Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

I have been seriously dating my boyfriend for over six months. Last week, everything was fine. He wanted to hang out with his guy friends on Wednesday, which was completely fine. Now it is the Wednesday after, and I still have not seen him. Not only that, but he has not returned my phone calls, emails, im's etc. The only contact he has made with me has been a one line reply to an email and a couple texts. There was nothing wrong last week- no fights or arguments. We have good communication and talk about the things that bother us in the relationship. I am in love with him, and I don't know what to do. He has a very stressful job that takes up a lot of his time, but not enough where a phone call is too much to ask. I think I am in denial -that he is just being a coward and breaking up with me, but after six months I do not think he could just drop me and never speak to me again. Please, any kind of feedback would help. (If it helps, I am 25 and so is he).

2006-11-15 03:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else think it's sad to do online dating (like match.com)? I'm thinking about it but it makes me kind a little...well...pathetic. Also, like I may just find losers there (like, why can't they just get dates?). Is that an old way to think? Does everyone do it now?

2006-11-15 03:33:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:32:54 · 22 answers · asked by swetha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-15 03:32:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ladies, when you're on a date, and you have to go to the bathroom, do you ask your date for permission to go? Or do you go without asking permission? Or do you just 'hold it in' until you get home?

[I have dated several girls who, when we were on a date and they needed to use the ladies room, would ask me for permission to go to the bathroom. Do a lot of other women do this, or were those women just weird?]

2006-11-15 03:31:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:31:14 · 13 answers · asked by *Luckey Me* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Its going to be me and a guy that have been friends for going on six years! We are finally both single and know that we have to give 'us' a shot and we really want this to work. We've always wanted 'us' but have never both been single at the same time. So this weekend we are going to go out just the two of us (there's always been others when we've went out b4). But I'd just like to do something other than just a movie and dinner. You know? Cause this is kinda special. Kinda like 'it's been a long time coming' lets make the best of it.

Anyways all suggestions are appreciated.

2006-11-15 03:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by dixie011406 2 in Singles & Dating

Im actually just trying to learn stuff for my girl and i would appreciate any strategies or stuff i can do to make her feel good!

2006-11-15 03:30:39 · 17 answers · asked by craigorous 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and we are supposed to move to phoenix but he doesnt really want to go and i know he has a homegirl named tomasina and he keeps on telling me that he does not know if he wants to go and i asked him if it is because of his so called "homegirl" and he smiled and said no my question is. what is he trying to tell me and what should i do about it????

2006-11-15 03:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by Balla Baby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my b/f. our relationship is great we get along great and i love him more than anything. He is great with my daughter we haven't been together that long and i know i love him i think i'm pregnant with his baby and i told him that and he said "Would that be a bad thing? I'm here.i'm not goin anywhere babe" i am scared that he doesn't love me back and if i tell him i love him he will think i fall in love to quickly.

2006-11-15 03:30:34 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

we men are not the fault for your cheating,

2006-11-15 03:28:43 · 29 answers · asked by lesuiremike 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get married in church, but I want to go in a simple dress and leave after the ceremony. My boyfriend on the other hand wants a little reception and me to get a wedding dress. How do I convince him that the meaning is still there, without all the extras

2006-11-15 03:28:17 · 27 answers · asked by inland102 2 in Weddings

Kisses or Hugs?

2006-11-15 03:28:02 · 36 answers · asked by Tulip 2 in Singles & Dating

I am being stalked by someone that I have never been able to get close enough to identify. The face always seems to be obscure. I went to the cops but they say they cannot do anything without some type of proof. They also cannot issue a restraining order without a name. They are always in different vehicles, or on foot. I tried several times to chase after them but to no prevail. When I look at the all they do is constantly steer at me and put there hands over there lips, kind of like “Shhhh-ing” me. Sometimes they leave little things on my doorstep such as a few grains of wild rice, or a piece of paper with the word "Returns" on it. I do not know what to do anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE ADVISE AND HELP ME! !

2006-11-15 03:27:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:26:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a very crucial question I am serious i don't have time to be lying about anything.It was told to me that his mama is doing cocaine. The family know most of them, my husband is in the army and getting ready to deploy. his mama is 3 states away and doing drugs and tricking do i tell him. His sibling know and discuss it with each other what do i do? Serious answers!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-15 03:25:59 · 35 answers · asked by God's chosen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, can a long distance relationship really mean anything just by talking to that person on the phone for about 7 years? Would you be able to know a person better who you know for almost 3 years both inside and outside and by being with them or someone that you would talk to on the phone only for 7 years? Which one would have more of a chance to end in a long term relationship and why?

2006-11-15 03:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Lessons_in_life10 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am comfortable being myself. Is that so wrong? I am not introverted, as I have lots of friends who I love spending time with on occassion. But my boyfriend is worried that I spend too much time by myself. During the week I don't see anyone for real because I'm work all day and can hang out all time of night with my friends and family, and on the weekends, I try to spend time with my boyfriend since that's the only time that we are usually both free. My friends know that I have always been comfortable by myself, but that I will be there at the drop of the hat if they need me, or if the whole gang is going to go out somewhere. But still...my question is, is it really healthy to prefer to be by yourself rather than around people? I'm not scared of people or shy...I just prefer not to be around them most of the time. And yes, I am an only child, so I grew up with a strong sense of knowning how to be alone and entertain myself.

2006-11-15 03:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by shibabigirl 2 in Friends

Okay, We fooled around when we got drunk, Just a one time thing. no strings attached. Went back to school(college) and decided to become partners for a project. Drove each other crazy. argued and scowled at eachother the whole time. Decided not to clash with him anywhere anymore.(this was a month ago) Today, He walks over and asks if we could be partners for this project we had. Turned him down, he left. Now, I would just say he needed a partner that's it but I've caught him looking at me, trying to make things right. Trying to tease me, but after the whole partner scene, he just irritates me. so, Is it just my imagination or is it the fact that we fooled around once got him thinking we're more than just classmates. We did made it clear we were just drunk, nothing really happened, what's your take on this. Do you think I'm reading into this to much or because of what happened, he's starting to have feelings for me. If he is, how am I going to turn him down without hurting him to bad

2006-11-15 03:25:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are people who need to know that there are other people out there who HAVE overcome addictions/struggles. it helps them to feel strong and stay on the wagon so to speak.

let it all hang out

2006-11-15 03:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recently asked this girl to be my girlfriend, and she said yes, but a couple of days afterwards, this other guy that she had been hanging out with alluded to wondering if he and she(my girlfriend) were officially dating... She's a really nice girl, she has a hard time hurting peoples feelings, but it really feels like she's having "too" hard of a time letting this guy down. She showed me what she wrote him, and not once did she mention me. And the guy wrote back guilt tripping her, basically saying about all the fun things they did together, and saying that she will be the last person he'll ever date... it's just seeming like her feelings of sadness for letting this guy down are stronger than her feelings of happiness for me asking her to be my girlfriend. I don't really think I should step in and tell this guy the way it is, because it may well be none of my business, but I feel like I need to be doing something to fix this. How should I handle this situation?

2006-11-15 03:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by Matt B 4 in Singles & Dating

do i just go up to him and say"I love you"yes or no.why or why not.

2006-11-15 03:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him 8 months ago at the hospital and brought him a teddy bear. We met online and he showed my pic to everyone and their mom. It was love at first sight. Today, he says that he fell in love with me because of the teddy bear I got him, and commented there were HOT nurses there that day, but he only thought of me. That makes me feel so un-attractive. lol He called me beautiful once and pretty other times, but it was part of a question. But he comments on other women about them being beautiful, "hot chicks".. on TV etc., etc. Any of you feel like you have the same problem? As if you're not pretty enough or HOT enough for your man? And why won't they call you beautiful? Maybe because they already know that you are and doesn't want to inflate your confidence?? Help guys.

2006-11-15 03:23:02 · 24 answers · asked by Jenna S 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with a guy I shouldnt be in love with and its killing me, I have decided I want to be hypnotized and change my way of thinking. To be frank, w emeet up, talk about each others problems and then have sex. There are loadsa of complications and he has children and there is a 30 year age gap so we can never be together properley and I want to change my way of thinking.
I dont want to feel upset and depressed when he doesnt text me, I don't want to think about him non-stop like I do, I want to see it as fun and nice and be greatful when i do see him.
Will hypnosis work? Does anybody know where I can get a personalised hypnosis CD?
Thanks

2006-11-15 03:22:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lived above a funeral home in a small town, at the top af the stairs was the display room for the many coffins for sale. Some were ulta-fancy, one cost 16.000$ Being a creative soul, always on the hunt for the obscure, I asked several ladies on different ocassions if they would like to go for a romp in the fanciest one. None would go for it, I thought it was making memories?
(I still have the key if anyone is game)

2006-11-15 03:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy and i think he is still not over his last gf and they havent been with each other and like over two years.....do you think thats weird or do you think thats immature and he should move on?

2006-11-15 03:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lauretha 3 in Singles & Dating

you do anything
you do all the crazy things that you cant explain.......
(like the song from Brian Adam)

is that true..
because I find it so silly
dont u listen to ur mind before ur heart?

2006-11-15 03:20:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does long Distances relationships work?

2006-11-15 03:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a message telling her I will be late for dinner?

2006-11-15 03:20:06 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce