how can you manage a marrigae when you leave early and come back late from work?

Question

i am planning to marry but, here lies my major problem

Answer 1

Well... When you get married you can

Get up early leave cute little notes telling her you love her.
Make her something to eat.

Come home late?
Ask her to join you in the shower
Cralw into bed and give her little kisses on the check and neck. ect...


The main thing with this, is that she knows that you love her! As long as she knows you love her then your all good.


Best wishes!

Answer 2

If you really love each other. You can find a way to manage any problem. And has far as problems go this is an easy one. Spend time together on your day off. Your spouse is not your child. You don't have to be there 24/7 with them. Just make sure that when you are there. Your there. Don't let anything else interfere with your time you and she have. I speak from experience. My husband has been working 2 jobs for the last 5 years so I could stay home with our son who has medical problem. He works 50+ at his day job and another 20+ at his night per week. But, We manage to make things work we make use of what time we have and we don't waste it worrying about how much or little time it ends up being.

Answer 3

1)Don't come home with work on your mind,2) do something together even if its just watching a movie or tv 3) make sure she knows that shes appreciated and needed (women like to be needed) 4) always make her feel sexy 4) don't sweat the small things in life 5) realize that no 2 people are alike and accept your partners faults (what you consider to be a fault) 6) talk at the end of the day about each of your days and truly be interested in what she has to say, and she to you 7) Remember money isn't everything for if you don't have love you are nothing. It took a while but my partner finally realised that our children and I were far too important to lose because of money. As long as you can pay the bills things will be fine, no need to be rich (everytning is left behind in end anyways)

Answer 4

How many hours do you work? If you work more than 60 hours a week (on a regular basis), don't get married. You have to realize a happy marriage is like a second job, you have to clock in there too. So you will have to cut back on the hours you work away from home and spend time with your woman. If you don't soon she will be looking for her pleasure elsewhere and with some body else. That's why the divorce rate is over 51 percent in America.

Answer 5

People do it all the time. It's called communication and compromise. If you work long hours due to the nature of your work, then you make arrangements to spend quality time together on your day off, or the time you ARE home.

Answer 6

people do it all the time. My husband is away from me for 6 months at a time and we still work things out and we love each other very much. If you love her and she loves you yall will figure something out

Answer 7

It's possible, but difficult. by late do you mean 2am or do you mean something like 8 or 9pm?

Does she work too or stay up late? If she stays up late you two could do stuff late at night.

Answer 8

Well, do you have any days off? If so, make sure that day is spent with your wife. Well, if not then make a day off.You can always meet each other for lunch if possible.

Answer 9

call her during the day...do you really need to work more than 40 hours? Material things arent more important than she is...relationships are the best thing in life..

Answer 10

call her often throughout the day to see how she is...send her flowers...just let her know that even though you are working a lot you still love her and think about her often. good luck!