My best friend ever is a guy I work with. He and I have shared everything with each other. We have even fooled around a little. When I say a little, I mean we have not gone all the way, just to third base. When i started having feeling for him, I told him. He told me that he had feelings too, but we had to end our little bedroom ventures because the friendship is more important. Well, I agreed and our friendship stayed as strong as ever. Well, now he has been dropping hints that he wants to fool around again. We went on lunch the other day and he wound up kissing me in my car before we went back to work. I am confused as to what he really wants from me. I love the guy as my best friend, but and holding back other feelings to keep from getting hurt. What should I do???
2006-11-18 17:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by ncangel33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are confused as to what YOU want, not what HE wants. He wants to be more than friends, couldn't be more obvious. For clarification on what that really means, I'd ask him. You share everything, right?
2006-11-18 19:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by 12 November 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear! its either u r friends or lovers,u cant mix the two coz they are different spheres in ur life yet they r both important. incase u value your friendship, i'd say stop fooling around coz u may lose the friend u have in him and spell it out clearly to him,im sure he will understand that is if he values ur friendship. but nevertheless,if u feel that the love feeling is stronger,i suggest u give it a try after all it ain't a crime,besides he cld turn out to be a good sweetheart since u already know him well. a relationship based on friendship first usually ends up better than the one u just fell into. but either way,its a decision u have to make yourself,though we can help to advise and influence ur decision,but in the end we cant decide for u. Good luck dear.
2006-11-18 17:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Brendar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him why not? if he is real your friend he will be your friend no matter what may happen. and the fact that he is your best friend he knows you very good and things would be alot easier than having someone new.
2006-11-18 17:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE SOUND LIKE HE HAS FEELING FOR YOU. SO IF YOU
WANT TO KNOW WHAT GOING ON WITH HIM THE ASK
HIM. THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHAT REALLY IS ON HIS
MIND.
2006-11-18 17:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ummmm..........r u gay im confused? well just ask i guess
2006-11-18 17:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by h_dawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋