My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 4-5 days now. WILL HE MESG OR CONTACT ME AGAIN???
2006-11-18 17:53:14 · 8 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really hope this is a joke. It's not funny, by the way, if it is.
To answer your question, yes, he probably will msg you again. When he is good and ready to play with you once more, yes, he will. What you need to do, is exercise the power of the intelligent woman you are, find the good sense to realize you aren't a play thing and that you should probably leave him.
He abuses you because he can. Men only do what their women allow them to. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but that's what it is. You're worth more, and you should probably consider actually talking someone about this if you can't see that for yourself.
Don't let him put his hands on you one more time, and consider a restraining order.
2006-11-18 18:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by ebonii_cuteee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its good thing your not asking 'how do i get him back' lol
There is no way to know when he will abuse you again my advice is to change your phone number, get a new email address and make sure he has no way of finding them out. Break off all contact with him and his 'friends' and make sure you don't do anything to irritate him. Think of him as some kind of dangerous, wild animal, who cares what he thinks? but at the same time try not to make him mad. Don't let this stop you from dating though and if it continues after you've followed all my advice then you should get the police involved or get your parents to talk to his.
2006-11-19 01:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may, and you need to do something about it. The worst thing you could do is keep these messages to yourself. He may come looking for you if he gets mad enough. He's hurt you before, so there's nothing stopping him from doing it again. You should tell your parents if you haven't already, and maybe even the police.
2006-11-19 01:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl change your phone and tell the freak to get a blasted life. i don't know why you put up with the abuse so long, tell ur parents or someone that u can trust to warn him stop his foolishness. He is the worthless one not you don't let his **** go to your head and learn from your mistake, don't ever go with out or get involve with someone like him. and forget about the freak am sure you have more interesting to be concern with than his ***.
2006-11-19 02:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may but why don't you change your number!!!!! you need to lose any contact that he has with you and stay away from him and his friends. he knows that your scared that's why he keeps on attacking you. he is very controlling and his messages may become reality.. you should tell the cops b/c you may end up in the hospital b/c of him. tell everyone you know about this guy so they could watch out for you.
2006-11-19 01:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, he probably will contact you again! You need to go to the police. They can track your text messages thru your cell phone carrier once you file a complaint!! You need to go to the police!
2006-11-19 01:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by LPC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents about it and report to the authority.
Dunno if he will contact u again..Y not ask him (just kidding)
2006-11-19 02:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG, YOU SHOULD NOT CARE
IF HE TEXT YOU ANY WAY, HIS ABUSIVE WAY ARE NOT GOOD AND YOU NEED TO TAKE THE TEXT THAT HE
HAS SAID TO YOU TO SOMEONE THAT CAN HELP YOU
IF HE DOES TEXT YOU. TAKE IT TO THE POLICE, HE
NEED HELP AND YOU NEED TO GET AWAY FROM HIM
NOW.
2006-11-19 01:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋