how do you make someone want to be committed to you more?
2006-11-15 04:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by Panda Baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Commitment is more about communication and honesty than anything else. If you share the same values and ideas, then things work out. You can not FORCE someone to be with you, if you try, you will either end up pushing the person away, or forming a "leech" attraction with the person. Be yourself above all, and let things come as they may. On another front, you should know that no matter what kind of relationships you have, ALL of them take work, time and effort.
2006-11-15 04:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ravenne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each person has to decide for themselves when they are ready to take a step toward commitment. You cannot make someone commit to you or anything else. Commitment is a deep feeling and belief in something that only the individual can decide if they're ready for. As a relationship grows, a feeling of commitment should come naturally if it is right for you. Only time will answer your question...will he commit or won't he? If he's worth it to you...wait it out. If you need more...look elsewhere.
2006-11-15 12:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make someone be more committed, because if u did, it'd be fake. Someone has to want to be committed and not then their mind or feelings wander.. the only thing u could really do is make that someone wonder/realize what'd they'd be losing if they didn't become more committed
2006-11-15 12:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by yowkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is something that you cannot control, i mean you can be caring, loving, honest and faithful, you could do anything to make that person happy but that wont keep them from cheating on you or being committed to you. i suggest you avoid those type of men/people in the near future.
2006-11-15 12:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make anyone want to be committed to you. You have to express your feelings to that person and hope that they reciprocate your feelings. Understand that no one can be made to ddo anything. That person has to want to be committed or its no good.
2006-11-15 12:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to them how you feel and that maybe they should put more commitment into it than you are and just maybe they will see what you are saying and they will step up
2006-11-15 12:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make them. Why would you want to make them? Wouldnt you prefer they chose it freely so you know it's from the heart?
2006-11-15 12:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not something you can make someone do, they have to wanna do it!
2006-11-15 12:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Made! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. They have to decide it for themselves.
2006-11-15 12:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant
2006-11-15 12:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋