2006-11-16 03:38:01 · 23 answers · asked by Andrea S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't have an relationship without trust. It just doesn't work that way. What did you do that that person doesn't trust you or what happened to that person that they don't trust. After you figure that out, work with each other to gain that trust!
2006-11-16 03:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by mamato5Boys 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you have given that person a reason not to trust you, then move on. If that person is very jealous and does not trust you out of jealously, move on.
No matter how you look at it, if there is no trust in a relationship, then there is no relationship. You have to have mutual trust in order to maintain a relationship. If your mistake was not serious than trust can be rebuilt.
If you made a mistake that is not seriously relationship injuring, then you should explain to your significant other that you made a mistake and you will regain their trust. It will still take some time, but you can regain trust in this instance.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-16 12:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to find out what the reason is that the other person doesn't trust you for. Secondly, if you did nothing wrong then chances are pretty good that the accuser is guilty. There is no relationship if there isn't trust. It's that simple. You have to get out of it. Trust is never earned again once it's lost. Ask anyone who stopped trusting someone. Good luck and GOD bless.
2006-11-16 11:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You either try a way to fix the problem, which can not always be done or you get out and find someone whom you can trust. You should never stay with anyone that you cant trust.
2006-11-16 11:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person doesn't trust me in a relationship then its their problem that i cant help them with and they have a trust issue. TRUST is a big thing to gain from someone and is also quik to kill it at the same time if they trusted in the past. What should you do if no one trusts you.... show them they can AND eventually they will gain that trust if they chose.
2006-11-16 11:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They must not trust you for a reason, so you dont just give up on the relationship especially if you were the cause of DISTRUST. You need to stay and help them out and try to earn the trust back!
2006-11-16 11:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done nothing to cause distrust, then you are in a relationship with a very jealous type of individual. Believe me, this won't get any better and often can lead down a path to violence. There is nothing you can do to prove yourself to this kind of an individual. They need the constant reassurance that they are OK by making you out to be NOT OK.
My recommendation would be to say: if I keep hearing this kind of "stuff" from you then I'm out of this relationship. You have no reason to think that I am not devoted only to you. No more chances.
If you hear it again, give up the girl/guy. It will never be right.
If you HAVE done something to cause mistrust, then take the same approach but say "I fixed it and it's over."
2006-11-16 11:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you've given them no reason not to trust, I wouldn't worry about it, if you are being hassled all the time, I would let them know that isn't going to fly or you're done. If you've given them reason and want to continue the relationship, you will need to do things in your actions to show them they can trust you, remember trust is earned not just given. And its easier to give if they have never been betrayed. So the question is have you betrayed this person and given them reason to mistrust you?
2006-11-16 11:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do things and express yourself to show her that she can trust/regain your trust. If she still doesn't, then it's time to move on. Besides a relationship is not a relationship if you don't trust one another.
2006-11-16 11:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by clean p 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WELL IT DEPENDS HAVE YOU GAVE THAT PERSON A REASON NOT TO TRUST YOU? IF YOU HAVENT WHY DO YOU FEEL THAT WAY? ASK YOURSELF THIS HOW CAN YOU BE WITH SOMEONE WHO CANT TRUST YOU? THEY WILL ALWAYS QUESTION YOU ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU DO. IF THAT WHAT YOU WANT THEN YOU ALREADY HAVE YOUR ANSWER. IF THAT NOT WHAT U WANT THEN SAY U EITHER TRUST ME OR WE DONE
2006-11-16 11:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋