Guys, is it a turn on for the girl to make the first move? I am almost 25 and so is the guy I've been dating. We've been together for a month and a half now. We've only kissed so far, because I've wanted to take things slow. Anyways, I'm ready to move onto the next step with him. We haven't talked about physical stuff though, should I just go for it and make the first move? Or is that a turn off? We're both really into each other, just haven't gotten a ton of alone time. Guys, what do you think?
2006-11-16 03:38:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should mention that this guy is a total gentleman, I mean seriously. He really respects women and he is such a gentleman. He has always opened my car door and all other doors for me, I mean, he's that nice. He's an amazing guy, and normally I may not wait this long to make a move, but he's different than past guys I've dated and I can see myself marrying this guy. That's why I didn't want to move fast and mess it up! :)
2006-11-16 03:44:23 · update #1
I've always preferred women who make their wants and needs known. I hate guessing games. Take your shot, sounds like you two are moving at a good pace. Guess I need a woman who uses those airport flashlights...I don't pick up on signals too well I guess....
2006-11-16 03:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he'd still be dating you after a month and a half if he wasn't interested in that. I can't see any normal guy getting offended or freaked out and running away. ( He'd have to be a religious conservative AND a closet case. )
I think he can tell you want to take things slow, so he's being very polite and letting you take the first, second, and third moves. I doubt he's ever going to try anything if you don't- but will eventually lose interest.
2006-11-16 03:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by randomstupidhandle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a turn off at all. He may be too much a gentleman to make the first move so just go for it. Either that or he is gay or lost his penis in some sort of accident/sadist sex game. But if you try it on with him you will know for sure
2006-11-16 03:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Holraldo III 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like it when the girl makes the first move. It shows me that she wants the "next step" instead of my needing to worry about if I should make the move or not. If you are 25 and have been dating for 1.5 months, I am sure he will like having you make the next move...unless he's waiting for marriage.
2006-11-16 03:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does kind of depend on the guy, but if he likes you and is timid about making the first move he would probably really appreciate it!
2006-11-16 03:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Harlan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not a guy but when I was dating my husband we took things really slow and I wanted to speed things up Just al ittle.......(wink) to make a long story short I'm married and have no complaints. hope this helped you.
2006-11-16 03:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by kim806 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guy's are turned on by us girls taking the first move, just go for it girl, and good luck.
2006-11-16 03:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy a virgin, and working on staying that way or he is gay. Trip him and try and beat him to the floor. If that doesn´t get something going nothing will.
2006-11-16 03:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead and ask him if he is reayd for that type of thing and if he says yes then let him make the first move and u follow his lead cause a man likes to be in control of the sexual relatinship he likes to **** u any way that he can
2006-11-16 03:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by derrick_green19 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a woman and one in all best turn ons is whilst a guy the place's his hat backwards along with his shirt off. it provides him a funky eye-catching seem! my best turnoff might could be obese lazy men!
2016-10-22 04:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by jaisigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋