one of the problems is pre mature, he just cant keep that thing under control. previous bf was so much more experienced and adventoures i used to org at least once every time, now i am lucky if i get 3 orgs a year!
2006-11-15 04:15:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...and? Sounds more like a vent than a question.
2006-11-15 04:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by WHY? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have time and he has time, it can be a learning experience for both of you. Keep the lines of communication open, you guys should be able to talk about what works for you and what doesn't and what can be done to change things up a little. Also there are books, videos, that sort of thing that can help you guys. Another thing don't compare him with your previous boyfriend, if you do he may never match up. He's his own person, totally one of a kind.
2006-11-15 04:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you love him really deeply or not.
If you do then you could try to find a solution with him. He probably knows that he has a problem and - actually - it is a difficult one to treat.
However - there are ways for a guy to please the woman despite his early coming.
You can teach him - or you two should see an advisor.
If you only like him but do not deeply love him then I would say you should review wehter you want to stay with him. The decision will depend on how important sex is for you.
If sex is important for you in a relationship (and it is for many people, also for the ones who do not admit it) then you will be having an unhappy relationship with him.
One of my girlfriends once separated from the "perfect" man, who was everything for her, just the sex was like you described it. And there was no way to change it. So - she left. She now is in a happy relationship. For her sex matters a lot and so I think for her specifically she made the right decision.
I know that my opinion is not very popular but I know also for myself I could nto live with the "perfect" man who is a "lousy" lover.
2006-11-15 04:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by spaceskating_girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, that is something you will have to work on if you love the guy. But, I would advise you to think about how much sex means in your relationship. If you need to fulfill this area than I suggest asking yourself if you should just move on. He may be a nice guy and treat you good, but some things are just as important- though not always needed. If yes, than cut your losses and move on. You only live once, and you are allowed to be alittle greedy towards your sexual health.
2006-11-15 04:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by mattlayer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another one.Keep record. go on comparing . Some day you will find someone to give you 3 orgs each time but by then you will be -you know what!!!.
2006-11-15 04:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the relationship is based on the physical get out now quick before real feelings are built, I think sex should not determine a relationship but I also know that if a man/woman does not satisfy you eventually it is going to break up anyway
2006-11-15 04:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by jkfranklin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You women always put so much pressure and importance on this area of life. Is he a good guy? Does he treat you well? Someday you both will be at an age where you won't care anyway. So go find yourself Superman in bed, and he will probably be the one that cheats on you and does other nasty things. Think about it.
2006-11-15 04:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, okay, not sure if there's a question in here. For god's sake I hope you haven't pointed this out to him in fine detail, just tell him what you want. Have him try some Cialis or other chemical to treat the dysfunction. Good luck, or whatever rhymes with luck.
2006-11-15 04:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to instruct him.
He just doesn't know anything.
Also as for pre mature ijac.... Have him relieve himself a few mins before you start.
That should help.
2006-11-15 04:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a sensitive subject. Try and talk to him about it. There are many ED drugs on the market today that could help him if he is willing to try or maybe has deeper psychological issues that can't be fixed. Either way I would try and talk to him.
2006-11-15 04:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The key to great sex is communication. Tell him what you want him to do, where to touch, where not to touch etc. Talk to him during sex.......Also, try some roleplaying techniques with him. You are the whore, he is the customer......You are the schoolgirl and he is the teacher. Be open-minded and creative and talk to him.
2006-11-15 04:20:03 · answer #11 · answered by char_donnayy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋