Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

Met this guy, older than me, as time went on, I fell in love with him, he asked me to change my plans and be with him but I said no, then changed my mind, But when i told I changed my mind, he said no, he can't let me do that, that he was being selfish, He said he won't talk to me till next month. Not one single word. So what, Is this a break up or a time off. Each day hurts without him but he won't talk to me, I'm begining to think he's just finding an out from us. So, should I just forget him and move on, or should I wait till next month to hear from him, I really do suck at relationships, huh... I've gotten date offers and have turned them down. what if I wait for a month and find out he just wants it to end.. And then the by then I would have turned down dates that would have been nice to go oon.. Damn, Why is life so hard. What if I went on the dates and he finds out and thinks I'm cheating on our time off, Or is it cheating, complicted life, why can't it be simple

2006-11-15 03:51:38 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:50:23 · 22 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Singles & Dating

Two weeks ago my sister ask me to take her shopping for food becuase she didn't have any transportation n was all out of food. Now, she a recovering drug addict, bipolar, and she stay 15 mins from me and the rest of my family stay 45 min from us. Anyway I told her I would. So the next day came and I was so twisted up n so much crap that I forgot. She called me that falling evening and told me how hurt she was for not being there for her n I shoulda called her to let her know I wasn't going to make it. I felt so bad that I haven't talk to her since. I love my sister n I wanna let her know that I never ment to hurt her n wanna show her that she can count on me again. What do u think I can do heal this pain of ours?

2006-11-15 03:50:10 · 13 answers · asked by jayfrezzy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

where should i take my girlon vacation when i get back from iraq i need to start planning now cuz we live far from each other give me ideas people

2006-11-15 03:50:06 · 3 answers · asked by hamslice01 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:48:44 · 11 answers · asked by King Dong! 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never known my Biological Father never seen a picture & only very recently learnt his name. Upon asking my mother all these years i have been met with non compliance she refuses to talk even ignores i have ever said anythin about it & simply says my step father is my dad. I've had a step father at 3, At 6 (although technically he is my mother b/f) I took on his last name. At 16 he told me to change it back he doesn't want me in his family & dis-allowed my mother to see me. Since then no xmas, bdays, marriage, or my childrens birth have been spent with her. I have only recently become more intriqued by who my father is, what kind of man,he is, do i share his traits is there anythng (heriditary disease, etc.) from his side of the family i should know about? I haven't fully healed from the rejection from my family & i fear this may just to sought a place in a family.

2006-11-15 03:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by Baylee_J 2 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend going on eight years, and he has cheated on me MORE than a couple of times in that eight year relationship. I am totally crazy Jealous over him. He has been talking to a girl on MySpace, They have exchanged numbers. He say's they are just "Friends" and he is sorry I can't trust him and he would never cheat on me again. He hasn't in over a year, but I'm still afraid he will!! Should I try backing off some and how do I do that? Or what?? I don't know what to do, my being Jealous is hurting our relationship!! Please help!

2006-11-15 03:48:31 · 10 answers · asked by tree kay 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old and have a 18 year old g/f. Before we became a couple I have been dating a 37 year old with 3 kids. In the younger relationship there is no sex just a kiss every now in then. When i was dating the older women the sex was great! Now that im dating the younger one the older one wants me back.....what should I do?

2006-11-15 03:46:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's adopted but she has a nice body. Should I go ahead and hit on her?

2006-11-15 03:46:49 · 18 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Family

2006-11-15 03:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by guo z 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke up b/c he was messing with other girls!! i tried to move on and then he says he loves me now and that he wasnt sure b-4 but is now!!! i need some suggestions!!!

2006-11-15 03:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by toni nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

Do men prefer skinny ?How fat is too fat?

2006-11-15 03:46:05 · 57 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for a year with ups and down. i love him very much and i am going to be there for him. i just need a little bit of advice.

2006-11-15 03:45:57 · 48 answers · asked by jolie t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i have been with the same guy for 3 years and every year there is always something i know that he really wants for christmas. he is really into the cardinals and i wanted to get him something to do with them but i am not sure on what to get him..does anyone have an suggestions on what to get a man for christmas? he is 20 years old..please help me!

2006-11-15 03:45:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's a girl at work that I like alot but try to avoid because I know that getting to know her better will only cause me to fall in love with her and I certainly don't need that at work. The problem is she used to be really nice and sweet to me but since I have been more or less ignoring her she has become much closer to a person that she knows I dislike alot. They are always together at work and she is always laughing at everything he does regardless if it is funny or not. Unfortunelty it bothers me to see the two of them always together laughing and having a good time. Before when me and this coworker used to have arguements she would always side with me, but lately she has sided with him instead. I never wanted to like this girl but it turns out that I have strong feelings for her. Maybe she genuinely likes this guy but it seems to me she is just pushing my buttons because she knows I like her and can't stand seeing her with this guy.

2006-11-15 03:45:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we broke up b/c he was messing with other girls!! i tried to move on and then he says he loves me now and that he wasnt sure b-4 but is now!!! i need some suggestions!!!

2006-11-15 03:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by toni nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by rajeshvarirajeshvari 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This will take place on 2/10/2007. I want a nice modest place where to have it.

2006-11-15 03:43:59 · 4 answers · asked by Carmen R 1 in Weddings

and also...(guys please) what kind of colors do you like?

(not that I would do whatever a guy likes i'm just curious)

2006-11-15 03:43:51 · 25 answers · asked by roxanne 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:42:51 · 15 answers · asked by coachj444 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean i don't believe in astronomy i just want to see if the answer is what my girlfriend is

2006-11-15 03:42:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls, what male muscle(not organ) do you find most attractive, guys, what do you like to see on a woman's body, not necessarily a big muscles, but say for example a toned lower back...

(PS the muscles under the abs that make those 'lines' are called the serratus muscles, i usually call them the V-line muscles, coz they follow the shape of an upper V...Just so you know if u wanted to choose those, as they are quite popular..)

2006-11-15 03:42:08 · 14 answers · asked by Seb 2 in Singles & Dating

They were all willing to do it in a bed, not 20 feet away, I had no plans of "soiling" the one I had in mind. It was opulant and worthy of such a deed. I was being an opportunist, trying to bring the abstract to light. Love creates an energy, even tawdry sex, wht better place to let that flow than a container for the dead? Coffins are foreboding objects, why not transferr the power the have over us? I would be glad to know my own personal coffin had done more than roll off an asswmbly line into a showroom.

2006-11-15 03:42:03 · 1 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Singles & Dating

Last Week I told my crush that i liked him, and all he said was i'll think about it. This week he told other people that he thought i was pretty but as a friend. It crushed me a hole lot. Now my ex-boyfriend said in a happy voice, "HAHAHAHA he doesn't like you!" and now i am crying and feeling really bad. What should i do? Should i move on, or stay sitting down and feeling sorry for myself.

2006-11-15 03:41:37 · 20 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Friends

I'm black (if you cant tell) and my boyfriends white and we have been getting along for the past 7 months. But recently we discovered how different our cultures are and how we were raised and morally stand is getting in the way of our relationship. He feels his rude to tell friends your going to be late because you had something planned for your girlfriend first, I feel friends should be understanding. He thinks its annoying and immature to "act crazy" in a resturant when your in a group, I find its just a time to have fun. Those are one of the few things we argue about, is there any hope for us? Can we meet somewhere in the middle?

2006-11-15 03:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 03:40:55 · 17 answers · asked by friendly_love4 2 in Weddings

coz i really need to recover fast... i have this modelling opportunity in 2 days...this is a make or break for me

2006-11-15 03:40:40 · 19 answers · asked by jazz r 1 in Friends

The situation is I was laid off back in June and haven't been able to find employment since. I am drawing unemployment but it's not a lot. I try to help and pay what I can. He's mad because he always feels that he has to come to me for money and that I don't offer it and see if he needs help towards something. I love him so much and don't want him mad anymore. We haven't talked for a couple days now and I want him to understand that I do love him and would do anything to help him. He was really burned in the past by 2 ex's and I believe he carries resentment and thinks that I am going to do the same thing and I'm not.

2006-11-15 03:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by ncgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a crush,he is really shy
i wana let him no i like him b4 my bday comes up soon so i can invite him sumwere,how do i let him no,keepin in mind he is shy?
tell my friends and let them spread it around so he knows (i dnt no if thats a gd idea though) tell his friend and he'll tell him,tell my friend and tell him,or just invite him? i cant find a gd time to tell him myself,but if i do i will,but out of these or any of ur own ideas,plez tell me!! thanks,TEN POINTS 4 THE BEST! xx

2006-11-15 03:35:41 · 10 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

I would like your honest opinion on it or if you have had the experience of using the service to please share your thoughts.

I am considering using it for me and my boyfriend but want to get some background information before doing anything.

Has anyone used e-therapy? Anything helps! Thanks.

2006-11-15 03:35:08 · 18 answers · asked by Minouners 3 in Other - Family & Relationships