(my friend) talks trash about me. i've heard what she said about me. the next day, she starts talking 2 me like nothing happened!
i feel like beating her up, but i don't want to get in trouble!what should i tell her!PLEAZE HELP ME!
2006-11-18 16:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥andreaaa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And... why is she your friend? Don't beat her up. Just don't give her the time of day any more.
2006-11-18 16:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sure doesn't seem like a friend! First confront her about it, and if she doesn't fess up and change her ways, you're much better off without her. Don't beat her up as that wouldn't help either of you, just get you in trouble, but just avoid her but act civil around her. If you seek revenge, you'll just grow bitter, and that will make you just as bad as her. It takes great character to treat an enemy with kindness.
2006-11-19 01:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by mandamandapanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her why is she talking s*h*i*t about you...i mean thats not a friend....well atleast i dont think it is.....if there was something that she didn't like about you she should have just came up to you and tell you......more than likely she well say that she didnt say anything....and well that well tell you what kind of friend that she really is....i mean you are giving her that chance to come out clean and if she dont take that chance than she really aint your friend....just ask her
2006-11-19 02:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her only in the sense that you want to let her know that you know what she said. Then drop it and walk away. Don't beat it to death, don't yell, don't create a scene and never, ever lower yourself to her level in trying to seek revenge.
Be a class act, first and foremost, but do let her know that you are certainly not stupid or deaf.
2006-11-19 01:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't say anything to her, don't hang out with her, don't even acknowledge her existence. Let her wonder what's going on and and come ask you what's the problem. Than let her know, she doesn't like it than walk away.
2006-11-19 01:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by bReE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat that phony hoe *** cause that'll make yo u feel 19 times better. or just stop talkingto the phonny hoe cause she aint ****
2006-11-19 01:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Blow her of for awiale, she'll come back when she realizes who her real friend is!
2006-11-19 01:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by oldster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 her abt wat is going on
and try 2 make her feel that u trust her
2006-11-19 00:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by cuck002003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋