I have been seriously dating my boyfriend for over six months. Last week, everything was fine. He wanted to hang out with his guy friends on Wednesday, which was completely fine. Now it is the Wednesday after, and I still have not seen him. Not only that, but he has not returned my phone calls, emails, im's etc. The only contact he has made with me has been a one line reply to an email and a couple texts. There was nothing wrong last week- no fights or arguments. We have good communication and talk about the things that bother us in the relationship. I am in love with him, and I don't know what to do. He has a very stressful job that takes up a lot of his time, but not enough where a phone call is too much to ask. I think I am in denial -that he is just being a coward and breaking up with me, but after six months I do not think he could just drop me and never speak to me again. Please, any kind of feedback would help. (If it helps, I am 25 and so is he).
2006-11-15 03:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Silence speaks volumes, my gut tells me that he is being a coward and does not have the chutzpah to tell you that he wants to break up. Six months is not that long of a time and people are so odd that their feelings could change automatically. He's obviously avoiding you. Don't call him anymore, don't write to him anymore in other words no contact, if he knows what's good for him he will contact you if he doesn't, move on and enjoy your life.
2006-11-15 03:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is playing a game, he wants u to beg.....
Dont call him for a few days and let him worry about u.
He probably is sleepy off his stressful job and wants space.
Give him some space, send him a cheerful card in the local mailbox where he lives and stay away from phonin him.
phone calls can be annoyin when u all stressed out.
Dont worry, he will rest up and renew his strenghth and get back wid ya.
2006-11-15 11:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a bit...i mean, you know for sure he is alright...so you don't need to worry about him...he might be busy at work or with some other issue...if i were you, i would wait for another couple of days...before going to the conclusion that he wants to break it off...
2006-11-15 11:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he heard something from somebody that me or may noy be true but it seems he believes it. Jealous people are always trying to bring down those who are happy. Somebody probably told him I saw her with so & so or She used to do this & that. He should have the respect to confront you and ask you the truth though.
2006-11-15 11:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by Oinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry it sounds to me like he is wanting to break it off but dont have the balls to do it...i would just forget him and try to get over it.
2006-11-15 11:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jen05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer...his concious is bothering him. Best bet...he slept with somebody and doesn't want you to know but his actions are screaming that he's a jerk!
2006-11-15 11:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him sometime, no text, email, or call. relax for one or two month no feed back then move on.
2006-11-15 11:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um....doesnt sound too good..you need to seriously talk to him asap and ask him whats going on! if he continues this...dump his ***
2006-11-15 11:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by craigorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋