Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

My husband and i went out on a limb. Our family friend's son was in jail over getting drunk and doing something stupid. He's basically 19 and a looser and isnt doing anything else in his life in the small town he lives in, exept get drunk. So his mom called us crying and begging us to get him out, they assured us he would leave that town, move in with us, clean up, get a job, pay us rent, and his bail bonds. So we let him relax for a few weeks, my husband used him to help him around the house. Yesterday my husband sent him out with a map, and locations of places to apply, no pressure, just "see ya at lunch time". 9am he leaves... no return. Finally got ahod of his mom (she's definitely holding in what she knows). He ended up 50 miles away at his aunts (about 5 miles from where he used to live).. gee, i wonder where he's gonna end back up. I wanna get back at him. He lived in my house, ate my food, and acted completly ungratefull in the prosess. Im so pissed. What can i do?

2006-11-15 04:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

too cheap to get a steady girlfriend. Should he be grateful to me for even being bother with him. The only thing he can get is a 33 year old girl who is a gold digger, with a 10-15 year old toyota camry and has slept with every tom,dick, and harry. He is afraid to sleep the 33 year old for fear of catching a deadly disease like AIDS, or another STD. I on the otherhand do not sleep around with other men. He should be more generous to me since I am the only clean woman he knows. the rest of them are old hoes. Should I move on with my life and find somewho who will treat me better.I do not need a sugardaddy, but my exboyfriend does not even treat me to dinner and he can afford a dinner once and awhile.

2006-11-15 04:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone handed you a brownie and said im just like this brownie a little hard on the outside but soft inside? What would you say? Original line or corny? Somebody actually said this to me...

2006-11-15 04:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:56:50 · 24 answers · asked by knowssignlanguage 6 in Singles & Dating

my family style growing up.. sharing our feelings was something that just wasn't done so i kept alot of things bottled up. just want to know how to get over it

2006-11-15 04:56:41 · 5 answers · asked by Simone H 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you have a crush on someone but you found out he/she didn't like you all along. But kept on making you think he/she likes you but don't? Did this happened to you?

2006-11-15 04:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a few years, and have been officially together for a few months. He is now leaving to go into the army, and i wanted to get hi9m soemthing special. I bought him a new watch (his is trashed). It was kinda expensive (like $350). and i think it may be too much (not money wise, but as a present). I dont want him to think im trying to keep him form leaving, or buy his affection. I dont know if i should give it to him or not. What does everyone think?

2006-11-15 04:56:20 · 17 answers · asked by AliceA. 1 in Singles & Dating

Alone...I pick what I want to eat, see on TV and in the Movies...with a partner I might have to compromise...

2006-11-15 04:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:55:22 · 22 answers · asked by Rosa O 1 in Friends

Me and my husband always have a joke about this.. but what do guys really think about modern woman??who stand up for what right, and take what is hers?

2006-11-15 04:55:05 · 29 answers · asked by Cess B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You`ve had a bad day, coping with stressful situations, moody people, and generally feel like you just want to be alone, have a glass or two of wine, and chill out, but feel like you have to do your duty, cooking for the family, washing up afterwards etc. Is it selfish, now and again, to say, sod it, i`m not doing it, i need some ME time, to regain my sanity, or do you just muddle on through, feeling tired and depressed. This mood hits me from time to time, like right now, do you get this, should we not look after number one, just now and again, without feeling guilty?

2006-11-15 04:54:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

actually, maybe it isn't, but it doesn't hurt to think positively :)

2006-11-15 04:53:20 · 12 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to be getting home a little late tonight. My wife will already be home. I have some tine to prepare the house, or bedroom, before I leave. Any suggestions on what I should do to prepare? i.e. Set out candles, love note, lingerie, find something for me to wear, etc.... Thanks for your suggestions!

2006-11-15 04:53:19 · 33 answers · asked by MLJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At the ceremony, I’m not going to decorate…the carpel is beautiful as is.

I need idea's on the reception. My colors are yellow and white (maybe a little pale pink).

I don’t have any ideas on what to do…please help…

2006-11-15 04:52:50 · 18 answers · asked by camille 1 in Weddings

2006-11-15 04:52:49 · 5 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

He bragged so much about how "good" he was in the sack....got me to move in with him......asked me to marry.......and now I find out he's pretty much mediocre between the sheets. Is there a warranty for this? Did I have to buy the extended service plan from the beginning? Maybe I could exchange him? Anywhere I can do this? Hollaback if you know.

Thanks in advance for your cooperation..........

2006-11-15 04:52:23 · 20 answers · asked by DoubleD 2 in Singles & Dating

Everything is great when we see each other- which is weeknights- cause she works two jobs & her second job takes up the whole weekend. She says I'm too good for her friends & her family is crazy, but I want to marry her & I need her dad's permission to do so. She always borrows money from me, which is a little weird since she works so much, but I love doing stuff for her. I just figure she is using her money to pay for past credit card debts- she has like ten or twenty of them. Do u think it is okay I have never seen any friends of hers. Is she making them up? Sometimes my girl doesn't make it home at all thru the weekend, but I know it's b/c she's studying late at the library, after she gets off work, at the bar/club. I take care of her 4 kids on Sat. & Sun.-sometimes fri night, for her exams. They always tell me all about how great grammy & papa are. I need to know someone else has gone thru this too, what I should do, & when I should give up on asking her dad & just marry her!

2006-11-15 04:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by c.c. 1 in Singles & Dating

He will wait until the absolute last second to take care of stuff. Our 5 year old daughter wasn't on dental insurance for 2 years because he'd never get the paperwork turned in in time. So it cost us even more!! Finally today he's turned it in, but it is the last day they will accept. There is to much to list - that's just today. He says he wants a new palm pilot, blackberry, whatever for Christmas because that's where he keeps track of what he needs done..........but I don't want to spend lots of money on something he thinks helps him but really doesn't. Does anyone know how to take care of my last minute to the second problem (without causing a fight?)

2006-11-15 04:51:51 · 7 answers · asked by cakelady 3 in Marriage & Divorce

About a week ago, this lady and I were helping out at church painting and other things. Anyway, she and I both were messing with each other with paint, you know how that goes, but lastly she gave me a massage afterwards, is this a good sign? What does it mean, if any?

Thanks ladies

2006-11-15 04:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:51:29 · 15 answers · asked by tanky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 04:50:30 · 6 answers · asked by kristi 2 in Singles & Dating

If you've read my last q, you'd see what I mean about my dad's g/f and why I can't stand her, but if you haven't, my dad's g/f is THE MOST SELFISH person I have ever met, and EVERYTHING is about HER. It's ALWAYS got to be HER WAY. She is TOTALLY disrespectful, and grew up spoiled, and she is TERRIBLE mother who ALWAYS puts herself first, even before her family and God. She has sons, which my dad includes on outings, but she won't include me or my brother without griping and whining about something. She's a liar too, dad HATES liars, and she is VERY wasteful, TOO picky, and she ALWAYS gives my dad attitude and bitches at him. She can't do ANYTHING for herself, her daddy does EVERYTHING for her and he's disabled and lives across the street from her. She expects my dad to be there at the drop of a hat and won't let him have his way or what he wants. She expects EVERYTHING on a silver platter, but won't give ANYTHING in return. She's a damn 16 year-old in a 34 year-old body. What do I do?

2006-11-15 04:49:55 · 21 answers · asked by misssammyjo 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for a little over 9 months. He has already cheated on me and I've forgivin him for that but i told him the next time just bring her home and we can both have fun with her. Well last night my girlfriend started making sexual gestures towards me. Because I knew I was feeling an attraction towards her, I told her I would never cheat on my husband but she could have fun with both of us. So I called him and told him I was bringing someone home and I told him to call his friend, whom I knew wouldn't mind having a little fun. So to make a long story short, all four of us had a really good time. What I was trying to do was spark a little fire in our relationship and show my husband that I was opened minded towards different things. Do you think I was successful. Please let me know.

2006-11-15 04:49:28 · 19 answers · asked by T.C. 2 in Singles & Dating

I was having a perfectly good day, I had organised to dates and been chating to girls on match. When out of the blue my EX emails me.

I still love her and it just hurts me to think of her. Is she trying to torture me. I broke up with her because she was inconsiderate and walked all over me.

I dont do the speaking to your EX thing or being friends.

Should I tell her not to call or email me or just ignore her ?

2006-11-15 04:49:06 · 26 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

Who believes this saying? I think its so true.....Somebody messes with you the first time then its on them....But afterward you should know better to walk away...

2006-11-15 04:48:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i swear, people have been asking the dumbest questions and some of them arent questions at all. anyone out the who thinks before they act?

2006-11-15 04:48:47 · 9 answers · asked by Oliver 4 in Friends

My boyfriend has told me to give him some space and time out of the relationship. He says he still loves me but just needs to sort his head out because he's "not feeling the relationship". He said he wants us to stay in touch during this "time out" but only as friends. He says it's not cold feet. I don't really understand what this means? I would love male points of view on this but females are also welcome to answer!

2006-11-15 04:48:47 · 15 answers · asked by gorgeous_ami 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting so nervous for my upcoming wedding. The wedding is going to be in February of 2007. I am 28 and this is the first time I have ever been married. I feel like I am losing my independence and just really am nervous about the situation. I love my fiance dearly and have wanted nothing more than to married. We have had some rough patches that have been fixed and are much better however I am just so nervous about actually getting married. Anyone have any advice to help me see what I am getting myself into?

2006-11-15 04:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this isn't really a question i just need to vent. i've been dealing with my girl since the first of aug. i was renting a apartment and i told her that my lease would be up in a couple of months. she said when my lease is up i can come live with her if i wanted. i said ok we made a verbal agreement that she would take care of the mourtage and i'll take care of the utilities and by the food i said ok. well a situation happened and i was kicked out of my apartment over a technicality of my lease and she said i can come to her house so i did, and started taking or vrebal agreement in to motion paying bills and buying food basically investing my money into the household and giving her money for her do's, loans, and for G.P. now she has a daughter that's def. and she gets ssi and i'm not supposed to be living at the house cause the extra income will cancle her ssi. i have a month to move before they cut it off but i'm steady paying bills instead og getting my money together to move

2006-11-15 04:47:38 · 5 answers · asked by K-Def 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with me boyfriend for 5years now and Im starting feel like iam trapped but cant break away but I do love him and would very upset if we spilt????? Anyone been in similar situation and what did you do??

2006-11-15 04:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by crazycoolsara 1 in Singles & Dating