Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

we broke up 2months ago. since we have spoken n he clearly told me he hates me n stuff. but the other day my friend told me that he is under a misunderstanding. thus i wrote him an email like four days ago to clear the misunderstanding - but he hasnt replied. how do i show him that i care and i am the one for him...

2006-11-15 04:24:28 · 10 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I dated this guy for 9 months, we where engaged everything was going great, for a while! Than, he decided to start controlling my life and answering questions about where I was going! Okay, he is now living in Philly, Is it bad that I miss him and still wanna be with him?

2006-11-15 04:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:23:25 · 16 answers · asked by msbubii 1 in Singles & Dating

on a waterbed or regular box springs and mattress. I prefer the waterbed.

2006-11-15 04:23:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by malynda c 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys these days have a prefered body type,personality or image of a woman that they go after when asking woman out for dates? With rap videos & popular magazines such as GQ or Maxim protraying woman in a "society acceptable" vision. Does this have any inpact on your prefences?

2006-11-15 04:22:47 · 5 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Singles & Dating

My dad always bugs me. He always tells me to be just like my sister, get envolve with sports and music lessions. Do what she does. And I get sick of it ,when I have to clean and cook all the time, my sister sits on her butt all day and dont lift a finger. She's always get out of things and run around everywhere. Even though we dont know where or what shes doing.. And I end up doing her work. She's 16 and she doesn't keep her room clean. I'm sick of cleaning her room. I get really want to tell my dad I want to drop out of school ,cause I know I'm not smart. And I'm happy with my life. I dont want to be my sister. My dad always put's me down and always praise her. I do so much for my family , since my mom left us. But I get no respect and I get treated bad. Any advice .

2006-11-15 04:22:41 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family

Here's the dilema. In May, I started talking to a guy I met off of Yahoo Personals. We talked for about 5 months, never met, partially because I was scared, and because he has qualitlies that I don't like, and I was holding back. He's 25, working at Taco Bell, living with his parents, and is a stoner. I do not tolerate drugs what so ever, but I wasn't gonna marry him so I overlooked it. In the end, it bothered me too much, and he wasn't very interesting, so I ended it. As a big mistake, I told my best friend "Kat" that she should talk to him. I didn't see how it was bad until days after they were talking. She came from a broken home, abuse drugs, etc...and has lived with me and my family for 7 years. She has always said things would be different for her. But now she acts like he is "the one" and wants to meet him. I know now, that he's been lying to me, maybe her, no motivation or goals for the future, and is a drugie. I think he would be bad for her even to meet him. Should she or no?

2006-11-15 04:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by n. s. 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a student at an acting school. I just found out that it is going to cost me $8,000 to finish school. I am not able to get a loan to help me with school or financial aid. The program that I am in is set up to where I will be able to finish in 3 years. But given my current financial situation I am not able to complete the program in that alotted time and it will take me and additional 2 years. My boyfriend (that I have known since the 7th grade) but only been dating for 6 months, his father owns an apartment building and said that his father has said that we can move in payin $600 dollars each for a spaciaous 3 bedroom. It has a shared backyard, I would be sharing with the tenants downstairs. I have a dog so this would be goo for her and me because then I wouldn't have to pay $400 a month for a dogwalker to take her out. In conclusion I can save $700 a month if I move in with my bf and I will be able to put myself through school. What should I do?

2006-11-15 04:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this guy at school for 1 1/2 yrs now and since the 1st day I saw him I told my friends I liked him, then someone introduced me to him and we had been good friends for almost a year, then i told him what I feel for him and he said he is too bad for me that I deserve something better than him.
we have a lot in common and I really like him.
i do not know if i should insist with him or if I should leave him alone.
since I told him he is been really nice to me but he tries to evade me as much as he cans.he says it is because he doesn't want to hurt me.what should I do?

2006-11-15 04:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Singles & Dating

It's simple to me. My gf is the paradigm of a giving person, literally gives until it hurts, which was great for a while, but, obviously, she burns herself out routinely. So I can only speculate as to why she's like this, and I do have my theories, but how fair is it? If I take from her all she gives me, she'll burn herself out. If I reject it completely, she'll resent me for not accepting her. And if I take it sometimes, but not all the time, which has been my approach so far, she keeps me at arms length b/c I'm not interested in her enough. Are my only real options leave or keep putting up w/ it?

2006-11-15 04:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

okay, i asked a while ago what i should get for my ex, shes turning 25. people say why are getting her a gift, shes your ex. well, i screwed up. and trying to work things out with her. so i dont really need the advice on my relationship with this girl, just wanted to know what would be a good gift. thats it.

2006-11-15 04:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by mr. clean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean after divorce/seperation do you miss the closeness you had (I dont mean with that person i mean in general) how do you overcome the loneliness when does the loneliness kicks in?

2006-11-15 04:19:08 · 19 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it more acceptible for a black guy to date a white woman verses a white guy dating a black woman? I mean it's becoming more acceptable but it's still not quite equal. My x-boyfriend and I where beat up downtown by a bunch of black people because of it. How many white guys out there would or have dated a black woman?

2006-11-15 04:18:49 · 36 answers · asked by Kat206 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you in love? What is it like? I dont know if I've ever been in love I just kinda like different people alot... I dont think I have ever been in love...

2006-11-15 04:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a lot of drama i cant tell if theyre lying or if he is her friend keeps telling me to leave him alone b/c hes no good. what should i do

2006-11-15 04:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by shawnsboo 1 in Singles & Dating

alright this girl i go to school with is always grabbing my @$$ and everything this makes me very uncomfortable but aroused now she does this to all the guys so i dont know if she is flirting with me what should i do??? please help?

2006-11-15 04:17:03 · 10 answers · asked by super_man_4888 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres a super cute all star who sits right next to me in class. My best friend loves him to. She sits next to him also! He flirts with both of us. Ive been out the past few days so im worried he loves her! Plus my best friend has been sooooooooo bosy and meen to me lately. I'm getting a weird feeling about this. He sat next to me longer and he is always leening toward me like he wants to kiss me. Yet my BFF is ALWAYS flirting with him. I like him yet she just wants ALL boys to herself! What should I do: steel him and be happy or have my fried take him and keep on bullying?

2006-11-15 04:15:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

one of the problems is pre mature, he just cant keep that thing under control. previous bf was so much more experienced and adventoures i used to org at least once every time, now i am lucky if i get 3 orgs a year!

2006-11-15 04:15:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok,so I know this is probably an obvious question,but I just don't know what to get my little brother for Christmas...can you help? He likes the Dallas Cowboys,Texas Longhorns, and Tiki Barber, but I just don't have any clue what to get him. If your a guy and answering, what would you want if you were 10 years old? Thanks!!

2006-11-15 04:15:02 · 7 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Family

2006-11-15 04:14:46 · 18 answers · asked by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is in jail he was suppose to be out on Monday. I havent heard from him in 3 days he hasnt called at all. I know he is still in there. But usually he would have his mom call me or one of his family member to let me know everything is okay but he has never gone this long with out trying to communicate with me.The last conversation that we had didnt end in bad terms. What could possibly be going on? Is he avoiding me or just it has just been very impossible for him to talk to me.

2006-11-15 04:14:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when I have a chubber?

2006-11-15 04:13:48 · 11 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Singles & Dating

This hot guy I know just IMed me that he was jumping in the shower. Well I have this big urge to go to his place...strip off my clothes and join him for some "water sport". Would that be too forward of me? I mean he didn't invite me...though he said he would think of me in there. And there are so many ways I could dirty him up...I can't name them or I would get violated...and I like to the be the violator not the one being violated...lol

2006-11-15 04:13:14 · 18 answers · asked by Social_D 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 52, he's 57, he works 1:30 am to 11:30 am M-F. I work 8am to 5:00 pm M-F We see each other Friday 6:15pm until sometimes Sunday afternoon providing I go with him to his second job on Sunday morning at 2am to5:30am. I go to Church and meet back at his place until he lays down at 5:30 to start it all over again Monday at 2am. Seeing each other for 2 years. Do you think we'll ever commit to living together or something deeper?I know he loves me very much and I him also. His job is physically taking a toll on him and I feel like we both need to get away to another State and start over , even at our age. Help , my gut says do it but I'm scared....

2006-11-15 04:13:09 · 3 answers · asked by CryBaby 2 in Family

how do you make someone want to be committed to you more?

2006-11-15 04:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by Panda Baby 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Friends

HEY

2006-11-15 04:12:14 · 9 answers · asked by Kelsey_blair 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey some of you might remember my "Do I kiss her?" which I posted 5 times. Well I did, but on the side of her forehead. (Yikes!!) This is what happened.
Jameca: Hey
(I hold out my arms for a hug)
I get the hug, and kiss her right on the forehead (or rightside of it since her head was on my chest ). I stare her in the eye for a second and we both walk off. I felt like an idiot a few seconds afterwards. Should I have talked? Did I do something wrong? Is she mad? but the real question is what do I do next?

2006-11-15 04:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is probably my umpteenth question on the subject of getting a girlfriend. You see I never ever had one, and perhaps I starting to see why. I was ridiculed and shunned by girls in the past, perhaps because I dont conform to what they see as attractive- that usually the reason isn't it? I guess looks are the only reason anyone likes anyone these days, and they enter that person's soul AFTER they have given some rating to their looks. At present I do all the things I like doing- but those bad experiences seem to have confined me to many years of not trusting girls and, to be frank, afraid of them. It seems there is no-one to share or value or appreciate what I do, especially girls. Maybe it'll always be that way. Maybe thats how it was meant to be. And maybe I can live with that. Maybe fate wanted me to be lonely and unloved. What do you think?

2006-11-15 04:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating