If you've read my last q, you'd see what I mean about my dad's g/f and why I can't stand her, but if you haven't, my dad's g/f is THE MOST SELFISH person I have ever met, and EVERYTHING is about HER. It's ALWAYS got to be HER WAY. She is TOTALLY disrespectful, and grew up spoiled, and she is TERRIBLE mother who ALWAYS puts herself first, even before her family and God. She has sons, which my dad includes on outings, but she won't include me or my brother without griping and whining about something. She's a liar too, dad HATES liars, and she is VERY wasteful, TOO picky, and she ALWAYS gives my dad attitude and bitches at him. She can't do ANYTHING for herself, her daddy does EVERYTHING for her and he's disabled and lives across the street from her. She expects my dad to be there at the drop of a hat and won't let him have his way or what he wants. She expects EVERYTHING on a silver platter, but won't give ANYTHING in return. She's a damn 16 year-old in a 34 year-old body. What do I do?
2006-11-15 04:49:55 · 21 answers · asked by misssammyjo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and my dad says that he does care about her, and IS sick of her attitude, but something in his heart won't let him just dump her and not take her back, which just adds more to the headache. I think he's dating out of loneliness and that's not a way to go, but still? What do I say or do?
2006-11-15 04:58:57 · update #1
And I have been telling him how I feel too.
2006-11-15 05:00:41 · update #2
And yes, I HAVE calmly explained to him my opinion.
2006-11-15 05:06:54 · update #3
Call her old and ***** slap her. Hopefully your dad will get the hint and you get to smack her as a bonus.
2006-11-15 04:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The more you try to get rid of your dad's girlfriend, the more he is going to resent you interfering in his life. The best way that I know it's to find someone that he knows and trust and that is around his own age that knows how the Lady really is. You're just his little child and he's not going to listen to complaints because he just going to think that you are jealous or don't want him to have a personal life of his own. Believe me it's better that you don't say too much to him about her. Let someone else do the talking that he will listen to.
2006-11-15 05:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by buddyl52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a time in private to talk to your dad, and if your brother feels the same way, include him too. Tell him exactly how you feel, be calm about it and tell him that you don;t like her and everything you said on here. If he really cares about his children, he will at least listen to you. You have both known him your whole lives, and he has to trust the one that truly love him. Tell him you love him and respect his decisions, too.
2006-11-15 04:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by theprincess451 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad calmly and rationally about why you don't think she's right for him and your family. Don't just attack her, though. Other than that, let it go. You can't force him to dump her and it doesn't look like she's going anywhere, so just try to get along as best you can in the mean time.
2006-11-15 05:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you sit down and talk with your Dad. The thing is you need to state the facts and even though this is your Dad try to keep emtion out of it. You'll appear more mature and chances are he will be more likely to listen. Bottom line though - it's your Dad's choice so try and deal with it. Limit your exposure to her as much as possible and kill her with kindness.
2006-11-15 04:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum. well have u tried talkin 2 ur dad about how awful she is? im sure there is good in her somewhere and if u look deep enough u could find something nice bout her. but i would just talk 2 my dad about y u dont like her. chances r u cant get them 2 break up but if god is in control then everything will fall togther prefectly!!
2006-11-15 04:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Muhh-liss-Uhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why your dad likes her. Is it just the sex? Does your dad take pleasure in just being a slave to her? You're dad has some needs that she is fulfilling. So simply help your dad find other ways to feel fulfilled and make it so he doesn't depend on her for anything. Then once he doesn't need her and he realizes how bad she is for him, he will dump her and you will say "good decision dad."
2006-11-15 04:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dad has to wake up himself. Not much you can do about it if he hasn't backed you up thus far.
You could start some trouble though by telling him she slapped you or called you a bit** when he wasn't home. Its a lie of course, but his trust in her will certainly deplete if it doesnt cause him to end it.
2006-11-15 04:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think tell the truth to yr dad, is the best idea, have a talk n discuss abt the truth.let him see, whats going on.
2006-11-15 04:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Give him good reasons for why you feel this way. Try to make him understand your feelings, but don't be mean about it.
2006-11-15 04:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by AG3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋