HI, I wrk with this guy and he's really nce but he's kind of weird, His ex grlfrnd left him bcause she says she nvr lvd hm and ws jst in bcause he took cre of hr, that ws a long time ago, nw he says he's intrstd in me, and wants to go out with me, Thing is he's really nice, but he's nt the bst looking prson, and he's kind of vry geeky [nthng wrng with tht, i'm a geek too], but his goes ovr the top, And he keeps tlking all the tme, he tlks about thngs noone's intrstd in,bcs he's nervous, I'm trying to mke him stp doing that and it seems to be wrking[people actually find him lss boring and annying], yeah, thats what's said about hi at wrk and evrywhre else, People would actually leave whn he's approachng not to lstn to him tlk and the smll of his breathe, he's alwys sying smthng about mney and nver spnds his mney. He's diabtic, and looks 40 whn he's actually only 25.We hng out often, and my aunt and cousin really like him, he cmes frm a dcent fmily and all. I like him but nt like that.
2006-11-18 02:10:29 · 8 answers · asked by laviatamaud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont like him that way, am I wrong? His siter is getting married in a few months, and she asked him not to come because she didnt want to be embarrased,, he's very sad about that. I mean only things wrong with him are he's cheap [not intentionally, he just does that], he looks 40 when he's 25, his breathe stiinks [he doesnt know], he's bald,.and oh my gosh, he's very conservatinve an doesnt do a lot of things or eat a lot of things because he's diabetic.. Help!!!
2006-11-18 02:13:02 · update #1
He's really nice person, he has a big heart, and because of his diabetes he's parents protect him and all, Most of the things he has are not intentional. But he's always a gentleman, a perfect gentleman [who never picks up the check].lol.
2006-11-18 02:18:25 · update #2
I was thinking about giving him a makeover, with his own money, I told him that and he's fine with it, Get a tuopee, something for his breathe, ask him to walk slower and not like he's jumping, another wardrobe, and he should be fine, he's already doing better with his speech, people like him a little more because he's less boring, thnaks to me.
2006-11-18 02:22:08 · update #3
I want to make him get nice frames for his glasses to show off his beautiful blue eyes.
2006-11-18 02:30:50 · update #4
I have no idea why you would be attracted to this guy, unless you have no other options at the moment. Sounds like you just want to take care of him somehow, see if you can change him and make him "better". Is that it? If so, that is a royal exercise in futility.
I mean, you might try sitting down with him - somewhat at a distance, I would imagine - and telling him straight out that he needs to work on a few things. Maybe you could tell him that you are doing it out of sincere friendship but nothing more.
I doubt that he would get it, though.
I think it's time to just accept him for what he is and not try and play "Sister Teresa".
2006-11-18 02:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I think first of all give him a mint, something new, tel him "u hav got 2 try this" like its your favorit or somethin. I really dont think you should see him romantically, it sounds like you like him as a friend, so be his friend, keep talkin to him, dont tell him though what every 1 said cuz, then it would really hurt his feelins. I think go out as friends, make sure you tell him that in the beginning also, becuz then u will give him false hope, and that would be wrong. Take him to get a makeover, try to hook him up with someone, just let him know you are no into him like that, more of a brotherly type. As for his B**** a s s sister, screw her, that is so wrong for her to do that. Hes better off with out her anyhow, be his friend though, tell him that. I think maybe your relationship might evolve, you never know, cuz once you start spending more time together, it may work out. Good Luck either way.
2006-11-18 10:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by alleybug_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a great site with articles about Diabetes at http://diabetes.hammocksurvivalguide.com/
Become the expert.
2006-11-18 12:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! no offense... what decision is there to make? you may be a geek, but y our a geek girl and normal guys sometimes love a geek girl but not the other way around... And he kinda has nothing good in him, his a freek at all... please find someone else...
2006-11-18 10:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you haver already picked out all his flaws. I don't think this is a good way to start a relationship.
2006-11-18 10:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god sweety you should tell him that you can't be his gf cause you are a merciful person but not a martyr.
2006-11-18 10:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOUR NOT, THAT INTEREST IN HIM TO ME,
2006-11-18 10:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he able to spell?
2006-11-18 10:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋