This is probably my umpteenth question on the subject of getting a girlfriend. You see I never ever had one, and perhaps I starting to see why. I was ridiculed and shunned by girls in the past, perhaps because I dont conform to what they see as attractive- that usually the reason isn't it? I guess looks are the only reason anyone likes anyone these days, and they enter that person's soul AFTER they have given some rating to their looks. At present I do all the things I like doing- but those bad experiences seem to have confined me to many years of not trusting girls and, to be frank, afraid of them. It seems there is no-one to share or value or appreciate what I do, especially girls. Maybe it'll always be that way. Maybe thats how it was meant to be. And maybe I can live with that. Maybe fate wanted me to be lonely and unloved. What do you think?
2006-11-15 04:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, there is a someone for everyone. When girls are young they are really interested about the really good looking guy. The older they get this becomes less important. Keep your chin up. Start trusting girls again and talk to them. I am sure you will find someone that you can have a relationship with.
2006-11-15 04:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when ur 70 all old n weak, its good to have an old loving n caring wife besides u to chat with , probably thats when u need ur woman n ur woman needs u ,the most.
Other-wise I guess ur giving up on life n draems , too easily. Ok looks matter, but an avg.lookin guy with good attitude can get the best of chicks.Dont give up n dont quit n dont live for girls, live 4 urself n ur happiness, n women will indirectly me turned on by u.
2006-11-15 12:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been alone for most of my life. I never liked girls for about 33 of my 35 years in existence. I never wanted to marry for most of my life. It was through yahoo chat that I slowly started to chat and get acquainted with the opposite sex. It was just chat at first but then chatting with girls for two years made me change.
I even had a girl friend on-line and we were supposed to marry but I'm sorry to say we broke up. I am single again and well history just runs its course.
If a bachelor boy will remain a lifelong bachelor or not only time will tell. Most bachelor boys are bachelor boys till they fall in love one day. Loll !
2006-11-15 12:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're smart enough to make it on your own, yes, you can get along without a woman in your life. It's easier to live without a serious relationship — there's freedom to be had. Of course, you might feel better about it if you stop thinking "lonely and unloved" and start thinking "autonomous and independent."
2006-11-15 12:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u rule ure life and only u can change so quit worring about what people say and get out there and fine someone who likes u for u work on ure personality mabee that will help u everybody has a soulmate but it's up to u to find that special someone and when u find her treat her right make it work.
2006-11-15 12:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be lonely forever. If you are young you should count your blessings. Some of these younger girls out there nowadays are pretty raunchy..... Just don't look too hard. She will come to you!
2006-11-15 12:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I DON'T THINK SO, ALL IN DO TIMING. YOU DON'T WANT SOMEONE THAT CARES HOW YOU LOOK ANYWAYS. YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO CARES FOR YOU BECAUSE OF WHO U ARE. THERE SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE. IT'S GOING TO HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXCEPT IT. THEN YOU ARE GOING TO BE ON HERE SAYING I FOUND HER I FOUND HER AND SHE IS PERFECT. STAY TRUE TO YOUR SELF.
2006-11-15 12:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by rika_mama06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sorry bout that truth is thats how i am usually cause ur shy email me can chat llly_lil@yahoo.com
2006-11-15 12:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by lil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will manage. dont count on someone else to make you happy or complete.
2006-11-15 12:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man it aint your looks, grow some balls and have fun with them
2006-11-15 12:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋