I love my b/f. our relationship is great we get along great and i love him more than anything. He is great with my daughter we haven't been together that long and i know i love him i think i'm pregnant with his baby and i told him that and he said "Would that be a bad thing? I'm here.i'm not goin anywhere babe" i am scared that he doesn't love me back and if i tell him i love him he will think i fall in love to quickly.
2006-11-15 03:30:34 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't worry about his feelings right now first you need to sort through yours. You have 1 child already are you willing to have another? and if the relationship doesn't work out are you ready to handle 2 children by yourself ? If you only think your prego with his baby then you should find out for sure get a pregnancy test or go to doctors. Then think about your options with or without him in the picture how do you feel? Your the one that is gonna be in the child's life consistently you yourself have to be prepared for more responsibility having to share all your attention not only with 1 child but with 2 and your boyfriend also. Babies can make or break a relationship. Have you too been together long enough to struggle together and go through alot of hard times together cause 2 children will drain your bank account not only for diapers etc but when they go to school and holidays etc... Think real hard if your relationship can handle stressful times and you can work together through them. He may be saying yes now but when the tough get going the relationship sometimes goes too.Be prepared...If you think he doesn't love you and you both have moved to quick in the relationship then I would wait a few more years to have a baby with him until you feel more secure about the relationship and his feelings towards you and your feelings towards him. Good Luck :)
2006-11-15 03:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stick to birth control. 2 kids... 2 different fathers??? A baby is not a doll, and not a toy, and it certainly is NOT a way to keep a guy. Aside from that... He can handle you being pregnant, but he can't handle the fact that you love him? The two of you have some growing up to do.
2006-11-15 03:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do need to let him know. he already told you that he isn't going anywhere. guys, and some girls aren't real comfortable expressing their feelings. sometimes just the way they make you feel and the things that they do for you is their way of letting you know that they love you. now with the possibility of a baby, wouldn't you like to let him know that you feel the baby was concieved by love. Maybe he is afraid to say it first to you, also. let him know how you really feel, and he'll probably let you know his true feelings.
2006-11-15 03:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by sickofmakinthemgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too scared to tell him that you love him, then you should not be having a baby with him. Your relationship is not on stable footing, it is too early!
2006-11-15 03:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really do love the guy then u should be able to tell him how u feel..i always say that u dont say those 3 words until u actually mean it and if u mean it there should be no problem in saying it to him.
2006-11-15 03:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Hockey IS Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont trust him enough to be able to say I love you to him for fear he may get scared, yet you are having his baby. Do you see something wrong with that?
2006-11-15 03:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so i think you may have things flipped around..a baby then love? im confused..maybe you should have thought about that a while ago..tell him that you love him, if you are pregnant with his baby you should be able to tell him anything and if you love him it should be easy to tell him your feeling!
2006-11-15 03:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him...its better to tell him than keep it in you. Even though you havent been together...you feel that he is the right one...and when its right...its right. You can keep to you and wait for him to say something...sometimes its good for girls to take the first step.
2006-11-15 03:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you've missed your period see how he reacts, You already have a kid from someone else- don't screw your life up again and try to work things with this guy- do't push him or he'll leave on his own. Good luck
2006-11-15 03:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't that what the sex was based on? if you love one another, he will accept no matter the time frame
2006-11-15 03:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋