i have a boyfriend and we are supposed to move to phoenix but he doesnt really want to go and i know he has a homegirl named tomasina and he keeps on telling me that he does not know if he wants to go and i asked him if it is because of his so called "homegirl" and he smiled and said no my question is. what is he trying to tell me and what should i do about it????
2006-11-15 03:30:38 · 6 answers · asked by Balla Baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My first questions are 1) how old are you and 2) why are you thinking of moving to Phoenix? Is this for work, school, both, something else?
It sounds as if your boyfriend isn't really into this. It sounds like he likes to stay where he is. He may or not have a homegirl; I don't know.
I think you should go if you really want to move to Phoenix. If you try to force him, he either won't go at all, or will go and then resent you. I'm sorry but it sounds like a break-up is going to happen because your lives are going in different directions.
If you move, though, you will be doing what is best for you and what you really want to do. So go for it. Sometimes people aren't in the same place in their lives, and it's regrettable, but it happens. I'm sorry. You know in your heart of hearts what the right thing to do is -- so do it. Don't compromise what you really want to do, and don't put your life on hold for a man.
Good luck, no matter what you decide to do. But whatever it is, I hope that you get your life on track and do what's right for you. Let him keep up with you, or go his own way.
Cheers, K
2006-11-15 03:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in life you have to do what is best for you. You are still young and have a lot of growing up to do. Focus on you, going to school, and becoming someone. There will be many more boyfriends in your future so don't wait around for your bf to make a decision to go with you. You may just have to leave him behind. Moving with someone is a big step. At his age he's probably not ready for that type of a commitment.
2006-11-15 12:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is because of homegirl.
You shouldnt be moving with him untill your married any who!
2006-11-15 12:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey yal this chick is my sis and she is 17 and her dumb *** boyfriend is 18. ay yo sis i told you he is the type who plays just leave him you dont deserve him you deserve better than that and do your work in school. To everyone else: we are moving to phx for school and work becuz out here there is nothing so i hope that answers your questions laters
2006-11-15 11:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's idea to move, and the reason to move? Could be he really doesn't like living there?
2006-11-15 11:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want...sounds like he is going to anyhow! Good luck!
2006-11-15 11:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋