Everything is great when we see each other- which is weeknights- cause she works two jobs & her second job takes up the whole weekend. She says I'm too good for her friends & her family is crazy, but I want to marry her & I need her dad's permission to do so. She always borrows money from me, which is a little weird since she works so much, but I love doing stuff for her. I just figure she is using her money to pay for past credit card debts- she has like ten or twenty of them. Do u think it is okay I have never seen any friends of hers. Is she making them up? Sometimes my girl doesn't make it home at all thru the weekend, but I know it's b/c she's studying late at the library, after she gets off work, at the bar/club. I take care of her 4 kids on Sat. & Sun.-sometimes fri night, for her exams. They always tell me all about how great grammy & papa are. I need to know someone else has gone thru this too, what I should do, & when I should give up on asking her dad & just marry her!
2006-11-15 04:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by c.c. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she is hiding something.
She's probably illegal.
2006-11-15 04:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
"Sometimes my girl doesn't make it home at all thru the weekend, but I know it's b/c she's studying late at the library, after she gets off work, at the bar/club. I take care of her 4 kids on Sat. & Sun.-sometimes fri night, for her exams."
Odder than 1,3,5,7, and 9 If this story is possibly real, your are getting played hard my friend and stop giving women money. If you are gonna pay, pay a professional.
2006-11-15 04:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely find it odd. Last time I was dating a guy who "refused" to let me see his house or meet his family, I found out that he was married!!! I was so taken back by this, I really had no idea. He told me I couldn't see the house because he wasn't ready for me to meet his kids yet (they were allegedly at home with a "babysitter" well that babysitter was his wife). She disappears for an entire weekend and takes money from you too? Yea, I'd be suspicious. I'm not saying she IS married, but I am saying something is not right here.......
2006-11-15 04:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Peach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her money source, babysitter and sextoy. Why do you want to marry someone who is using you? There is nothing in this senario that even sounds good, let alone great.
She is embarrassed about how badly she is using you and does not want you to meet her friends or her family. She might even be afraid that her family will like you so much that they will not understand why she is not marrying you now.
I would lay it on the line. Either she brings you out into the public or she pays you back the money she owes you and you dump her.
Take care and Good Luck,
Troy
2006-11-15 05:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL....good story! OK, assuming this is true, your girl is married or has another Sugar Daddy on the side. Why not ask the kids to show you where Grammy and Papa live and pay them a visit?
2006-11-15 04:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i say dont marry her at all. It all sounds a little fishy and until you find out where she is all weekend, why she doesn't some home, why she wont let you meet her friends/family, why she has no money, etc, I dont even think you should think about marrying her.
2006-11-15 04:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by missjuly15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's ultra-shady... you better figure out what's going on! Between never letting you meet her family, friends, or not know where she lives, and borrowing money, she sounds like she's just taking you for a real loop. Put your foot down and figure out what's going on or bail out. You're getting taken.
2006-11-15 04:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by C D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going decrease back quite a few 1000 years to the Babylonians who loved to divide the solar hours into 12 hours. communities of 12 are also dividable into halves, thirds and fourths. initially, one hour replaced into one-12th of the the time between destroy of day and sundown. in a lengthy time period even as people also needed to be able to inform the time at nighttime, it replaced into organic to also divide the nighttime into 12 hours hence making an total day to have 24 hours. The hour replaced into also divided up into 60 minutes with the favourite invention the the clock contained in the thirteenth century, and the minute replaced into divided into 60 seconds even as mechanical clocks grew to grow to be extra precise.
2016-11-29 04:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by broadway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow yes that is odd because if you think about it maybe she's hiding something and using you. Its one thing not know about her family but her friends too? that's outrageous
2006-11-15 05:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is something that u should answer on your own because other people could possibaly give u the wrong info
2006-11-15 05:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Allen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋