In an earlier question this week i mentioned someone younger than me.
Although I got on with her that actual day we spent together, the next day it hit me, I was so used to being single and doing my own things. I was not used to all of a sudden start texting this woman. But after thinking about it it was what I really wanted.
Is this the case with her to?
Deep down I really like her and despite the way she has treated me I am still considering texting her back. The thing is she has hurt me already 3 times already by treating me like she has.
I still can't understand how she has told people that she really likes me, blushed and smiled when people asked if we were getting along. Then text me saying that she is enjoying having her own space and enjoying being alone and having fun.
I don't want a relationship just yet.
Then I met someone telling me that she does really like you know.
What does the Hi hows you text me back love... x mean.
Any advice please before I
2006-11-16 03:16:42 · 11 answers · asked by sija_uk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has she changed her mind, i am in the same group with her tomorrow and wondering how do deal with her.
2006-11-16 03:18:50 · update #1
I do not love the chase and wont, to me if you like someone why bother the chase.
2006-11-16 03:20:39 · update #2
About playing the field that is not me, if i wanted to there would be no field left. It took me ages infact 2 years for me to meet someone who i like.
2006-11-16 03:26:00 · update #3
I text her today and said that i needed to talk and i am really hurt. i said if it means being friends at first its ok. dont text, she sent me a text asking why are you hurt? who by?
Shall i bother telling her it is her who is doing it or shall i wait and see if she writes or phones back.
2006-11-17 04:39:00 · update #4
Shes hurt u before...
A lepoard neva changes her spots...
Shes done it once she will and can do it again...
Be careful...
I wouldnt but i know what its like and we all do it we all go back we all think we can help and that we can change them it never happens...
If she wants u back for what eva reason she will chase u she will tell people she will txt u but just dont give in not unless shes changed not unless u really think it can change and things will be different etc....
2006-11-16 03:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Zoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's either bi-polar or she is so in love with the fact of having someone "there" for her that she tells everyone the 2 of you are doing great without giving it a second thought. I say get out of the relationship and start fresh. There are a lot of fish out in the sea (excuse the korny example). If she has hurt you 3 times already, she is bound to do it again...and keep doing it for that matter. It's not fun being hurt by someone you care about (speaking from experience) but it is worth it to get out there and find someone who will treat you right with all of the love and respect you deserve. Quit settling for the crappiness in your life and demand something better!! :)
2006-11-16 11:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by KiKi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. I didn't see your earlier posting but the only way to find something out is to ask.
Ask her if she feels the same way. You'll know by how long it takes ger to answer. Therefore it is very important to ask her in person. Not by Text
2006-11-16 11:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by specs appeal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a bunch of drama you don't need, and it sounds like she has no idea what she wants.
Don't go along with this crap, don't let her treat you this way. Don't text her back, be cordial when you see her, but get on with your life and someone better WILL come along.
2006-11-16 11:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so whats your problem? I am confused! you don't know if she fancies you, or you don't know if she wants anything serious etc...why don't you reply to her text by texting: all this Text nonsense is doing my head in, you can actually use a mobile to SPEAK to someone!
maybe TALKING and having a CONVERSATION about your feelings will help to resolve any problems and help you understand where you both stand.
2006-11-16 11:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Estee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you've said that she hurts you already for 3x, i'm not quite sure if she really likes you for good or she's just playing around with you. if i were you, you better ask her prankly speaking how she feels about you before you drown yourself. x means- lots of love...goodluck!
2006-11-16 11:25:14 · answer #6 · answered by Simply_Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her outright that she is giving you mixed messages,and it is upsetting you. Then step back from her for awhile and see how you-and she-feel about a relationship.
2006-11-16 11:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun with her! No one needs the serious stuff.
Don't commit yourself to one person either. play the field.
2006-11-16 11:23:48 · answer #8 · answered by li'l mizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the feelings are there. But she sounds like she could be scared to act upon her feelings.
2006-11-16 11:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you.. she's probably just scared that you don't like her or your not 'perfect' treat her like a normal person and meet up as friends then you'll both realise wher you stand.
2006-11-16 13:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by thorpehannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋