I've been with this girl for about 9 mos. and i know she loves me and i love her, but she doesn't want a relationship. We're just very, very close friends. should i just forget about her, just pretend that we're in a reltiionship(since we pretty much are) or just be friends.
2006-11-18 17:04:02 · 19 answers · asked by Durdy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let things happen naturally. She wouldn't be really close friends with you if she didn't like you to some extent. Don't bring up the relationship thing again. Women like when a man is a man and doesn't talk about his feelings all the time. It's a sign of weakness to some women. When you get tire of her not giving you the respect that you need then move on. Make her chase you a bit. Watch how things unfold. Good Luck hun
2006-11-18 17:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with her for 9 mos. and she says she loves but doesnt want to be in a relationship I think that she doesnt love you, and honestly she probably likes someone else. Why? Simply puttin it if you love someone you dont want to be anywhere but with them, and the longer your together the harder it is to think about not having them in your life( in b/f-g/f sense) Why would you suddenly decide that you dont want to date the man you love, it doesnt make sense. You need to let her do her thing, if you really wanna it, just keep and eye on her "situation" for a few weeks, is she blowing you off, out with "friends" all the time, if so back off and look for someone else when you feel ready, dont let her pull you around, you shouldnt have to wait for someone who "loves" you to decide that your the one and only.
2006-11-19 01:13:26 · answer #2 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you been together for 9 mos in this relationship and now she just want to be friends get the hell out somethang wrogh with that you dont just want to be friends after 9 mos of a relattionship of love .
2006-11-19 01:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush into it, and dont say anything about a relationship. U have to think of what might happen, you might make things weird for you both, or end the friendship all together. WHen and only if she wants you she will tell you, so just wait.
2006-11-19 01:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she see anyone else? How old are you? Maybe she feels that she is too young to get into a relationship. Have you thought about asking her this question? Give that a try before you start or stop anything.
2006-11-19 01:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is a "2 way street" and, as you say, she does not want a relationship. So, move on and find someone who values you and wants a real relationship with you.
2006-11-19 01:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends and maybe oneday she will want to have a relationship. Good Luck!
2006-11-19 01:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thgat you should just be friends because right know she has her cake and is eating it to she doesnt want to be in a realtionship or doesnt want the ties of a realationship but she still wants the benefits tell her she can have it like she wants it tell her relationship or nothing
2006-11-19 01:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She seems like she isn't ready just yet. I'd just be friends with her, keep your option open, and if you guys' relationship develops, that will be another story.
2006-11-19 01:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just be friends, that isnlt a relationship. You can find someone else better than that
2006-11-19 01:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋