see, i play football, or what you soccer, and he's in the boy's team. it's so weird coz he asked me out one time. so there we hung out and had quite some fun talking about ourselves. but after that outing, he totally cut communication with me for about 2 months. he didn't even reply my text messages to him or email. then after those agonzing and rather pissed 2 months when i've already moved on, i suddenly receive a text message from him asking how i am. we start talking and that feeling builds up again. in soccer training, he talks more with the other girls than me. it's kinda annoying and painful. but we talk once in a while though. my main point is why is he acting this way? what can i do to get him to open up to me more. i'll be going abroad for good in a few months so i don't really wanna screw this chance up. please help me anyone?? please...
2006-11-15 02:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it could be either he doesn't have the guts to talk to u about it or he's just playing hard to get ie. he shows u all the signs but won't make any move unless he can confirm u want him as well..i've been in this situation before..i know this guy for a fact that he likes me..he even told my best friend how much he likes me..but when i tried to talk to him about it he denied the whole thing saying he used to like me but not anymore..his actions proved otherwise though..late night calls etc etc..he even got engaged to another girl just to provoke me..during his engagement he still calls me every freakin night just to ask how's my day..but he would also proudly show her pictures to me whenever he got the chance to do so..two weeks later he broke off the engagement..one week after that he came to me confessing how much he likes me ever since we first met..it took him eight freakin years to come forward and confess it..and he was wayy too late..here's the only thing u can do..show him signs that u like him too if u really know and truly believe that he really likes u..if he doesn't get ur msg then it's his lost..btw..good luck..
2006-11-15 04:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by salmon_ella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN U KNOW A GUY IS REALY INTERESTED IN U AND HAS NOT THE GUTS TO OPEN UP IT IS EASY TO GO ABOUT IT.
IF U TOO ARE INTERESTED IN THE GUY THEN JUST PUSH FORWARD AND TELL HIM WHAT U WOULD HAVE EXPECTED HIM TO TELL U.
Or atimes women believe that men need to take the first move if the two must engage in a relationship. If u are one of them then invite the Boy offten and discuse subject related matters and that might urge him to start the train. Attach sentiments and if there is any demonstration to be made then use him for that. Be cool in your moods and just always keep intouch. After all you two will get to enjoy the love your share and no body will ever say I did it first.
That is my view.
2006-11-15 11:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by judex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up 2 him and ask whethr he is really interested in u. if his answer is yes, tell tht u wanna serious relationship and if his answer is no u hv 2 go 4 a make over. If u r really interested in him ,follow d type of girls he likes 2 tak 2. give urself a new luk which wud b attracting 4 him and wak up 2 him as a new peson.he's got 2 like u............i m seriour. just try it
2006-11-15 10:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Stonk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't really know what he wants. If you're going abroad to live anyway it's probably not worth the emotional stress of dealing with this person. I'd move on.
2006-11-15 10:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how a shy guy works. Trust me..."Takes one to know one" It's wierd. He can talk freely with others but don't worry, he won't mention anything closely related to how he feels to them. He just needs your help. Just keep on him. Corner him, talk to him, and he'll loosen up when he get his confidence up.
2006-11-15 10:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not interested in you. Why not look for some one interested in u ?
2006-11-15 10:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by vu3prx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally forget him and look for someone who will adore you!
2014-09-24 13:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are leaving soon it won't matter. unless you plan on him moving with you.
2006-11-15 10:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by gary c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you approach him?
2006-11-15 10:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋