Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

i'm sort of with this boy, hes in the year above me at school, he's always asking me to come out with his mates at the park to drink and he says he wants to do 'stuff' with me. i'm not sure whether to go or not as i am quite young, help me people please! x

2006-11-15 03:03:10 · 16 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Singles & Dating

been divorced now for 6 yrs ( i got rid of him) been played since but afraid of getting involved with some one else
not desperate at the mo but im getting close

2006-11-15 03:02:21 · 20 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

well what do you think? any suggestion are helpful to me.. Even though your not married!! It's far more better having fun with the guys on their first time..

2006-11-15 03:02:15 · 13 answers · asked by Tilly 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been liking a guy for 2 years but I just found the strength to tell him that I like him 5 months ago, but unknowingly hooked him up with a girl that's like my cuzin and she really likes him, but she has like 8 other boyfriends and I get so jealous when I see them together but I never say anythang. He knows that I like him but he won't say shyt he just gives me a hug and says hi and shyt. Every time I see him I want to kiss him but than I think about my cuzin and I stop myself but I know that he likes me cause the way that he looks at me and how he acts when his girl ain't around. He be all up on me and I don't hating it, I just act like I do so I don't feel gulity around my cuzin. I mean I have known her for 15 years and that is all her life. She's 15 and he's 18 and I want him so bad, I mean he is closer to my age and I want him I just don't know what to do about this crush or what ever you want to call it. The thing is that my girl wouldn't like that very much.

2006-11-15 03:01:38 · 3 answers · asked by keisha_2bw 1 in Friends

2006-11-15 03:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by trp 2 in Singles & Dating

Ex has primary custody but refuses to work. Therefore she is collecting government assistance. I pay child support as per the child support guidelines. I am wondering if any of that money is kept for my son or if it is taken by social assistance.

2006-11-15 02:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by missingonehalo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive bin wid my fella 4 ova 3 months an i love him mor than i can explain 2 myself let alone any1 else, ive lived wid him at his mums place since we got 2gether an we decided a while ago 2 get our own place, that woz all wel an gd but now i hav a wk b4 we actually do go it alone an i am absolutely brickin it, dnt get me wrong i want 2 liv alone wid him but i dnt no if it is 2 soon, 1 of my previous relationships failed not long after we moved in2gether an i really dnt want it 2 happen this time. I really dnt no wot 2 do an im afraid 2 tell him how i feel as he has bin lookin 4ward 2 it since we decided 2 do it, im lookin 4ward 2 havin our own space 2 but i jus kp gettin these nigglin feelins that it wil b a repeat of the last time i moved in wid a bf, im torn as 2 wot i want an it is beginin 2 show,im becomin stressed about it an i jus snap ova silly little things an it wil soon start 2 affect our relationship. WOT DO I DO?????

2006-11-15 02:59:04 · 12 answers · asked by Seb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please I am really serious anout this! I am a Well mannered guy and respect females

2006-11-15 02:57:25 · 20 answers · asked by ayushchocky 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but hes seven years older than me, but all the signs I look up show me that we're meant to be are we?

2006-11-15 02:57:11 · 8 answers · asked by Cesars Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is a friend's ex. She screwed him over really badly and broke his heart a year ago. He has had a few flings over the last year, all of which he told them, I don't want a girlfriend. People are starting to question our relationship as more than friends and keeps asking me when we are going to get together. He's still not over her completely and we talked about us possibly dating and he said that he couldn't date a friend of his ex. And I told him that if feelings were ever there, I'd have trouble because I'd always be thinking what would she have said or done. But I'm not really friends with her anymore and he knows our relationship is strained. We've never kissed, we hang out all the time, talk everyday, a few days ago we talked some pretty spicy stuff but then didn't talk for a few days after that. He pays for me everytime we go out to eat. But then when I joke about hooking up with someone, he's like "go get yours". I don't get it! What does he want??

2006-11-15 02:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by skybelle24 3 in Singles & Dating

gf cheating but i luv her we have been together 4 a year what can i do to let her no i luv her and want 2 be with her

2006-11-15 02:56:44 · 19 answers · asked by kendall j 1 in Singles & Dating

Do women like men who are in control?

I love to be incontrol and am aggressive but only in bedroom, what do ladies think on this??? i am not into freaky stuf... just... control.... mail me at this_scorpion_bites_slowly at yahoo dot com...

2006-11-15 02:56:15 · 8 answers · asked by James A 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife has been talking to a male neighbor on her cell phone, she denies it...should I confront Him?

2006-11-15 02:55:48 · 23 answers · asked by dan d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 02:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by John S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always believed in honesty, so when my boyfriend started asking me questions about my past, I told him everything. Now, there is one thing (that I am not proud of) that he uses against me every time we get in an argument. Most of the time it doesn't have anything to do with the argument, it's just that he knows it's something I regret and it seems to be the only weapon he has against me. I am beginning to think that this is going to ruin our relationship because I don't intend to have this thrown in my face constantly, especially since it happened long before I even met him. Now I am feeling like I should have kept my mouth shut and in the future, if I end up in another relationship, I will keep my past to myself. On the other hand, I don't know if I should punish a future boyfriend because this one is immature. He done much worse things than that, but he knows that I am ashamed of it and he loves to make me feel bad about. Should I keep my secrets after this?

2006-11-15 02:54:53 · 13 answers · asked by justcurious 3 in Singles & Dating

- have a guy friend that i like. we slept together three times, as friends with benefits. then he said we should back off for now because he only likes me as a friend.

- when i mention a new guy i might be interested in, he seems interested in what i am saying, but is quick to point out the bad qualities the guy possesses. he gets really over-protective.

- he never compliments me, because he says he would be leading me on. but he is quick to point out all the stuff he DOESN'T like about me. It hurts my feelings and we wind up getting into aurguments.

- he says that nothing i ever do will change the fact that he only likes me as a friend. that he will never be interested in me romatically at all. which stings, because i hate to be ruled out all together.

- when i mention any other girl he is talking to, he is quick to state that he isn't sleeping with any of them, just talking. "i could have anyone, but i haven't had sex with anyone else.." - which, i'm ruled out, why would i care?

anyone have any ideas here? because i am getting sick of the back & forth stuff..

2006-11-15 02:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Singles & Dating

she is so scaed to tell her b/f of 14 years this she knows that he wanted children do you thin he will leave her and look for somone who can please tell me what i should to help her

2006-11-15 02:53:49 · 15 answers · asked by loverboy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

high for a marriage to be considered healthy. also, on three different occasions over the past year during arguments my wife had told me that she sometimes regrets marrying me. i think as a result of this, i am depressed a lot of the time. i have always had low self esteem and this has definitely made my self esteem even worse. is this a bad situation? as far as marriages go, what percentile would this fall under as far as "bad situations" go. would this be in the bottom quarter of all marriages as far as quality? we have two kids. she complains about my family.. i feel like i am always walking on eggshells about to do something that will further aggravate her. this is not what a marriage is supposed to be is it?

2006-11-15 02:53:11 · 14 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im so frusterated with my boyfriend! I know he doesnt liek to talk on the phone for very long, and thats not the problem, as long as he calls thats all that matters to me. The problem is right before he gets off he says "ill call you tomorrow or ill get online to talk to you" or something close to that, and 40% of the time he follows up with that but the other 60% he doesnt get online at all, or call, or even text saying HI! It's not that im mad that we dont talk for one day, it just irritates me when he gets me all excited to talk to him tomorrow but hardly ever follows up with it. What does it mean when he does that? Should i not trust his word anymore? I mean he has a full time job so ... do you think that might be it? or am i reading to much into this? PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-15 02:52:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i have been going out with my bf or i should say ex now for about 3 years. i broke up with him the other day due to the fact that it seems that he is picking his computer games or whatever over me. he says hes not any has nothing to do while i am at work blah blah but i also broke up with him for other reasons. i still love him very much and everything and i told him that only reason we will get back together is if i delete all your everquest crap and he was like no i shouldnt have to do that..so in my mind he is choosing the game over our relationship? What should i do? and guys why is he doing this?

2006-11-15 02:51:59 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

can a fling turn into a relationship? i allways see this guy at the office hes ever around and when l feel like letting go there he comes wat can l do cause my heart is falling for him.If l tell him my feelings wont l lose him?How can l make him see that am failing for him that i fell in love the first time we had that fling. Was it just a fling? can it work? cant take it feel like telling him my feelings but am scared of getting huurt if he doesnt feel the same, hes my best friend wat can i do?

2006-11-15 02:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by caroline 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 02:49:55 · 22 answers · asked by tuna 2 in Singles & Dating

Her fiance slammed me up against a wall so I punche him in the face. They called the cops and I got arrested now shes pressing charges, should I respect her or even respect her opinion?

2006-11-15 02:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by Kat A 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why does everyone think that man should be the one's to take care of the women , with or with out children, i think it's up to both of them not just the man, i think this is very rude, for most to think it must be the man, with the people i know they share their money , while others say the women has her own and the man has his own, so why most people say the man, it takes to people , not just the one, true

2006-11-15 02:49:34 · 4 answers · asked by louise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

even if they don't like you back and never give you attention? Is it ok to live in the thinking that someday they may like you?

2006-11-15 02:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know hwo to tell him and my youth pastor dosen't really trust him but i do plez help

2006-11-15 02:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi!! i'm trying to get back in touch w/ an old friend of mine, we go way back, all the way to kindergarten, we're both in our 20s now, i've tried finding her on classmates.com, myspace, but no luck!! her name is alexis aguinaga, we're both from california, the last time i saw her was about 4 years ago.......last i knew she was living in lake elsinore/corona area..........hmmmmmm i would love love love to see/talk to her again, if anyone knows her please tell her that vanessa would loooooveee to catch up!!! : ) i know her family, my mom and her mom were pretty good friends, but they're just as bad as us w/ keeping in touch lately.......this probably sounds crazy, but i'm desperate at this point!! : ) old friends are good to have, and i miss her! : ) thanks for reading and hopefully someone out there knows her! : )

2006-11-15 02:48:54 · 1 answers · asked by leobutterflygoddess 3 in Friends

So I just asked the question about what I should get my boyfriend for our one year. He is getting me a promise ring. And I think I have decided to get him a video ipod, and put pictures of us on it. And all of the songs that he likes, and the ones that remind me of him. What else could I possibly do with that or is that even a good idea?

2006-11-15 02:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by Katiie Babiie 2 in Singles & Dating

My baby girls dad left us when I was 6 months pregnant (baby is now 7 months). I think I still love him but then I think I really hate him for leaving. Then again I just want to have a complete family. What's a good way to find out what I feel? .

2006-11-15 02:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 02:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Singles & Dating