My husband and I have been married for a little over 9 months. He has already cheated on me and I've forgivin him for that but i told him the next time just bring her home and we can both have fun with her. Well last night my girlfriend started making sexual gestures towards me. Because I knew I was feeling an attraction towards her, I told her I would never cheat on my husband but she could have fun with both of us. So I called him and told him I was bringing someone home and I told him to call his friend, whom I knew wouldn't mind having a little fun. So to make a long story short, all four of us had a really good time. What I was trying to do was spark a little fire in our relationship and show my husband that I was opened minded towards different things. Do you think I was successful. Please let me know.
2006-11-15 04:49:28 · 19 answers · asked by T.C. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This has got disaster written all over it. It seems that no one has respect for anyone in this relationship
2006-11-15 04:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is not a little fire. You have lit a bonfire and there is every likelihood of the flames burning out of control, chances are that the flames may even burn your house down. Having said that, I believe you are bisexual and your story is a fantasy you would like to try out. Or you are a guy and the ‘husband’ in this fantasy. In short I don't believe your story.
2006-11-15 15:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you needed to add a spark after just 9 months, then you have bigger problems. You just told each other that your vows are not sacred and that your bed is not either. I am thinking that with in 18 months you will not even be together. You have no respect for each other, so why pretend?
2006-11-15 12:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only one that could tell you if it was successful or not is your husband. Guys obviously like those sorts of things, so im assuming he had a good time. I hope it works out for you guys!
2006-11-15 12:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Zoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but needing a spark after 9 months wow.
2006-11-15 12:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open minded doesnt mean tht bring home ur n ur husbands n as many people as possible n have fun, it might prove dangerous in the future, u n ur husband must be committed to each other, i dont think wht u did was right
2006-11-15 12:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. I'm sure he's probably happy right now. I hope it doesn't have the opposite effect on your marriage. Somehow it makes things complicated and there's alot of room for jealousy when you allow other people into your relationship. I hope you find it was worth it.
2006-11-15 12:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-15 12:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just opened Pandora's box. He has already cheated, now you just opened the doors for him even more. Good luck with this--let us know when it all falls apart!
2006-11-15 12:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to rethink your marriage, but i think that you did well there. Men like these things. Ladies, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
2006-11-15 17:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋