Okay, I dated this guy for 9 months, we where engaged everything was going great, for a while! Than, he decided to start controlling my life and answering questions about where I was going! Okay, he is now living in Philly, Is it bad that I miss him and still wanna be with him?
2006-11-15 04:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its normal for you to miss him but you knew he wasnt good for you. Let yourself mourn the loss of the relationship. You have that right.
2006-11-15 04:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad that you miss him, however, if you were only together for 9 months, you are most likely grieving the loss of the attraction, not the person. It's always hard to let go, but, allow yourself the respect to know you are making the best choice for yourself in not being in an unhealthy relationship. You are strong and will live, it may be hard for a bit, but, you can do it.
2006-11-15 12:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ravenne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only bad if you don't like that kind of relationship. Some people like and need to be in a controlling relationship. Most people like some free will in their life while still sharing.
2006-11-15 12:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal but dont go around asking him to come back..its not worth it.
2006-11-15 12:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he have something wrong in his head...may be shoes inside
u have 2 go quickly to specialist
2006-11-15 12:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its normal...maybe he just wanted to know where youre going so you would be safe....why is that controlling?
2006-11-15 12:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2006-11-15 12:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋