i hate parents!!!! wtf is wrong w/ them y did i get such crzy *** ones??? i wanna move out but i can't!!!! my mom gets mad over the stupidest things. she just asked me if i wanted peanuts and i said yes but she said i would have to get my own bowl and but i didn't feel like getting up and going to the kitchen (i already sat down) yea so wut if i'm lazy i'm a teenager ok and even if i wasn't it's not like i was doing anything mean or harmful. and i said it nicely to her(even though she doesn't deserve it becuz she's always taking to me like a ***** and yelling at me infront of other ppl too not just home). but nywayz she starts getting really mad going way blowing it way out of proprtion. and starts lecutirng me for it and goes up to the kitchen and brings a bowl and slams it down on the table w/ attitude and anger!!! all for a ****** bowl of peanuts tht I wanted ME not her!!! i'm at the point where i can't take it anymore and i wanna move far far away but i can't wut should i do?
2006-11-18 17:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Next time, get up off your lazy a_s and get your own bowl.
She's not your servant.
With an attitude like yours, I'm sure she's looking forward to the day you leave also.
Thank God mine are grown. You just reminded me of what I DON'T miss.
2006-11-18 17:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That fight was not about peanuts at all. It's just like when married couples fight over which way the toilet paper goes... Your mom has other issues and it sounds like she took them out on you. Maybe you should talk to her after these blow ups to see what's really bothering her. I know it would take a little thing called "effort" on your part and you ARE a teenager, but I think it might help your relationship. I'm not trying to excuse the way she treats you, and I believe she should be the one to come to you to talk, but of course, I can't tell her that, so I think it's in your hands now or else nothing will change. And, please don't think of moving away unless you are old enough - legally, mentally, financially. If there is abuse beyond the usual teen & mom fights, then I think you should talk to another adult about it. I hope you can work through this with your mom.
2006-11-18 17:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by LIl One 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This Is So Like My Mom I Just Be A ***** Back To her But In A Nice Kinda Way So Kinda Gives Her Reason Not To Get Even More Pissed Lol. Ignore Her This Will Piss Her Off Theres No Law Saying You Have To Talk.. Hope This Is The Best Answer.
2016-05-22 02:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to thank your mom and tell her your wrong for not gettin up and get the bowl she was the one askin if u wanted a peanut and u did tell her yes so next time give a lil help and get up get a bowl and be nice moms r stress out people u dont no your not a mom moms never get a vaction away from doin anything do dishes some times mite put a smile on her face think about it and like i said u want her happy do lil things pick up a cup from the front room put it in the sink do some dishes to help ok
2006-11-18 17:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by queen t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what happens when you ask for peanuts, I can't imagine what she does when you ask, "What's for dinner?"
Maybe your mom is bipolar, PMSing or going through the change. Or she is just dealing with a teenager. What ever the case maybe, stay away from her until she calms down. Talk to her when she's in a better mood and explain to her how you're feeling.
You're going to have to deal with this until you've graduated from high school and move out. Sorry. That's all I can tell you. I hope this helped.
2006-11-18 17:20:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I bet you don't consider these chores as yours - tidying up your room; taking care of YOUR laundry, washing up your dishes or utensils used by you, general help in the house, etc. Do you even notice(let alone help) that she has been slaving it out in the house for the family. May be you were polite to her at that particular moment, but your mum has been watching you right from the minute you were born, and it breaks her heart to see that you haven't learn much about what it takes for one to survive as a dignified person in the world. True enough, " i wanna move far far away but i can't..." YOU CAN'T. I am sure she loves you and all that she wants is for you to learn how to live. One day when she dies, you will be left alone to cope on your own - no mamma to wash the dishes, tidy up your room, tidy up the house, iron your clothes. That's what exactly all mammas want to prepare their children for.
2006-11-18 17:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from the sounds of your english you are too young to leave home. We don't know everything that goes on but I don't think parents should belittle their children by yelling at them at all. I suggest you have a serious talk without the yelling. Let her know that you wish to be treated like an adult and don't like to be yelled at for any reason at all. You need to both talk sensibly. Find out what is really bothering your mother and perhaps you both need to make changes. Talk, talk, talk and talk feelings.
2006-11-18 17:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get up and get your own peanuts-being a teenager doesn't excuse you from rude behavior. Parents will not take you seriously until you start acting like an adult.
2006-11-18 18:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right, you should move out, then who will get your peanuts? or anything else when you dont feel like "getting up", I'm sure that it will be far less stressful on your mother.
Hurry up and move out now while you still know everything.
2006-11-18 17:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by midlifemommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get to about age 5, or, 6. Things will change then!
2006-11-18 17:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋