Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

Our son is getting married soon and I was wondering who is supposed to make the reservations for the wedding rehearsal dinner and who chooses where to have it? I know we, the groom's partents are to pay for this dinner. Is there any limit on how many people we pay for. I assume the in-laws are included.
If anyone has any good info on this subject I would appreciate your help.
I really don't even know what our responsibilties are in this wedding. Can anyone help? Do I do anything special for the bride? Like a party?

2006-11-16 03:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by Momwithaheart 4 in Weddings

Girls, please give your experience! Do they look uncomfortable or even like they don't want to look at you?

Guys, input?

2006-11-16 03:24:26 · 10 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of my questions asked have been pertaining to this matter. (See my archive of questions) BUT ANYWAY, my soon to be ex is home......our divorce hearing is in May. Though I still have love/feelings for my soon to be ex, I will be there in May to end this.

As stated in the question title, while he was away, his cousin and I found ourselves enraptured with one another, and because my marriage was a horrible one, and my soon to be exhusband is not a pleasant or respectable person.........the relationship with his cousin, which started out innocently as ONLY friends, and occasional conversation.....eventually budded into love, admiration, appreciation, etc. Though now that my soon to be ex is back home, he has no idea about his cousin and I.

The first few days were rocky, but now we are able to talk, and be civil. There are still occasional arguments......but more than that is the INTENSE physical attraction we have always shared. I have actually had 'sessions' with him twice --

2006-11-16 03:23:52 · 6 answers · asked by lilac b 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he was just checking it out. But he posted his photo and gave his regular e-mail as a contact address. He also specified he was looking for a milf/older woman, we're 23. He put this up 2 days ago. What do you think? I have to dump the dumbass right? the retard used our shared computer to do it and didn't even think to delete the history. We've been together or a year (this week!) and I let slide a couple of suspicious things in past. Time to cut my losses and move on? Or explainable curiousity?

2006-11-16 03:22:24 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

up my leg until she got to my c*ck...when the meeting was over she got up, smiled and left..I was so effin horny to begin with...whats with the friggin tease?..If you start something finish the damn thing...right?

2006-11-16 03:22:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:21:31 · 22 answers · asked by dominicaquilino 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 4 years has been really cold to me for a while now. he likes to boss me around when were around his family or friends. He grabs me really hard by the arm sometimes to "make me listen" and leave huge purple bruises. if i do something wrong, instead of laughing it off like we used too, he treats me like a child who should be punished. he makes me feel bad about myself and calls me fat and other immature names. i'm 23 5'6 and only 116 lbs! i don't think i'm that fat. what should i do? does this even constitute as abuse?

2006-11-16 03:20:49 · 23 answers · asked by luxxx ♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so my best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) we are 15 (mature) and have known each other for 2 years. Recently-for about the last two weeks- she has been asking for hugs alot, almost every day, and keeps saying she loves me. She had never done either of these before. But the thing is, she has just gotten a boyfriend (16), so I dont know what is up with the hugging etc. all of a sudden. I like her more than a friend and I have to tell her (I will wait till she breaks up with the guy), but I want to know, why might she be getting more touchy so much so quickly? If I am walking her home she puts her arm around me, and the other day I just made the flippant comment; hey, the cat's giving me a back rub, none of ye are that nice (to a group of friends) and she said "I'd give you a back rub". I find this behaviour odd since she has a bf. Whatever your answer, please say why, as I am trying to work it out.

2006-11-16 03:20:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am planning to marry but, here lies my major problem

2006-11-16 03:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by barona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I spoke with me X-gal a few times and we cleared some things up with regard what went wrong in our relationship. At that time she said hopefully she would find the person she's looking for in her life. She said that she still thinks about me and couple months was a long time for us not talking. I told her that I cared and loved her. She said it was best not to talk but it's funny when I talk about the good memories she's willing to listen. Last night I did a little investigating myself. I saw her with the guy I caught her two months ago hugging and kissing. Why? did she even bother to listen to me. By the way the guy she's seeing has a live in girlfriend.

2006-11-16 03:18:46 · 10 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

Do think that would make you guys achieve more,and work harder to have a better woman. I dont really know....

2006-11-16 03:17:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anything that is funny, it can be gross, it can be off the wall, anything.

I don't get offended easily so I won't report you for abuse.

:)

2006-11-16 03:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

In an earlier question this week i mentioned someone younger than me.

Although I got on with her that actual day we spent together, the next day it hit me, I was so used to being single and doing my own things. I was not used to all of a sudden start texting this woman. But after thinking about it it was what I really wanted.

Is this the case with her to?
Deep down I really like her and despite the way she has treated me I am still considering texting her back. The thing is she has hurt me already 3 times already by treating me like she has.
I still can't understand how she has told people that she really likes me, blushed and smiled when people asked if we were getting along. Then text me saying that she is enjoying having her own space and enjoying being alone and having fun.
I don't want a relationship just yet.
Then I met someone telling me that she does really like you know.
What does the Hi hows you text me back love... x mean.
Any advice please before I

2006-11-16 03:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by sija_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my man have a very sexual relationship. we like to try new things,toys, and positions. but we are beginning to run out of ideas to make it exciting..i dont want our sexual relationship to be boring and unexciting. we both are very open minded and are open to any suggestions...nothing can be too crazy.

2006-11-16 03:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by manders359 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for over twenty years, however in the last year I have become increasingly aware of the differences between us. I like to go out, try new things, socialise. I like the cinema and music, exercising and generally life. My husband on the other hand doesn't do anything, won't try anything new, he works away a lot and when he is around we don't have anything to talk about. On one hand I am afraid to leave, afraid of the unknown. But on the other hand I dread the prospect of retirement with him. I do love him but I am beginning to think that is not enough. I am confused. When is it time to leave?

2006-11-16 03:15:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that people think that guys that sing in choir are wimps. I play football and I am not a wimp. Are there any girls who think guys who sing in choir can still be boyfriend material. Feel free to e-mail me anyway because I would like to meet a nice girl my age (14-16)

2006-11-16 03:14:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:14:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

could u guys help me u guys that have a myspace can i look u up and thanks for asnwering my other question about being a ride 2 die chick iam really trust and believe .............. thank u so much holla @ tha one and only Appebottom chick

2006-11-16 03:14:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are times I get the best compliments and flattery with my hair color, which is natural red. other times I am automatically labeld as psycho, or wild. Blondes have more fun, Burnettes are what, serious, what are you thoughts on personality and hair color

2006-11-16 03:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Singles & Dating

But about 5 months ago, he left his company and decided to start a business. Well, he actually began 12 companies and is working on a 13th. He is a workaholic, and that is fine if thats what he wants. However, he is using our home as his office and people are in and out at all hours (as early as 7:30am and as late as 2:00am) almost always without any notice. I am stressed as we have two very active twin boys that are in elementary school. I have very little privacy or home life. It is wearing on me that I want to cry all the time. My husband will not listen to my concerns or respect any rules (nobody in home until I get boys off to school). He gets angry and shouts. To make it worse, his employees know everything about us: Whats in our refrigerator, when we pay our bills, who calls, etc. and they gossip about us...which really upsets me as we have been so open and giving. Any advice???

2006-11-16 03:13:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 03:11:34 · 59 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:11:25 · 6 answers · asked by dontalib 1 in Friends

2006-11-16 03:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by taylorsmom534 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now and live in New York. He is black and I am white.. I have no issues with this at all, and wouldn't even notice if it weren't made obvious by others.. I have no concern for other people's judgement or reservations about our relationship and I am completely comfortable with it. My family knows of it and have no issues either, although if they did it wouldn't matter to me either. I know he is comfortable and loving me too, but he has never been with a white woman before, nor had to bring one home to the family. I have met his father's side of the family and know many of them well, but he has yet to introduce me to his mother or mention introducing us... I'm sure it's because she'll have a strong opinion about it, but he assures me that's not an issue... I've got mixed feelings about this, and not sure if I should be feeling some kinda ways about it yet. He is close with his mother and I feel I should have met her by now.. Yes??

2006-11-16 03:09:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:08:48 · 11 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

i downt no what to say to my fiends any more got any questions or wat to say

2006-11-16 03:08:16 · 12 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Friends

Seriously, I'm about to run dry trying to manage between having a wife, the Tuesday evening girlfriend and the occasional booty call on lunch breaks.
I'm really good at keeping the financial, the mobile, the gift evidence seperate. But what about the energy?

2006-11-16 03:08:08 · 13 answers · asked by hiplaque 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 03:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by VIC2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I work real hard and she does not get mush time for herself. Because us boys are always at home when she get home from work about 2 year now I had been setting time for my wife to have some her time away from us kids and I find it very good for my wife and I relationship. Does anyone other then me do this?

2006-11-16 03:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by celticdragon 6 in Marriage & Divorce

And if your ex's did, but a new gf didn't would you want her to have one done?

Just wondering.

2006-11-16 03:05:48 · 24 answers · asked by Clare 2 in Singles & Dating