We have been togather for about four weeks's and i accused him of something that i didn't see. But he isn't goin to tell me what happen but he say's he didn't do anthing should i believe him or should i stay with my first answer?
2006-11-15 02:44:45 · 16 answers · asked by benita j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A couple of things here:
First, communication and trust are two very important factors in any successful relationship. You sound as though you don't trust him (i.e., you're making accusations), whereas he sounds uncommunicative (i.e., not telling you what really happened). These are not good signs for your relationship.
Whether or not to give him a second chance is up to you. Four weeks isn't a very long time to know someone - let alone call them your "boyfriend" - so try not to invest too much of your emotions into a relationship that is just starting out and which you're already doubting. There are plenty of other boys out there, and you can wager money that he knows there are plenty of other girls out there. Even if things don't work out for you two, you'll both recover.
Good luck!
2006-11-15 02:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop being silly. You have only dated this guy for 4 weeks and already broke up with him. If he won't tell you what really happened, then why are you wasting your time? Just move on and don't worry about what he really did. Anytime a relationship starts out the way yours did, those are warning signs and you should pay close attention to those. Move on and find someone who is honest and tells you the truth always. Good luck.
2006-11-15 02:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably had good reason to break up with him the first time. Sounds like you must not trust him if you're questioning whether to be in the relationship or not and lack of trust is never good for a relationship.
2006-11-15 02:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him better than we do. Is he a liar? Do you trust him?
If no and yes then give him the benefit of the doubt. If he has done you wrong in the past...kick him to the curb.
2006-11-15 02:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by lilygateau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like he is being honest, give him a chance, but dont go for it twice, and make sure whoever told you what he did wrong is a very trusting person.
2006-11-15 02:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a second chance. it could have just been rumour, unless you seriously, I mean, seriously, trust your source. tell him that you're worried, but give him another chance. it's always nice to be given the benefit of the doubt.
2006-11-15 02:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by sujoy13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAn!!!!
wut should i say bout guys UmmMMmm....
okay NVM!! DONT Go back out wit him!!
trust me i did that b4 n it wusnt a pretty sight...
2006-11-15 02:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Precious J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well learn how to spell boyfriend, why did you accuse him of something that you didnt know.
2006-11-15 02:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should clear that issue up first before getting together with him. one thing, you're not even sure of what he really did. second, when you're back together, he might commit that mistake again... promise me, clear things up first before making any decisions of getting back together...
2006-11-15 02:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling. It's usually right.
2006-11-15 02:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋