mother walks in on me and almost flips because I had worn just pantyhose under my dress!! It hurt my feelings. She told me the dress was too short to wear with just pantyhose. The dress was above the knee but not a mini and the dress was not see through. I wore just hose under the dress to avoid lines..and its just more comfortable. I am sure no one knew that other than mom.
2006-11-18 01:54:27 · 14 answers · asked by Kathy P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not your mother's business as to what you wore. If you were comfortable and it was impossible for anyone else to see or know about it, that should have been good enough. Besides, it was really impolite of your mother just to walk in on you as you were changing. Nobody knows how to knock any more.
2006-11-18 01:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were fine. mom probably thought you should have worn a slip but since the dress was black and not see through, there really was no problem. And a dress just above the knee is not like a mini skirt.
Did she say what else she expected you to wear under the dress?
2006-11-18 01:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely not disrespect your mom by arguing with her, but it sounds like you're both a little right. It sounds like you're old enough to make these decisions on your own. The dress was probably a little too short to wear just panty-hose, but wanting no panty lines to show is understandable. However, which is more embarassing - panty lines showing or accidentally flashing someone your goods?
Try buying the line-less panties next time and don't take that chance.
2006-11-18 01:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by akflame81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. That's why so many girls are going to thi highs and stockings because wearing panties and pantyhose is ridiculous and uncomfortable. I stopped wearing pantyhose when I was 17, and now wear just stockings and a garter belt with my own undies. And that other lady was right, my bf sure preferers it that way, plus it is so much more comfortable.
2006-11-18 04:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom is always right.
That being said:
I think your mom was wrong...#1, she shouldn't walk in on you while you are undressing. #2, if she didn't notice before then that you didn't have undies on then I'm sure no one else did. #3, PANTYhose are perfectly fine to wear without additional panties.
Next time you wear a dress wear garter belt & thigh highs...ask mom if this is bette because your boyfriend sure prefers it! ;)
But with mom's it is much more peaceful to say...Yes Mom, I'm sorry I didn't think before I got dressed, it won't happen again.
2006-11-18 02:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shalvia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both right. She has a sense of modesty and that's okay for her. You were out for comfort and that's okay for you. Reassure your mom that it's perfectly okay to wear just pany hose as most of them have the reinforcement that acts the same as panties. At least they weren't just thigh highs!
2006-11-18 01:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok, you have the choice wether to wear ot not to wear panties with pantyhose,its your body,tell your mom pantyhose are worn by itself.I can show you some pantyhos ethat has built in panties
2006-11-18 02:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by jvjr9902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your mom is getting worked up over something rather insignificant.
It's not her body. Tell her to mind her own!
2006-11-18 01:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think,anything to do with what is under your clothes is YOUR business,she is your mom,not your keeper,,unless you are underage of course,then she has all say really doesnt she,,next time lock the door lol
2006-11-18 02:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋