Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

Women, is it a good idea for men to shave down below? Does it look nice or freaky?

Please advise! Thank you :)

2006-11-15 02:45:59 · 27 answers · asked by superfastbob 1 in Singles & Dating

plz help me now b/4 go crazy!!!! we kiss and do many thins but never had sex.this is wath has been goig on for more than 13 years now we both love our salf too much and our mun and dad don, know this but we can,t live our self now.plz don,t tell me is a sin cos i know just give me an answar and tell me wath to do next. plz plz!!!

2006-11-15 02:45:48 · 19 answers · asked by Grace A 1 in Singles & Dating

see, i play football, or what you soccer, and he's in the boy's team. it's so weird coz he asked me out one time. so there we hung out and had quite some fun talking about ourselves. but after that outing, he totally cut communication with me for about 2 months. he didn't even reply my text messages to him or email. then after those agonzing and rather pissed 2 months when i've already moved on, i suddenly receive a text message from him asking how i am. we start talking and that feeling builds up again. in soccer training, he talks more with the other girls than me. it's kinda annoying and painful. but we talk once in a while though. my main point is why is he acting this way? what can i do to get him to open up to me more. i'll be going abroad for good in a few months so i don't really wanna screw this chance up. please help me anyone?? please...

2006-11-15 02:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband was a control freak and abusive. He has custody of my daughter who is 14 and live in another state.

Now, we are thinking of reuniting for the sake of the child. However, he is still controlling - asking me to bring my computer that I use here which is not mine, pay him for the registration and insurance of the car that I would drive in his state.

I don't know if his controlling tendencies will ever change. He also says that I am selfish and its all about me, me and me . I try to negotiate with him about having some things my way if we get back together - own cell phone, keep money separately and not pay expenses of house.

How do I judge the situation?

2006-11-15 02:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 02:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been togather for about four weeks's and i accused him of something that i didn't see. But he isn't goin to tell me what happen but he say's he didn't do anthing should i believe him or should i stay with my first answer?

2006-11-15 02:44:45 · 16 answers · asked by benita j 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a guy that i find amazingly adorable. i am the shy type and i dont usually approach guys. it seems as if he doesnt even know i exist. how can i start a conversation with him? hes either always playing basketball or with his friends. and i dont wanna disturb and talk to him while hes playing b-ball, and i dont wanna approach him when his friends are around either!!! what should i do?

2006-11-15 02:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by :] 3 in Singles & Dating

im doing an argument paper on divorce and i need a few ideas about how is divorce good for children.

2006-11-15 02:44:10 · 16 answers · asked by sam a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when your out girls what is the first thing you look for in a man to consider them a possiblity as dating material? And uh, How long should a relationship go before you declare it bf/gf???

2006-11-15 02:43:26 · 27 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 02:42:54 · 12 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for the last 2 months(since my 3 year breakup with my ex) he is very nice to me, but we have very little in common, I am about to be a college graduate with a very nice job and degree, I also am very classy and conservative, this guy really has no idea what he he wants to do in life and works an average job, he will like to friends with benfits as long as he can and don't take me out much. I recently ran into a guy I met in my earlier college years, he is about to graduate. We have alot in common such as career, goals, family vaules and hobbies. He really wants to date me and has had a crush on me for years. I can't date both guys at the same time because some one will get hurt! What should I do?

2006-11-15 02:42:15 · 13 answers · asked by female83 2 in Singles & Dating

even you friends and relatives. They cheat, they are forgiven and move on. She says that only those women who beleive the myth that all men do not cheat divorce their husbands because of another woman and that thes very women will be the other woman soon.

2006-11-15 02:41:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you make sure that no one ever found your body? Find it decaying somewhere? or go out in a blaze of glory in front of alot of people?

2006-11-15 02:41:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was going away to one jail and then being transferred to the next so he told me that he didnt want me to be lonely and to get another boyfriend that he just made me promise that I would still love him when he got out, so I did and I cheated on him and I don't know if he was serious so i dont know if i should tell him. I dont want to lose him! I love him more than anything in the world! What should I do?

2006-11-15 02:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by Kat A 2 in Singles & Dating

Y is it that the word's "serious relationship" "long term relationship" "commitment" scare guys so much? I recently broke up with my bf because i felt he wasn't giving into the relationship like i was. How do you know when your ready to settle? I meet him & I love him so much. I hate the fact that he doesn't love me the way i love him. It started w/him telling me that he needed space at our 13 or 14 months into our relationship. I mean i know he has family issues, but y are they scared? I love being with him, i never, not even 1 min. get sick of being with him. I miss him so much, its only been about 1wk and i feel so sad. I feel like i am missing something, i went out dancing in the wkend and i felt lonely. He says that he's not ready for commitment, i don't believe that b/cuz u don't know when your ready for that it just happens, doesn't it? He says he loves me and he doesn't want to lose me , i told him we can't be friends. did i do the right thing? 1 yr & 5 together. 1st bf!

2006-11-15 02:40:37 · 4 answers · asked by BridgetJones07 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's the deal
I don't know but I think these boys I know are dropping hints.
Case 1.
Kye comes up to me in the library and asks if Ihave a bf. I say no. he leaves. 2 min later he comes back and askes if I have an answer. I told him I wasn't dating right now. he leaves.
is he trying to ask me out? he's a year younger than me and recently dumped my friends little sister who's also a freshmen.
Case 2.
Ian, a guy I hang out with on a regular basis has started sitting closer, putting his head on my shoulder and tickling my arm and knees. Nothing innapropriate but just closer. Is he dropping a hint, or is he just more comfortable around me than before?
Case 3. a guy i'v never spoken to starts talking to me. About chinchillas. (we have a pet chinchilla named Gus in my Bio room) This guy starts talking to me about Gus and won't quit. he's normal and everything but he gets all jumpy or sweaty when we talk. I doubt hes getting turned on by Gus. Am I over-analizing these cases?

2006-11-15 02:40:17 · 15 answers · asked by ichigo_li2 3 in Singles & Dating

I hear a lot of talk about the importance of trust and I agree. However, trust has to be earned. I don't think it's something you just hand out freely. Plus, a relationship is an investment and I feel that anyone that doesn't keep tabs on their investment is asking for it. What do you think?

2006-11-15 02:39:09 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bcoz we r divided , fights r getting on our heads. they r alll commenting continuosly wrong about the whole house , bcoz of 1 person. i am getting too tensed , i cant stop thinking. n they r all very realistic ppl.they talk about prejudices n everything very realistically , but when it cums to their own matter , they r leaving everything.
should i tell all this , what wrong they r doing with everybody , r just watch the show

2006-11-15 02:38:39 · 4 answers · asked by *~Ahem~* 2 in Friends

I just got married in September lived with my then boyfriend for 5 years. After we got married I haven't felt like doing much but staying home making dinners watching movies with my husband and spending quality time(we just moved into our house in september) . I feel bad because my best-friend has been left out. I feel bad but I am the type of person that doen't like to spend alot of time with friends. If I didin't have her I would be a loner.She likes to spend alo of time with me. When she asks me to do something with her and I say no I can feel the tension I don't want to feel that way. I spend 1 nt a week with her and she stops at my work atleast twice a week for about a half hr. Thats enough for me but not her

2006-11-15 02:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Friends

from cheating?

2006-11-15 02:38:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 02:37:57 · 16 answers · asked by mothersister_3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone I talk with about this has an agenda so I am asking complete strangers for neutral thoughts on this issue. Wow!
Should I file for divorce or are the benefits worth it?
If I file, I lose all health insurance, life insurance and pension rights if something happens to him. He is now paying the mortgage (almost $2000) and all of the tuition for the two kids ($1800) without an argument. He left me and is involved with another woman so it feels that by not filing I am saying that it is OK. My son has cerebral palsy. One marriage is enough so I am not looking to marry again. Any thoughts?

2006-11-15 02:37:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he pretends he dont want me no more but still keeps getting involved in my life in a negative way, we have a kid together and both love him and share him equally, why does my ex use this to get in my face and my life? hes doing my head in! help

2006-11-15 02:37:27 · 18 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so the problem is that i was going out with this guy for 2 years then as soon as school starte again he dumped me. i have a new boyfriend now but i alaways find myself thinking about him and wishing he still loved me. i dont actually know why he did it he wont tell me. its been 3 months now but im still crqazy about him. i would do anyhting to have him love me. My dilema is wether or not to tell him how i feel. i have a class with him and its hurts more than you can imagine to see someone everyday that was once yours and to now know that hes not. i love my recent boyfriend but i cant help but still be in love with him..he was everything to me and it ended so abuptly and he left me so uncertain as to why he did it. Sometimes he looks at me and he gives me those eyes he use to. i just want him to be happy wether with me or someone else. i just want to feel okay again. part of me wants to get back the other just wants to let go and be able tol ive again...

2006-11-15 02:37:20 · 4 answers · asked by Madame leota 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking out for these signs so please help me.

2006-11-15 02:36:34 · 21 answers · asked by Highlander 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 02:35:56 · 13 answers · asked by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 02:35:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that I want to ask to my high school Winter Formal. What cute way can I ask her? and possibly get a yes? F.Y.I, I'm a junior and she's a sophomore

2006-11-15 02:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

Our 1 year is coming up on Friday. And I know that he got me a promise ring, it is suppose to be a suprise, but he talked to one of my good friends about it and she couldn't keep it from me. I need to get him a gift, but I have no idea what to get him. I mean.. nothing I think of measures up to a promise ring!!?? Pleeeeeease help me out girls & guys. About what I should get him.

2006-11-15 02:34:31 · 16 answers · asked by Katiie Babiie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 02:34:28 · 20 answers · asked by peppizola 3 in Singles & Dating