I spoke with me X-gal a few times and we cleared some things up with regard what went wrong in our relationship. At that time she said hopefully she would find the person she's looking for in her life. She said that she still thinks about me and couple months was a long time for us not talking. I told her that I cared and loved her. She said it was best not to talk but it's funny when I talk about the good memories she's willing to listen. Last night I did a little investigating myself. I saw her with the guy I caught her two months ago hugging and kissing. Why? did she even bother to listen to me. By the way the guy she's seeing has a live in girlfriend.
2006-11-16 03:18:46 · 10 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're atill hardboring a deep love for her and you're not willing to let it go. She has no obligation to be faithful to you, especially since you two aren't together. You need to move on, plain and simple. I don't mean to be mean, because I feel for you, but you guys both need to live your lives apart from each other. Don't talk for a hile unless you're willingto be just friends with her. While I don't condone the fact that she was kissing a guy in a "committed" relationship, I think you need to let her live her life. Worry about her, yes, try to control what she does, no. Don't expect her to have any sense of obligation towards you because hse doesn't.
2006-11-16 03:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes the attention and knowing you still have feelings for her. While she may still have feelings for you, she may also just want to be leaving the door open. Some women cannot stand the thought of being alone or not having men want them. Move on with your life. Learn from this. Besides who would want a chick that values themselves and others so little to be carrying on an affair. Good Luck.
2006-11-16 03:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by ape2016 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She listened because somewhere inside of her she misses you and misses the good times you two had together. As far as her seeing a guy that's already in a relationship, perhaps you should be a good FRIEND and let her know that she deserves to be with someone who can give their full attention to her, it's not right of her to be dating such a jerk. Let her know that you still care for her and don't want her to get hurt.
2006-11-16 03:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is listening most likely because she feels like she should. If you can, give up on her because that's a lost cause, really and truely. If she's seeing a committed guy, and that doesn't bother her, being monogamous and treating a relationship witht the care and respect it deserves, isn't important to her. You can do better. I am sorry I can't help you more.
2006-11-16 03:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by scoutredneckfluffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably still has feelings for you, but rather not hurt your feelings by doing this behind you back. I'm sure she finds it more exciting and interesting to be with someone who has someone else already. She probably gets that adrenalin rush knowing she's fulfilling someones needs for someone else. The desire is much greater and pleasurable for some people.
2006-11-16 03:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by clean p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know that? If not you might want to tell her. If she does then he might have told her that he would her to go out with her. If this doesn't make since for you I am sorry. But maybe she doesn't want to relive the past maybe she wants to live in the future even if that means you not being in it.
2006-11-16 03:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you. Looks like she is wanting something she can't really have, and so she is living her life right now as a cheater. It's what turns her on.
Get over her, heal yourself and move on.
2006-11-16 03:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn. She fu@k up.
Lucky bastard now u can find the right person!
2006-11-16 03:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by life_and_ashleyxoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just playing games. she dont know who she want. Let her go.
2006-11-16 03:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by shronda s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn this sounds fu(ked up!
2006-11-16 03:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋