Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

It was summer and I was full of life......I was the new kid in town but I still liked to go swim at the community pool in Rockville......next to me was a group of girls playing water basketball with one of those pool floating baskets. One of them was cute and I wanted to meet her but I was too shy to say anything and besides she was having such a good time playing ball.....suddenly I hear a splash next to me.....it was the ball....and I hear a shout "hey you......could you pass me the ball" I turned and I saw two girls.....one that I fancied and the other was her friend who wasn't as good looking......they both looked at me and had their hands up for me to pass the ball......I didn't want to hurt the other girls feelings so I just tossed the ball up in the air "jump ball".....the other one could sense it and she proclaimed to the good looking one..."that was so cute what he did".........till this day I don't fully understand what exactly happened there......anyone have any ideas?

2006-11-16 03:38:41 · 9 answers · asked by giovanni g 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys, is it a turn on for the girl to make the first move? I am almost 25 and so is the guy I've been dating. We've been together for a month and a half now. We've only kissed so far, because I've wanted to take things slow. Anyways, I'm ready to move onto the next step with him. We haven't talked about physical stuff though, should I just go for it and make the first move? Or is that a turn off? We're both really into each other, just haven't gotten a ton of alone time. Guys, what do you think?

2006-11-16 03:38:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:38:01 · 23 answers · asked by Andrea S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Other than the obvious (marriage vows). I'm trying to understand why some people will leave and some won't.

2006-11-16 03:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 03:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by dominicaquilino 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1. when looking or in the company of a man a woman gives out positve body language( running had through hair, bite lips ,look in his eyes, etc)
2. when being with another man she does the same as above
3. Yet she will sleep only with the second man . Does this imply that a woman may find a man attractive to a certian extent , but not enough to sleep with him. Despite similar body language
4. and iam implying that both men earn equal money , have similar emotional connection with the woman , have equal socail status and are equal on every other count

2006-11-16 03:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had an agrument with my best friend. well,it was not my false or his false,it was something false by the situation.
he once mail to me talked about this,but it was'nt a sorry mail-he told me that it was abnormal to get angry (his mail sound more forcing me to don't angry.)

so i got more angry+ depressed by his word in the email. then i never had contact with this friend for 4 months.

but now i think about him. he's the best friend i ever had (don't get the wrong point,he's only best friend,not a boyfriend).

i emailed an happy birthday mail to him last week. but he doesn't reply.
i think he's still angry me aswell 'cause my email didn't seem as a sorry email.

so should i say sorry to make everything clear for our friendship? but it was not my false in the past,so should i be the first one to say sorry?

2006-11-16 03:36:08 · 4 answers · asked by kikk 3 in Friends

my partner left his wife 2yrs ago and he came to live with me but am still a secret coz he says she will bleed im dry and be acquired with the kids he did go back last year 3 times e asnt this year yet! will it ever be different will we be a normal

2006-11-16 03:35:46 · 50 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are currently organizing our wedding party and would like to ask a couple to be in the wedding party however they do not at all get along with one of the ushers. What is the best way to approach the situation ? Should we ask them? This usher has already agreed and he is very close with the groom. Thanks!

2006-11-16 03:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by So Happy!! 4 in Weddings

2006-11-16 03:34:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's there, staring me in the face. My eyes have to fight to look away. I have to imagine that the cleavage is there on purpose. That the girl didn't accidentally show part of her jubblies. What say you?

2006-11-16 03:34:07 · 37 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

on drugs (pills, coke, crack, you name it). She works, he doesn't. They can barely afford to put food on the table. What should I do, if anything. I lend her money, give her rides places....Should we have an intervention? She is almost fed up, he stole her jewlery recently for $. What should I do? Get involved or stay out???

2006-11-16 03:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by baby girl 5 in Friends

2006-11-16 03:33:04 · 1 answers · asked by Joseph M 1 in Friends

I am frustrated with my husband's lack of maturity or concern for anyone beyond himself. I feel like I need a break from him.

2006-11-16 03:32:32 · 17 answers · asked by littlelady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how else to pose this question without sounding like a pretentious jerk, because I am very considerate of others. In fact I think of others before I think of myself.

Anyway, I often find myself socializing with people who I consider inferior to me in regards to intellect, morality, principles, outlooks on life etc... Of course I don't consider my views to be the authority on what is superior, and I know that people are different. However I find myself "toning down" my figure of speech, mannerisms, attitude, etc.. in order to "fit in" with the group. To some of you this may seem as though I am being fake or putting up a facade. But I always stay true to what I believe, I just simplify it thats all because I do not want to offend. It's a very delicate balance.

Some of you may suggest that I just need to get some new friends. However I like the ones that I have, they are just simple-minded. Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to a child.

2006-11-16 03:31:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my first son is 2 when i fell pregnant for two years hes seen him best part of 10 times its me that makes the first move. we started to see each over again in march then i fell pregnant again im now 33 weeks i really want him to be apart of the childrens life but hes not interested do i leave it ?

2006-11-16 03:31:04 · 22 answers · asked by mummy19 1 in Family

are the majority of them ready to settle down or are the majority wanting to go out and have "fun"?

2006-11-16 03:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are involved in a long distance relationship. It was his birthday yesterday, and I could not be there. I just found out he went to a strip club last night. I am not uptight or a prude...that part actually doesn't bother me. The part that I'm upset with is that his friend treated him to "a couple" of lap dances.
Watching a nude woman dance is one thing, but her grinding her privates on his lap I have serious problems with...would you?

2006-11-16 03:30:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one day i went to see him and then my friend said some thing and he said that what would i do if he had one of his friends call me and pretend that she was his girl how would i reacked i told him and wht i would say to him and then i would say about 3 weeks after that had happen he called me and told me if someone calls say that they have the wrong number and i said ok i was think that he called me from a diffrent number and that the person would call the number back but in i would say 3 hours after he had called this phone call came in and it was this girl and she telling me who is talking to alex i said who this and she said tha she was his girlfriend and that she was with him and for the person to stop talking to him and then i said that iam his girl and then she well iam 5 months pregant with his kid and then i got off the phone and called him and i asked him this girl called me and she says that you are going with her and he told me if she calls again then say wrong number i did

2006-11-16 03:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by sexy princess 22 1 in Singles & Dating

So I was over at a "friends" house last night and he "chickened out". We were right in the middle, about to "you know" and he went...saying that he chickened out. We have a funny history. Met with soul intentions of just being friends with benefits, I started to like him, he backed off. We didn't talk for a while and then he contacted me out of the blue. I don't feel anything for him that could lead to a relationship but wondering if he thinks that still. What don guys mean when they get "chickened out". I was really turned on and he commented on it, could he have gotten stage fright??

2006-11-16 03:29:43 · 16 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Singles & Dating

my cousin is looking for colors such as
wine/creme
wine/champagne
wine/gold

HELP!!

2006-11-16 03:29:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my roomie has been living with me for 3 months and he has only showered 2 maybe 3 times, its disgusting. how do i let him know without hurting his feelings that its ok to shower everyday?

2006-11-16 03:28:19 · 39 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Friends

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now and the relationship is going very good. We don't argue and he treats me great. He works a well paying full time job and lives with his older brother. Since me and him been together he have spent every night for the past 3 months at my apartment. Majority of his free time is at my apartment. Should I be asking him for money? Is he living off me? He haven't offered me money to pay any bills. Though he make way more money then me and only have to pay his brother $200 a month. While my motnhly living expenses is over $800 a month. What should I do?

2006-11-16 03:28:15 · 21 answers · asked by Tish 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has ask me to be in her wedding again......I was in her first did all the duties of a bridesmaid and now she is getting married again. I do not want to hurt her feelings but I do not feel like shelling out all this $$$ again....HELP

2006-11-16 03:28:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Exes ever forgive or want back?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. the thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me at the monet. please dont say move on

2006-11-16 03:27:04 · 5 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What are your considerations when it comes to dating a separated (heading for divorced) or a divorced man? I am currently separated (11 months) and heading for divorce. I made a lot of mistakes in my marriage some of which I have done counseling for and the goal is to be the best man I can be. I just recently started to try to make friends but not trying to move to fast while in the divorce process.

What I have experienced is women who don't want a man with more than 1 kid (I have 4 who are loved and well taken care of). I've run into the "players" who want as many men around them as possible. I don't have time for that. Etc. Etc. My point is that I would like to know what it is women look at when you encounter someone such as myself.

2006-11-16 03:26:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My treasure chest has ropes, handcuffs, whips, blindfolds, etc. Why is that when I tell a man this, they get this horrified look on their face? I promise not to hurt them too bad.

2006-11-16 03:26:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:26:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted this question yesterday and got amazing ideas. So many in fact that I'm asking for more.

I'm currently deployed to Afghanistan. I'm going home in a few months. When I get there I will have a lot of leave days built up to spend with my girlfriend. (can't wait) I'm looking for a lot of little romantic sweet things to show her how much I truly missed, love and adore her. I have some ideas but...... any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanx in advance OEF-7 Afghanistan

2006-11-16 03:25:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:25:15 · 10 answers · asked by matasanos 1 in Marriage & Divorce