So I was over at a "friends" house last night and he "chickened out". We were right in the middle, about to "you know" and he went...saying that he chickened out. We have a funny history. Met with soul intentions of just being friends with benefits, I started to like him, he backed off. We didn't talk for a while and then he contacted me out of the blue. I don't feel anything for him that could lead to a relationship but wondering if he thinks that still. What don guys mean when they get "chickened out". I was really turned on and he commented on it, could he have gotten stage fright??
2006-11-16 03:29:43 · 16 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh! Why even bother doing it?
It sounds like he's not feeling it. I say move on, and actually have sex with someone you have some feelings for.
2006-11-16 03:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for him.
Maybe he actually had time to think about the consequences he could face by making sex a game instead of something special between two people that are committed to each other instead of just a one night stand. Maybe?
Have you given thought to the fact that your reputation is something you earn whether it be a good one or a bad one? Have you thought the consequences of making sex a game?
Obviously not.
2006-11-16 11:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys don't "chicken out" if its just casual sex. There is something hiding underneath. If you are truly friends, you'll be able to sit down and hash it out.
2006-11-16 11:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by Miloree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits can be a lot of fun, but only if you're receiving the benefits.
2006-11-16 11:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's gay and the thought of having sex with a woman turns him off. Tell him you'd like to use a strap on on him and see if he gets excited.
2006-11-16 11:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either he has thought about the consequences of having casual sex with someone he doesn't love or he's gay.
2006-11-16 11:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by PRS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is messing around with your head. Just don't see him anymore, and see if he keeps calling you.
2006-11-16 11:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy was probably just nervous. you know his knot's tied around something so he probably didn't want to make a fool out of himself.
2006-11-16 11:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He probably splooged in his pants, or he is a virgen has no idea what he is doing, or you smell bad.
2006-11-16 11:32:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He means he got scared. Just ask him or/and try again
2006-11-16 11:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋