2006-11-15 03:50:23 · 22 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first time they lost it? Not the second, but the first. I didn't know you could lose it more than once.
2006-11-15 03:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't scared, or nervous... but I wanted to look good, so I shaved... everything. lol But, unfortunately... I had to fake my first time! And he said he was with 2 others before he was with me... I felt soo sorry for those girls. I had to keep making excuses as to why we couldn't anymore, and when he became a pest and that was all he wanted I knew I had to get rid of him. I stayed away from sex for quite a while after that! To me, my first impression was NOT the best. To all you guys out there... if you know it's the girls first time, try to make it good... don't go on thinking "Well, she has nothing to compare it to"
Sorry, Rosie, but you can lose it twice... technically it's once, but like I said here, I had to fake it... technically to lose it, your cherry breaks. Mine never did until I was with the second guy. My second time ever. Technically, I lost my virginity to someone that I faked it with, but actually, I lost it to someone that actually made me a non-virgin by breaking that cherry. It doesn't make sense, but it happens, and it's confusing. Doctors still saw me as a virgin after my first time. lol
2006-11-15 03:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by innocentkitty214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was scared really bad, i almost didnt go through with it, i kept thinkin, wait maybe i shouldnt, but i decided to anyway. In a way i regret not being able to say im a virgin but it has to happen sometime i guess. Being scared is natural tho, so if you are thinkin bout losin yours just make sure its not with someone you will regret
2006-11-15 03:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by luvable6891 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is sacred.....it shouldn't be thrown away just because it feels good and every one else is doing it. Everyone should be scared throwing away their sacred virginity if they are not married!
2006-11-15 03:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your definition sacred. Why cheapen a spiritual term by intertwining it with an purely human/anaimal behavior.
2006-11-15 03:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Timf4515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More nervous than scared. But I was older (21) so I was in love and didn't regret it like many friends that lost it in their teens.
2006-11-15 03:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by party_pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing as Elizabeth. I was just nervous, but I really love and trust my boyfriend, so I was ready. But I don't like the term "lose", because the way I see it, I didn't lose it, I GAVE it to him. I actually had to ask him to too: I knew he probably would have never have asked me out of respect. But I wanted to, and I knew he wanted to, so wo did and it's been wonderful ever since.
2006-11-15 06:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I still consider myself "sacred".
LOL..yeah, everyone's scared. It's normal. It's something new, it's going to be a little frightening.
2006-11-15 03:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just because the guy was like 6 years older than me. So I knew his hoo hoo was a monster. (plus the buldge in the pants didnt leave much to the imagination)
2006-11-15 03:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't scared because I waited for the right person and the right time.
2006-11-15 03:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by noyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋