2006-11-15 04:55:22 · 22 answers · asked by Rosa O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Difficult one to answer as i am a bloke and not gay. i love my dad and i will never get over him, he is huge
2006-11-15 04:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by greydays 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One day at a time. Plan what you are going to do each day so that you are always occupied.
Of course it helps to tlk to friends but staying home under the covers all ay is not good for you.
A good method of getting him out of your system is to write a letter to him everydaytelling him how much he hurt you and the events you did that day then put them away somewhere do that for bout 2 weeks or longer if you want then just stop. Carry on with your day to day life then in about 3 months time take out the letters and see if you are still as heartroken as before the idea is that it wont.
I hope you find some1 worth you love. Good luck ;)
2006-11-15 08:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Genipher17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With time and distance. Go out and try to have fun even if you don't feel like it - eventually you'll realise that you are actually having fun! It takes a while to get over someone, but you will get there in the end.
It's best not to go jumping into something else until you've given yourself the chance to mourn the loss of this relationship.
2006-11-15 05:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all this is the most important thing unless you have kids with him dont contact him in anyway. he WILL just use you.
go out with your friends as often as possible and dont go to places where your likely to bump into him.
if you can get rid of the stuff he bought you and get rid of his pictures. maybe keep one in a safe place but not somewhere you are going to see it everyday.
a while ago i was told it takes 3months for every year that your with someone to fully get over them.
but im not sure if its true coz i have only been in one long term relationship and im still in it.
finally i have done this with nearly all my ex's and i find it helps loads.
write down a list of everything nasty he has ever said to you or about you or done to you and how you felt at the time. then everytime you start feeling that you miss him read the list it soon makes you see sence!
2006-11-15 05:07:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not something u can just get over in a days time.. if u really love this person why get over him... go and tell him how u feel or if u already have and he has moved on.. then u really just need to try.. maybe get together with some friends and hang out.... dont talk about him either.. makes the night go by terrible..
2006-11-15 04:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it' so hard getting over someone that you love. you need to keep occupied and don't talk to much about why it happened.
i split from my wife (now divorced) 2 years ago and even now I ask why & it still hurts. Every day does get better but you are allowed to cry. Look to going out with friends and eventualy you will find new love and happiness
Good Luck
Jeff x
2006-11-15 05:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by JEFF K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not that easy....
sorry can't really help you
but i also loved this guy for almost 10 years
all i just did is keep myself busy and set to my mind that he don't love me anymore.. and leave the past behind slowly... it's just a matter of acceptance... it really hurts but it's just for awhile, soon you'll be over it... just love yourself first for now.. good luck
2006-11-15 05:28:53 · answer #7 · answered by sky ^_^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time babe. Its hard but makes you stronger. Get dressed up, let your hair down, do stuff you wouldnt normally do. I moved country and everythin, travellin the world too! Met so many amazin new friends...
2006-11-15 06:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by mersie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive gottenover so many guy its unreal, it will happen trust me, one say ur think wow i aint thought about that person in ages lol and thats when ur over them
5 ways to get over them
cry
be with ur mates
hate them
time
keep busy
and the rest will just happen trust me its hard but its gunna be ok.. i promise
2006-11-15 09:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by sarah_squidge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hang around with another guy you like, that way you will quickly get over him, but sometimes it is not possible so the best option is to allow yourself to be with that guy but not if its really really impossible, you dont have to be hard on yourself.
2006-11-15 06:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that you have to but the best way is to go out have fun and get back in the game! keep yourself occupied sitting home watching the notebook is not gonna help!
2006-11-15 04:57:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋