I know this guy at school for 1 1/2 yrs now and since the 1st day I saw him I told my friends I liked him, then someone introduced me to him and we had been good friends for almost a year, then i told him what I feel for him and he said he is too bad for me that I deserve something better than him.
we have a lot in common and I really like him.
i do not know if i should insist with him or if I should leave him alone.
since I told him he is been really nice to me but he tries to evade me as much as he cans.he says it is because he doesn't want to hurt me.what should I do?
2006-11-15 04:20:32 · 14 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his b-day is next month...should i buy something for him?
2006-11-15 04:22:03 · update #1
Im 19 and he will turn 20 next month
2006-11-16 04:47:54 · update #2
Just be friends.If he has a change of heart,,he will let you know.
2006-11-15 04:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, I know the feeling. Sux when you like someone and he/she doesn't feel the same way. Like you, I don't want to give up so easily, either. But I come to think love is different from other things where you can just keep trying and eventually one day it will work out. In relationships, it seems the harder you try, the worse it will become because it will drive the person away even further. Love/seduction is a strange thing. Probably not all that strange. People want what they can't have. It's probably better to lay low and act uninterested, but not totally disappeared...you know what I mean? If it happens, it happens, but to continue trying and trying will result in a lot of heartache. I believe my best results in relationships happen when I don't try at all. Good luck.
2006-11-16 13:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push it too much..and Don't be embarrassed that u told him u liked him. :) remember, u Liked this guy..regardless of he is bad or good, u Like him. so he probably appreciates it. for whatever reason or excuse he makes, he cannot, or will not, get involved w/ u at this time. in order to respect that, try hard to keep ur head up, not get hurt, and keep on living ur life to the best of ur ability. the thing is, u told him how u feel, and that's all u can do. let him feel good about that, and do whatever he needs to do. if he wants to go out with you, he will come back to you. but don't wait, just keep living ur life; the stronger, happier, and healthier u are, the more desirable u will be to Anyone. and if he doesn't see that, let him go, so u can find someone who does~ :)
2006-11-16 12:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone that says "You're too good for me is looking for attention. They can be eventually persuaded, but the road is turbulent. IF you really like him that much, feel a connection like you know him w/out ever knowing him before, then more power to you. Otherwise, he will, unintentionally and unappreciatively,sucks all the life and compliments out of you until he finds someone he's into. Could be you, but I guarantee that it will take a long time. My best advice is to talk to him, but keep your emotions reigned in. If you can't do that, stop interacting w/ him.
2006-11-15 12:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him alot and that you want to just give it a try. Ask for a trial for like 2 or 3 weeks. Or you could just be friends and when he does get a girl friend listen to him talk about her all the time. I think you should try anything to get you closer to him. How old are you anyways?
2006-11-16 12:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Jenilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes worth it, why worry what others think?? If you want a trial run with him, keep it quiet for another week and see if something big is going to happen, then let them all know. Sounds like you guys are ashamed of yourselves.
2006-11-17 14:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Leonardo Genteamable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes good friends always buy B-Day gifts for each other.
he probably has don something in his past that he is ashamed of and that is way he is afraid he might hurt you, my advice is do you want to try or leave it, if you leave it then when you are old you will be looking back at your life and wondering what might have been.
2006-11-17 12:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break this to you, sweetie, but he's not into you. he was being nice when he said that you deserve something better than him. if you can handle just being friends with him, then perhaps that is all you're destined for. otherwise, move on and find someone else that is into you.
good luck.
2006-11-17 12:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately my father gave me this little piece of advice that is so true, "you cannot make a person like you".
I am sorry, but it is true, it is not you, it is him. I think you should just try to avoid contact with this individual. Just keep on looking you will find someone who will appreciate you...
2006-11-16 12:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can handle it tell him to trial it for a week and then stop and see what happens while you look at another guy or two.
2006-11-15 12:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by f1antasyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he likes you or he's not ready yet for a relationship. Don't put yourself in hold. Go and find somebody else.
2006-11-15 12:27:12 · answer #11 · answered by Alba.77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋