What is the best way to meet girls? Girls: how do you like to meet a guy?

Question

Do you mind guys just coming up and chatting with you at the gym, club, store....?

Answer 1

In my personal opinion going to gyms is just another way for meeting the opposite sex, like a dating service. As for meeting guys I like meeting someone who has similar interests like sports, movies because I like foreign movies Hindi, Bollywood in particular(my b/f supports my ShahRukh Khan watching habits) along with American comedy,drama and documentaries. Going to political rallies is another good way so that way you know for sure you see eye to eye on something that is very important to you. If my boyfriend and I had nothing in common it would get old and I would find a way out of the relationship. He and I always have fun whether shopping for deals (he found a great one yesterday...(2 used Louis Vuitton bags for $13.01 only), just taking a little tour of where we live or watching a DVD or DVDs and discussing current events. A friend can also introduce someone who might be right for you because who knows you better than a friend.

Answer 2

How To Meet A Girl

Answer 3

I personally prefer an unplanned, just by chance, type of meeting. Indeed, more importantly is the "How" and not the "When or Where". As for myself, I certainly hope "How" I would meet a guy I would possibly be interested in, would definately be freshly bathed, with my hair done, or looking somewhat decent, my make-up on and of course, hoping I am feeling my attitude and personality are at its best on that day...LOL
I dont think I would mind a guy striking up conversation at a gym , but in all honesty, my attention would more than likely stay focused on my workout. I think I may feel a bit awkward with meeting a stranger if I am all hot and sweaty and feeling I may be in need of a shot of deodorant! Also, as far as a store, it would depend on what kind of store? I detest grocery shopping, so I am in and out as fast as possible. Almost anywhere else would be fine.... a funeral might be a little weird though, I guess there would be some places I would prefer not to be approached. LOL

Answer 4

I don't mind a guy approaching me at a store, the gym, or even a club. As long as the first thing the say to me isn't some cheesy line like, "Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven?" I think that's lame. Come on guys be original and real. Come right out with whats on your mind. If you think she's beautiful, tell her. A girl could never get tired of hearing that. You never know what will happen. The two of you just might be thinking the same thing. However, if it doesn't work out, then it's OK. It just wasn't meant to be.

Answer 5

First of all, don't ever hesitate to ask anyone on a date. It shows a strong characteristic that you are confident in your decision and it makes that person feel good that you are confident that you want to date them. When you are on that date, choose a restaurant that would show a little bit of you and your romance side, because like how everyone says "just be yourself", you are showing yourself to her. Never lose eye contact, but look at her as if she's your best friend. I know it might be weird, especially if your best friend is a guy, but the comfort that you'll have around her will open her personality as well. Making her laugh is always a good thing, tell jokes, go see a funny movie, or talk about funny stories of your past. Take her out on a walk after wards, or a drive if it's freezing outside, and keep your date warm. Ask questions about her, like what does she do for a living, if she comes from a big family, etc. Just questions that's not asking for too much information. At the end of the night tell her that you really appreciated spending time with her and would really like to see her again. Keep eye contact. If she says "ya, I would really like that", then tell her "hope you have a pleasent night (her name)." Look at her smile then start walking back from the door still facing her and smiling and don't turn your back until she enters the door. Then you just got yourself another date, because since you didn't kiss her at all, not only does she want to kiss you by the next date...She also now has interest in a relationship with you because you just showed her some class that you aren't a jerk, and you really are interested in her and now she just gained a lot of interest in you.

Answer 6

The best way to meet girls is at a bookstore. Because although guys tend to think that clubs or the gym might be a good place, A club... If a girl is drinking she's not herself and you know she is trying to look good. At the gym she doesnt want to be bothered if she is serious about her workout..But a bookstore,You can actually find someone that has interests and you know she can read which is a plus. And she is not dressed to impress she is as is..You know what I mean? If you are looking for something with some depth.

Answer 7

The best way to meet women is to join a coed sport, i.e soccer. It is a safe environment where everyone eventually gets to know one another. I haven't had luck on the dating sites, because most of the people seem to be out there for just a good time. If that's what you want then the dating sites are they way to go. Going to single gatherings where friends have coordinated the event is another way of meeting girls. I enjoy just getting out there and if I see a handsome man in the grocery store, etc... I will say, "Hi" and that's an excellent time to start a conversation. You might get lucky and receive a contact number. The most important thing is if you see someone that you are attracted to out and about, don't be shy, but say, "Hi" or something to get her attention, like a question, i.e. Have you ever tried this before and if so what's it like? If not, then come up with something else to say quick to carrying on and engage in dialog. Good Luck!

Answer 8

I don't mind guys coming on to me at all, in fact it is a great emotional boost:) The grocery store or local convenience are pretty good places to meet people and see them as they go about their day. The grocery store may be better as one usually spends more time there. I must say that most every time I go to the larger stores I see someone I might like to meet! This includes the retail stores too. I guess I like guys to show interest or make the first move so come on guys...take a chance...check out the ladies in the store and talk to them...it can't hurt that much:) BTW...the single guy asking this Q (#8 on the 9) is verrrry hotttt:)

Answer 9

OK, in my opinion the best way to meet someone of like mind and heart, is to be using your heart and mind at all times.
You see people on the bus? Usually stone faced, right? Well, if everyone came on the bus with what they love in mind, like painting, singing, their study of some sort, a place in the world they love, a dish they are going to create, then that person will, believe it or not, suddenly become more attractive...

Let's take that to any place in the world; The country, a bar, school, grocery shopping, the work place. Even if someone is in a cubicle it is possible to bring ones very essence into that small space. Pictures, certain comforts, trinkets, gadjets, a blanket, a rug, favorite pens, and anything else that reminds you of what you love, who you are, and what your past experiences have been.

Everyone, no matter the age or culture, love to see someone being genuinely expressive. Forget a strut you are putting as you walk down a street, unless it is your very own. Forget caked on makeup, unless it is for fun and you are the type to let yourself go. By all means wear it to spice up your prominent features, to better portray how you are feeling that day, and to accent the clothes you are wearing. Forget about where you are buying your clothes and how much, but zip straight to the pieces of clothing that immediately catch your eye and stop you in your tracks no matter the store.
If you are buying clothes because you usually shop there, because it is on sale, or because of any reason other than IT IS YOU, then pass it by and go for the clothes your heart cries out to.

When meeting someone, it is not about the place... It is about bringing yourself out of yourself... No hiding.
Laugh if you find something funny, speak if you wish to add something you find is important, and act certain ways when YOU want to act that way, and not because you THINK the other person will find it attractive...
After all, when a relationship is finally formed, sooner or later the threads will bare through, the concealed parts will show...

Answer 10

Since I never go out to clubs or bars I guess the chances of meeting someone are cut dramatically for me. I think for other people meeting someone through friends would be cool, that way it isn't just a "pick up" scene. I met my last boyfriend online, which is something I never thought I would do, but he turned out to be a really great guy. Being a single parent sort of takes the chance of meeting people out of the question. Not having any babysitter, money, or time kind of kills it. Unless a guy walks into where I work or bumps into me at the grocery store...there really are no chances other than online with myspace that he would get to talk to me. Life is just too demanding sometimes.

Answer 11

The best way to meet a girl is usually on a online chat. You can get to know them on a one on one basis and no competition. I like to meet guys either at a bar or at my job. I don't mind guys coming up to me to chat at a gym or club. It lets me know that they really think i'm cute and would like to get to know me better. I'm a little shy when it comes to meeting but I've been told that i am very easy goin and make a guy feel comfortable