It's seemed like this girl and i were moving toward a relationship. We acted like we were gonna be together. We went out and kissed an all that. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now and not sure when. She wants to stay friends for now. Why!
2006-11-18 17:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too many moving parts and I can never seem to find the owner's manual that comes with them
2006-11-18 17:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am that kinda girl too. Some girls (like me) feel that it takes a while to see what she wants. I think it is a better idea to get to know each other to make sure you really like that person before jumping into a relationship.
You should be glad though because if things work out between you guys, you will not only get a girlfriend, but a best friend as well. I will take it as a good thing.
2006-11-19 01:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the time out together & the kissing really turned her off. Women seem to know at the beginning of a relationship whether a guy is "boyfriend material " or "just a friend."
2006-11-19 01:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say women are complicated, I'd say its more the actual person. If you're not sure why she's doing this then maybe the relationship wouldn't have worked out anyway I mean something is obviously bothering her and if you have no clue/idea what it is then maybe it isn't meant to be.
If I were you I'd stay her friend, try to figure out whats wrong, move on and ofter my shoulder for her to lean on.
2006-11-19 01:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the friendship and the kissing etc...Its better than relationship. Relationship is getting stuck, and then a lot more possessing and controlling and complaining and boredom can be all there is then. Enjoy what you get !!! Appreciate it and you will get more of it !!! Don't worry about not being stuck in a relationship !
2006-11-19 01:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by million$gon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this same problem, only I'm the girl. The guy told me we had to be together or nothing, and I just don't want a releationship. sad... DON'T be like this!! Who knows why she doesn't want a relationship, but if you like her then you'll understand and just be her friend. Be supportive. She'll come around before too long just hang in there! Good luck!
2006-11-19 01:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the age. She may want to slow things down or maybe you can't kiss....just being honest. Something may have turned her off. Or maybe she's so turned on that her heart is pounding like too hard and she doesn't trust herself. You have to pay attention to body language with us. It's as simple as that.
2006-11-19 01:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are men so complicated? Us women want relationships to but you guys dont want to comit either so ?
2006-11-19 01:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys do that too all the time man!
she's just indecisive, just changed her mind, sorry but it takes two to make a relationship and if she isn't interested any longer you're pretty much done. sorry!
2006-11-19 01:17:22 · answer #9 · answered by mica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hormones. Seriously. I say this with all due respect. But Women's emotions and even logic are largely regulated by her hormones. And they can vary day by day, or even minute by minute.
2006-11-19 01:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋